Constructive

Definitions: (1) promoting further development or advancement; positive formation; (2) able or helping to erect or create; (3) building up and making better; serving to improve

Quote:
• You must not under any pretense allow your mind to dwell on any thought that is not positive, constructive, optimistic, or kind.  Emmet Fox (1886–1951) Irish spiritual leader
• You should tell yourself frequently ‘I will only react to constructive suggestions.’ This gives you positive ammunition against your own negative thoughts and those of others. — Dorothy Jane Roberts (1929–1984) American author

Question:
What are the foundations upon which to construct a solid personality? A few suggestions: curiosity, High ideals, insight, moral fiber, self-awareness.




Consonant

Definitions: (1) in agreement or harmony <usually with others>; accordant; congruous; consistent; (2) sympathetic vibration <said of musical tones, but can also be so with personalities> 

Synonyms: suitable, unified

Consideration: It can be argued that the purpose for existence is to mesh with or be more consistent with observable reality. Science defines itself in these terms: the more accurate the theory, the more in agreement with “reality” and therefore more accepted.
     Here, in our earth effort, the good as well as the bad (people) prosper or fail in what sometimes seems to be a haphazard way. Nonetheless, we know by experience the extent to which we are growing closer to, or moving farther away from, objective reality. After physical death we will get real proof of the results of our efforts. The initial fact of reawakening as our “self” will affirm some hope in the correctness of the hypothesis. If, on the other hand, some other theory of what is true proves to be correct, a different result will occur. Facts are the great foundation we rely upon. Once we have irrefutable new information, facts are the great changer of minds. If, say, the theory of nonconsciousness, or unconscious melding with an oversoul, proves to be true, we would not have much to decide. We wouldn’t know ourselves as individual conscious beings capable of arguing the effects or merits of various theories.
     My conviction is we will continue to experience reality as an individual entity. And yes, we will be in a different environment with new circumstances with a continuum of experience. In other words, we will wake up on the other side recognizing our existence, remembering our previous life, and continuing from where we left off. Our purpose will still be to make positive choices, thus guaranteeing sustained survival.

Symbol: an Ouroboros [a dragon or serpent biting its own tail]




Consistent

Definitions: (1) harmonious regularity or steady continuity; uniform; (2) conducting oneself in harmony with one’s belief, character, profession, or custom; (3) recognition of value through time

Derivation: Latin, “standing firm or still, existing”

Synonyms: accordant, changeless, consonant 

Balancing Qualities: Concern, Fairness, Tact, High-minded

Too Far: mediocrity
     Note: Qualities, often sacrificed in the name of consistency, are flexibility and individuality. In the attempt to be consistent, individuals as well as institutions can become staid and concrete, resulting in mediocrity and apathy.

Quote: The person we believe ourselves to be will always act in a manner consistent with our self-image. — Brian Tracy (1944-) Canadian-American motivational speaker

Reflection: You can remain consistent in the midst of continual and inevitable change if you are focused on positive qualities. They always adapt.

Comment: Most people know someone who they call strange or, at best, eccentric. That person may or may not be endearing in an odd sort of way, but if he or she is consistent, then it is easier for others to come to terms with their quirky nature.

Admonition: If you focus and work for good, you will have a dynamic consistency. Take a point of view appropriate, reasonable, and fair in the current situation. Don’t be concerned your view in the present situation appears to be different from your position in a similar but previous situation. Do not fear you will be criticized for promoting a different position in the future. Wisdom dictates you attend to what is right at this time and proceed with poise, honesty, and tact.




Considerate

Definitions: (1) showing kindly regard for the feelings or circumstances of others; thoughtful; (2) showing care; deliberate

Derivation: Latin, “examine,” (perhaps based on sidus: “star”)

Quotes:
• Being considerate of others will take your children further in life than any college degree. — Marian Wright Edelman (1939-) American civil rights activist
• Though force can protect in emergency, only justice, fairness, consideration, and cooperation can finally lead men to the dawn of eternal peace. — Dwight D. Eisenhower (1890-1969) 34th President of the United States




Conservative

Definitions: (1) inclined to preserve the existing order of things; traditional; (2) marked by moderate or cautious attitudes; safe; (3) a wise melding of the best from the past with the most promising of the future; prudent; (4) protect or maintained in its original state; a preservationist

Derivation: Late Middle English, “to keep safe from harm”

Balancing Qualities: Flexible, Liberal, Open

Too Far: afraid, closed

Familial Quality: kaitiakitanga <trusteeship or guardianship of the physical environment> — MĀORI

Quotes:
• The most radical revolutionary will become a conservative the day after the revolution. — Hannah Arendt (1906-1975) German-American historian
• You can’t conserve what you haven’t got. — Marjory Stoneman Douglas (1890–1998) American author, women’s suffrage advocate, & conservationist




Conscious

Definitions: (1) aware of one’s own existence and of external objects and conditions; (2) able to feel and think; awake; (3) sensitive of oneself as an alert being <knowing what one is doing and why>; (4) capable of, or marked by: thought, will, design, or perception; (5) able to see the light; (6) deliberate; intentional <a conscious effort to do better>deliberate; intentional <a conscious effort to do better>

Synonyms: apprised, cognizant, felt, known, sensible, scious <having knowledge>; supraliminal <above the level of consciousness>

Dictums:
• I AM that I AM. — God (∞ – ∞)
Cogito, ergo sum (Latin): “I think, therefore I am.” — Rene Descartes (1596-1650) French philosopher

Quotes:
• There is no end to consciousness; All things are glittering like stars in the firmament of our being. — Paramabansa Yogananda [born Mukunda Lal Ghosh] (1893-1952) Indian Hindu monk, yogi, & guru
• Our great human adventure is the evolution of consciousness. We are in this life to enlarge the soul and light up the brain. — Thomas “Tom” Eugene Robbins (1936-2025) American author
• Why do I persist in perceiving a central me at all! What is this consciousness that even now, as I think these thoughts, contemplates its own existence? — Glen David Brin (1950-) Earth {1990}
• People generally react to any new situation in one of four ways: Aha! Ho-hum, Oy Vey! and Yum-Yum. These illustrate the four basic states of consciousness…. All else is mere elaboration. — Glen David Brin (1950-) Earth {1990}
• Our ability to tell ourselves a silent narration about a future is the key to the modern conception of consciousness. — William H. Calvin (1939-) American theoretical neurophysiologist; The River That Runs Uphill: A Journey from the Big Bang to the Big Brain {1986}
     Note: Dr. Calvin goes on to say this need not be a verbal story; it can be a picture story – a silent movie.

Reflections:
• Everybody is moving, in consciousness, at their own personal pace. Each person can choose his or her own tempo of experiencing consciousness. Each person can move through the universe quickly or slowly. If you reach a critical “spiritual speed,” you will break free from inertia and become immortal.
• Is consciousness the measure of personal existence? If so, then you must experience consciousness in order to experience existence. I am conscious, therefore I am a person. The fact you personally experience your existence is the primary fact that personal consciousness does exist. If an entity never experiences its own existence in any objective way, it is not a person. Your existence, of course, goes beyond the physical. Ultimate existence is permanent.
• We all know we run on automatic most of the time. The longer your self-conscious (or, better yet, super-conscious) periods are, the more “life” is taking place. In order to exist in perpetuity, the separations between conscious wakeful moments must be decreased to zero. This is done by choosing to be conscious, not only awake but also alive.
     It is our positive thoughts and actions that increase the quantity of conscious time. Acting positively creates a personal soul that will continue to exist beyond the physical body. If your choices are positive, you are generating a subjective reality that meshes with objective reality.
• Is it also possible to consciously choose nonexistence? Because of freewill, one can create a separate subjective reality which only partially coincides with genuine objective reality. If one chooses to do negative things, and does so habitually, subjective reality is distorting objective reality. Since everything must have its ultimate existence inside actual reality, a personal subjective reality that moves itself completely outside of true reality will eventually cease to exist. One can spend his or her time closing off all the windows and doors that are the avenues through which one moves through reality. And when the last opening is completely shut, there is no light of life coming into or emanating from such a person. If one continually chooses evil, the negative drag will slow them down, and can eventually stop, any progress. In order to accomplish such a self-isolating envelope, one would have to consciously reject all positive reality, constituting a very sophisticated rejection system.

Comment:
Normally you are aware of one of four things – and only one of them at any one time.
1. Sensory contacts
2. Feelings
3. Thoughts
4. Memories
     Oftentimes the awareness can shift so rapidly it seems like you are experiencing more than one state in the same moment. Consider a kiss: you are feeling the tactile pleasures from your lips and other skin surfaces; you are feeling the love and appreciation coming into you from the other person; you are feeling the love and affection going out from you to the other person; you are remembering and fantasizing; and you may even recall you need to put the clothes into the dryer.
     This composite is the experience of the moment. But there is also the experience of the observer self, the superconscious or the higher self. You can literally be in two places at once – experiencing the now and experiencing the experience. In this sense you can be on more than one level at a time. As you experience the facts of your existence, whether they are painful or pleasurable, there is also the higher knowing and observing level of existence. This upper level is elucidating to you the objective reality of your experience. Your superconscious self focuses on everyday reality and evaluates it in terms of a higher reality. That “higher” reality is the purposes and values of your ever-changing subjective self in combination with your level of harmony (or disharmony) with Supreme Reality.

Consideration: Hindu esoteric thought holds there are seven “spirits” relative to each plane of human consciousness: sensation, emotion, reflection, intelligence, intuition, spirituality, and a will to imitation of the Divine.

Observation:
Reflective self-consciousness includes, among other things:
• Creative fiction or art
• Imagining the emulation others
• Accurate recognition of oneself in a mirror
• Picturing what the future will, or can, hold
• Viewing oneself from another’s point of view
• Seeing what you are doing when you are doing it
• Remembering, fairly accurately, what was done in the past
• Plans to turn potentials into actuals in areas of personal growth and goals attainment

Color: red

Symbols: 1) front; 2) right; 3) Saturn; 4) a mirror; 5) a window; 6) an island; 7) Jupiter {Superconscious}




Conscientious

Definitions: (1) paying meticulous attention to adhere to one’s moral sense governing all of one’s actions; careful; (2) influenced or governed by the known, accepted social and scientific principles of correct and incorrect; scrupulous; (3) inclined to honor the internal rules of right and wrong; honest

Compatible Qualities: logical, reasonable

Quotes:
• Never should an unfamiliar word be passed over without elucidation, for, with a little conscientious research, we may each day add to our conquests in the realm of philology and become more and more ready for graceful independent expression. — Howard Phillips Lovecraft (1890–1937) American writer
• Good parents must defer many of their own needs and desires in favor of the needs of their children. As a consequence of this sacrifice, conscientious parents develop a nobility of character and learn to put into practice the selfless truths taught by the Savior Himself. — James Esdras Faust (1920–2007) American LDS leader & lawyer




Conscience

Definitions: (1) the knowledge – or feeling – of right and wrong; (2) the faculty, power, or principle of a person which decides on the morality of their actions; (3) the criticism of oneself by one’s own value-habits – personal positive ideals; (4) the compulsion to act with the intention of doing good 
     See also: Upright

Derivation: Latin, “with knowledge”

Quote: When will our conscience grow so tender that we will act to prevent human misery rather than avenge it? — Eleanor Roosevelt (1884-1962) Chairperson of the United Nations Commission on Human Rights

Consideration: We use the measurement of personal positive ideals to criticize ourselves or others. In judging another, use their own standard of “personal positive ideals” rather than yours.

Observation: If you want to know what matters most to someone, look at their habits. No one keeps doing things they hate, not long-term. Their behavior may be despicable but they justify it to themselves – usually through a self-centered self-argument.




Connected

Definitions: (1) coherently combined meanings; logically linked ideas; (2) an appropriate relationship, socially, physically, or professionally; interconnected; (3) a thorough set with all parts harmoniously united; joined together in a proper order <as the precise fit of a mosaic or puzzle>; quick-connecting

Quotes:
• The human brain has 100 billion neurons, each neuron connected to 10 thousand other neurons. Sitting on your shoulders is the most complicated object in the known universe. — Michio Kaku (1947-) American theoretical physicist
     Note: Of course “the known universe” keeps on expanding. And the mind is a much larger matrix than the brain.
• The brain contains no material other than its own channels and switch-ways. Thoughts can be about pigs or coconuts, but there are no pigs or coconuts in the brain. In the mind there are no neurons, only ideas of pigs and coconuts. — Gregory Bateson (1904–1980) English anthropologist, semiotician, & cyberneticist

Comment: Our connections are of three natures: personal, mental, and spiritual. We are connected with our fellows through family, friendship, and many other associations. The mind, on the other hand, looks to connect ideas, stories, and experiences. And the soul loves to connect ideals. We can make these bridges with logic, mathematics, or even intuitive faith leaps.




Congruous

Definitions: (1) corresponding to what is right, proper, or reasonable; suitable; (2) conforming to the circumstances or requirements of a situation; fitting; (3) agreeing in nature or qualities; harmonious

Derivation: Latin, “to come together”

Synonyms: commingle, to forge a bond

Quotes:
• Coming together is a beginning; keeping together is progress; working together is success. — Edward Everett Hale (1822–1909) American author
• A dream you dream alone is only a dream. A dream you dream together is reality. — Yoko Ono (1933-) Japanese-American multimedia artist, songwriter, & peace activist