Positive Qualities – Brotherly & Accommodating

The past is already incorporated in me. — Dr. George Sheehan (1918-1993) Cardiologist

We do have some language difficulties. This week’s qualities are Brotherly and Accommodating. In order to be accommodating I have also added “Sisterly” below. Maybe I should put both of them under siblingesque. Have a good week.

Peace,
Jim

            BROTHERLY

Definitions: (1) like or befitting a sibling; affectionate; kind; (2) having a good relationship with or among men; fraternal; loyal

Familial Quality: sisterly

Comment: “The brotherhood of man” denotes all people but may not sound like it to our modern ears. I am aware of the problem with our language, i.e., “We are all sons of God the Father.” Certainly, by now, we all realize God is not a male or female entity. Nonetheless, it does needs to be said: God is Goodness and all Gods are one God.

(I am adding “Sisterly” as well.)
            SISTERLY

Definition: affectionate <as the intimate kindness of a sister>; characterizing congenial or loyal relationship with or among siblings or women

Familial Quality: brotherly

            ACCOMMODATING

Definitions: (1) obliging; disposed to make adjustments in order to comply; (2) able to adapt to varying conditions; (3) staying in line with another’s expectations; (4) adjusting differences; bringing into agreement or accord; reconciling; (5) giving consideration to; satisfying a need; (6) making <an attitude or some thing> fit, suitable, or comfortable; (7) furnishing with something desired, needed, or suited

Synonyms: helpful, serving, yielding

Balancing Qualities: free, independent

Observation: The universe will accommodate your version of reality – to the extent that it can.

Suggestion: While being accommodating, be encouraging, supportive, and tolerant as well. If the person you are accommodating refuses to grow or is, in your opinion, growing too slowly, you may get frustrated. But as long as the person is moving, even a little, be patient and helpful.

Comparison to your expected rate of progress is inevitable, yet it may be best to disregard that judgment in favor of assessing their development in relation to their own methods and measurements.

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