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Definitions: (1) able to manage one’s own temperament; self-control; (2) able to curtail one’s own appetites <especially restraint in order to keep within (social or moral) bounds>; (3) exercising authority over one’s self or others; in command

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Compatible Quality: self-forgetful

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Poetry:
Give every man thine ear, but few thy voice;
Take each man’s censure, but reserve thy judgment.
— William Shakespeare (1564-1616) Hamlet

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Quote: Rare is the person who can weigh the faults of others without putting his thumb on the scales. — Byron J. Langenfeld

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Reflections:
• You cannot control the facts of the past. But you can control your attitude toward the facts of the past. You can control your attitude and judgment about the present and what you will do in the future. You cannot control what other people do, or how they think, or who they are. You can influence them, but only if they are willing or susceptible to your example or power.

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Recognize what you actually have control over and what you do not have control of. It is useless to try to control what is not yours to control.

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• There is also negative control: fear, torture, sleep deprivation, threats of harm to loved ones, threats of loss of job, or loss of life. If one is to encompass the positive aspects of control one needs to persuade with logic, emotion, spiritual flavor, experience, love, nurturing, and so on, to help others recognize their own values and move forward at their own pace.

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Christ suggested we love our enemies. If we do, we will help them, just as we would our friends, get in touch with their divine selves. We find ourselves within an evolutionary process. Progress is truer if it is focused on the...

Definitions: (1) to make a situation better or even perfect; (2) having a set of qualities essential for the team to operated more efficiently

Quote: After mutual respect and understanding are achieved, it is possible to establish real, sincere relationships, which is the foundation of a solid long-term collaboration. — Ronald John Garan Jr. (1961-) NASA astronaut

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We, the Member States of the Alliance of Small Island States (AOSIS), meeting in New York this 27th day of September 2012,

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Recalling the Charter of the United Nations, and reaffirming the principle of the sovereign equality of all nations;

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Reaffirming further the 1972 Stockholm Declaration, the 1992 Rio Declaration and the 2012 Rio+20 outcome document, “ The future we want”;

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Reaffirming that the Barbados Programme of Action (BPOA) and the Mauritius Strategy of Implementation (MSI) remain the essential blueprints for addressing the sustainable development needs of Small Island Developing States (SIDS). In this regard, we remain fully committed to ensuring the full and effective implementation of the BPOA and the MSI and we urge our development partners to provide, in a timely and predictable manner, financial and technical support to ensure the successful implementation of the BPOA and MSI;

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Reaffirming that SIDS remain a special case for sustainable development in view of our unique and particular vulnerabilities, including our small size, remoteness, narrow resource and export base, and exposure to global environmental challenges and external economic shocks, including to a large range of impacts from climate change and more frequent and intense natural disasters;

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Welcoming the Third Global Conference for the Sustainable Development of Small Island Developing States in 2014 to inter alia, seek a renewed political commitment by the international community, be action oriented and mobilize resources. We call on the international community to support this conference;

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Calling on the United Nations General Assembly to designate 2014 as the International Year of Small Island Developing States to raise...

We, the Heads of African States and Governments assembled in the City of Addis Ababa, Ethiopia,
Convinced that it is the inalienable right of all people to control their own destiny,
Conscious of the fact that freedom, equality, justice and dignity are essential objectives for the achievement of the legitimate aspirations of the African peoples,
Conscious of our responsibility to harness the natural and human resources of our continent for the total advancement of our peoples in all spheres of human endeavour,
Inspired by a common determination to promote understanding among our peoples and cooperation among our states in response to the aspirations of our peoples for brother-hood and solidarity, in a larger unity transcending ethnic and national differences,
Convinced that, in order to translate this determination into a dynamic force in the cause of human progress, conditions for peace and security must be established and maintained,
Determined to safeguard and consolidate the hard-won independence as well as the sovereignty and territorial integrity of our states, and to fight against neo- colonialism in all its forms,
Dedicated to the general progress of Africa,
Persuaded that the Charter of the United Nations and the Universal Declaration of Human Rights, to the Principles of which we reaffirm our adherence, provide a solid foundation for peaceful and positive cooperation among States,
Desirous that all African States should henceforth unite so that the welfare and well- being of their peoples can be assured,
Resolved to reinforce the links between our states by establishing and strengthening common institutions,

Have agreed to the present Charter.

The Parties to this Treaty reaffirm their faith in the purposes and principles of the Charter of the United Nations and their desire to live in peace with all peoples and all governments.

They are determined to safeguard the freedom, common heritage and civilisation of their peoples, founded on the principles of democracy, individual liberty and the rule of law. They seek to promote stability and well-being in the North Atlantic area.

They are resolved to unite their efforts for collective defence and for the preservation of peace and security. They therefore agree to this North Atlantic Treaty :

Stemming from the Arab Nation's faith in the dignity of man; from when God favoured it by making the Arab nation the cradle of monotheistic religions and the birthplace of civilisation; which has reaffirmed [man's] right to a life of dignity based on freedom, justice and peace.

Having achieved the everlasting principles established by the Islamic Shari'a and the other divine religions enshrined in brotherhood and equality amongst human beings.

Cherishing the humanitarian values and principles which [the Arab Nation] has established throughout its long history, having had a major role in spreading centres of knowledge between East and West, and made it the destination of people from all over the world and of those seeking knowledge, culture and wisdom.

For the Arab World, from one end to the other, has continued to call for preserving its belief, having faith in its unity, struggling for its freedom, defending the right of nations to self determination and to preserve their wealth, and believing in the Rule of Law, and that mankind's enjoyment of freedom, justice and equal opportunity is the hallmark of the profound essence of any society.

Rejecting racism and Zionism, both of which constitute a violation of human rights and a threat to world peace.

Recognising the close link between human rights and world peace.

Reaffirming the principles of the United Nations Charter, the Universal Declaration of Human Rights, the provisions of the two United Nations International Convenants, on Civil and Political Rights and on Economic, Social and Cultural Rights, and the Cairo Declaration on Human Rights in Islam.

Affirming all the above, [these governments] agree to the following:

IN THE NAME OF THEIR PEOPLES, THE STATES REPRESENTED AT THE

NINTH INTERNATIONAL CONFERENCE OF AMERICAN STATES,

Convinced that the historic mission of America is to offer to man a land of liberty and a favorable environment for the development of his personality and the realization of his just aspirations;

Conscious that that mission has already inspired numerous agreements, whose essential value lies in the desire of the American peoples to live together in peace and, through their mutual understanding and respect for the sovereignty of each one, to provide for the betterment of all, in independence, in equality and under law;

Convinced that representative democracy is an indispensable condition for the stability, peace and development of the region;

Confident that the true significance of American solidarity and good neighborliness can only mean the consolidation on this continent, within the framework of democratic institutions, of a system of individual liberty and social justice based on respect for the essential rights of man;

Persuaded that their welfare and their contribution to the progress and the civilization of the world will increasingly require intensive continental cooperation;

Resolved to persevere in the noble undertaking that humanity has conferred upon the United Nations, whose principles and purposes they solemnly reaffirm;

Convinced that juridical organization is a necessary condition for security and peace founded on moral order and on justice; and

In accordance with Resolution IX of the Inter-American Conference on Problems of War and Peace, held in Mexico City,

HAVE AGREED upon the following

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The peoples of Europe, in creating an ever closer union among them, are resolved to share a peaceful future based on common values.

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Conscious of its spiritual and moral heritage, the Union is founded on the indivisible, universal values of human dignity, freedom, equality and solidarity; it is based on the principles of democracy and the rule of law. It places the individual at the heart of its activities, by establishing the citizenship of the Union and by creating an area of freedom, security and justice.

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The Union contributes to the preservation and to the development of these common values while respecting the diversity of the cultures and traditions of the peoples of Europe as well as the national identities of the Member States and the organisation of their public authorities at national, regional and local levels; it seeks to promote balanced and sustainable development and ensures free movement of persons, services, goods and capital, and the freedom of establishment.

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To this end, it is necessary to strengthen the protection of fundamental rights in the light of changes in society, social progress and scientific and technological developments by making those rights more visible in a Charter.

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This Charter reaffirms, with due regard for the powers and tasks of the Union and for the principle of subsidiarity, the rights as they result, in particular, from the constitutional traditions and international obligations common to the Member States, the European Convention for the Protection of Human Rights and Fundamental Freedoms, the Social Charters adopted by the Union and by the Council of Europe and the case-law of the Court of Justice of the European Communities and of the European Court of Human Rights. In this context the Charter will be interpreted by the courts of the...

WE THE PEOPLES OF THE UNITED NATIONS DETERMINED

• to save succeeding generations from the scourge of war, which twice in our lifetime has brought untold sorrow to mankind, and
• to regain faith in fundamental human rights, in the dignity and worth of the human person, in the equal rights of men and women and of nations large and small, and
• to establish conditions under which justice and respect for the obligations arising from treaties and other sources of international law can be maintained, and
• to promote social progress and better standards of life in larger freedom,

AND FOR THESE ENDS

• to practice tolerance and live together in peace with one another as good neighbours, and
• to unite our strength to maintain international peace and security, and
• to ensure, by the acceptance of principles and the institution of methods, that armed force shall not be used, save in the common interest, and
• to employ international machinery for the promotion of the economic and social advancement of all peoples,

HAVE RESOLVED TO COMBINE OUR EFFORTS TO ACCOMPLISH THESE AIMS

Accordingly, our respective Governments, through representatives assembled in the city of San Francisco, who have exhibited their full powers found to be in good and due form, have agreed to the present Charter of the United Nations and do hereby establish an international organization to be known as the United Nations.

"We the people of the United States, in order to form a more perfect union, establish justice, insure domestic tranquility, provide for the common defense, promote the general welfare, and secure the blessings of liberty to ourselves and our posterity, do ordain and establish this Constitution for the United States of America." — The Committee on Style led by Gouverneur Morris (1752-1816) American statesman, a Founding Father of the United States, and a signatory to the Articles of Confederation and the United States Constitution
Note about Morris: While most Americans still thought of themselves as citizens of their respective states, Morris advanced the idea of being a citizen of a single union of states. He was also one of the most outspoken opponents of slavery among those who were present at the Constitutional Congress which took place in Philadelphia from May 25 to September 17, 1787. He was a signatory to the Articles of Confederation and the United States Constitution

Comment: The Preamble to the Constitution is an introductory, succinct statement of the principles at work in the full text. It is referred to in countless speeches, judicial opinions, and in a song from Schoolhouse Rock. Courts will not interpret the Preamble to confer any rights or powers not granted specifically in the Constitution. — Legal Information Institute of Cornell Law School

Definitions: (1) causing, feeling, or expressing thanks; appreciative; (2) affording pleasure; agreeable; acceptable

Synonym: refreshing

Prayer:
Gratitude to Mother Earth – sailing through night and day and to her soul, rich, rare, and sweet.
Gratitude to plants – facing light, changing leaf, and fine root hairs, standing still through wind and rain.
Gratitude to air – bearing the soaring, the swift, and the silent owl at dawn.
Gratitude to wild beings – our brothers, teaching secret ways of freedom; who share with us their milk, their self – complete, brave, and aware.
Gratitude to water, clouds, lakes, and glaciers – holding or releasing, streaming through all our bodies salty seas.
Gratitude to the sun – blinding pulsing light through trunks of trees, through mists, warming caves where bears and snakes sleep.
Gratitude to the great sky – holding billions of stars – and yet goes beyond, beyond all powers and thoughts – and yet is within us. — Mohawk, The People of the Shards of Light

Comment: Gratitude is a key to abundance, fulfillment, and a happy life. Gratitude is a general antidote to any downward spiral of stress, depression, or conflict. Even when a painful or melancholy attitude is upon you, with gratitude you have a lifeline to the surface. You will still have to deal with the difficulties at hand, but you will be able to do so with a more chipper outlook.

Cultivate the attitude of gratitude.

Symbol: lisianthus flowers

Definitions: (1) characterized by or expressing kindly feelings; (2) desiring to help others; charitable

Synonyms: beneficent, benign, bounteous, generous, goodwilled, humanitarian, kindhearted, kindly, tender, munificent, philanthropic

Observation: Only an advanced civilization recognizes a consistently even-tempered and benevolent God.

Divine Definitions: (1) The ability of The Creator to be close to His creation; to be intimate with every creature; (2) Potential for both The Creator and the created to move toward each other; (3) Possible for the created to emulate The Creator in character or quality; (4) Having easy and open access; friendly; (5) Able to be appreciated; (6) Able to be contacted; findable; (7) Worthy of being prayed to

Comments:
• Several qualities attributed to God are His only in relation to others. God is accessible to His family of created beings. We exist. He exists. He wants the best for us; therefore, He has designed the universe so we can choose to approach His perfection.

• Considering the infinite distance, we have to go, the best we can do in this lifetime in our attempt to approach God is to face the right direction. He does everything he can to help us find Him. No matter how close to The Absolute we may get, there will always be an absolute distance to go.

WELCOMING
Human Definitions: (1) having easy and open access to; approachable; friendly; intimate; (2) receiving with gladness or delight <you are always welcome>; courteous, cordial; (3) able to be contacted, appreciated, or discovered

Observation: A welcoming person projects an air of friendliness by putting others at ease.

Definitions: (1) like an angel in beauty, goodness, innocence, purity, or kindness (2) having spiritual qualities; heavenly-minded

Derivation: “El" is the Jewish name for God. ‘El’ is added to many names. Examples: Angel = messenger of God; Ariel = Lion of God; Daniel = God is my judge; Gabriel = God is my strength; Haniel = God is my grace; Raziel = God is my mystery; Sariel = God is my ruler; Uriel = God is my flame.

Quotes:
• Every blade of grass has its angel that bends over it and whispers, “Grow, grow.” — The Talmud

• Make friends with the angels who, though invisible, are always with you. — Saint Francis de Sales (1567-1622) Preacher and Writer

Comment: How angels serve humans may not be what you think – but what you need. 

Symbol: babies breath flowers

Definitions: (1) rising above or going beyond limits; extending ordinary experience; surpassing; (2) the potential actualized of physical, mental, and spiritual reality; (3) exceeding in excellence; supreme; superior; (4) not constrained by subjective understanding, conjecture, or experience; objective; (5) said of the Divine Being <i.e., prior to, beyond, and above material existence>; independent of the universe

Quote: Spiritual transcendence is never satisfied; its potential is unlimited. — Abraham Maslow (1908-1970) American Psychologist

Comments:

• One can know truth, not only in an intellectual sense but also in an ontological sense. There are perceptions beyond scientific or philosophical keening.

• It has become common to think transcendence means to leave what is unwanted behind. It would be unwise, and therefore less valuable, to forget our hard-earned lessons – better to bring everything along as your true and full experience. In genetics “junk” DNA is an important part of our basic structure, even though entire species which created these unique traits are long extinct. We learn and grow from our mistakes as well as from our successes.

Definitions: (1) making intentional progress toward a desired goal; (2) taking step, small of large, in the right direction; (3) creative thinking to make real a dynamic vision; dreaming; (4) that which stirs the soul; impressive; (5) keeping up with a modern milieu; (6) taking the best of the past into the future; (7) arousing tenderness or compassion; (8) physical, emotional, mental, or spiritual growth

Quotes:
• Do not the most moving moments of our lives find us without words? — Marcel Marceau (1923-2007) French actor and mime

• If you board the wrong train, it is no use running along the corridor in the other direction. — Dietrich Bonhoeffer (1906-1945) German Lutheran theologian

Analogies:
• Driving down the golden road.
• Slipping, sliding, and slithering through the slush.

Affirmation: I am grateful for all the moments that I have, and I'm moving forward one step at a time to the future. — Park Bo-gum (1993-) South Korean actor

Divine Definitions: (1) God fills all and knows all; comprehensive; (2) Extant through finite evolution up to Universe Destiny; (3) The instigator of the growth of personalities and the amplifier of reality; (4) Possessing the largest measure of benevolence; the most broad-minded; (5) Possessing the maximum of magnificence in generosity, open-heartedness, and sympathy; (6) Abundant; stupendous; (7) Spreading out; unfolding

Comment: God has given people the ability to turn potentials into actuals, i.e., growth. The potentials in an infinite universe are limitless therefore growth is ever-expansive – forever. Our capacity is ever-increasing.

We will eventually be able to revisit all of the possibilities we missed due to circumstances, negligence, or poor choices. We will be given a chance to accomplish all of the opportunities we left unfulfilled.

Definitions: (1) dignity of personality or character; august; noble; (2) splendid; elevated; stately; (3) admirably magnanimous

Derivation: Old French, “grandeur,” “greatness”

Synonyms: august, composed, esteemed, prestigious

Quote: The human face is the organic seat of beauty. It is the register of value in development, a record of Experience, whose legitimate office is to perfect the life, a legible language to those who will study it, of the majestic mistress, the soul. — Eliza Farnham (1815–1864) American novelist

Definitions: (1) the facility to move smoothly from one thing to another; (2) able to think and reason abstractly – and yet logically - to solve problems; fluid-minded; (3) the natural talent to navigate an easy path forward or through; coming up with problem-solving strategies

Too Far: crass Latin: “solid,” “thick”

Saying: Go with the flow.

Definitions: (1) having similar ideas, tastes, thoughts, or opinions; (2) in sync on purpose, ideals, or habit; compatible

Quote: A small group of determined and like-minded people can change the course of history. - Mahatma Gandhi (1869-1948) Indian lawyer and activist

Comment: The primary thought patterns of the human race as a whole is the reality we so often complain about.

Definition: a delight in being alive; carefree, buoyant enjoyment

Derivation: French, “joy of living”

Comment: Living is not often as joyous as the idiom implies. None-the-less it is worth trying to make the best of what comes. Every experience is valuable in some way.

Symbol: a full head of hair

Definitions: (1) persuasive and moving expression; (2) vividly and artfully revealing

Symbol: The Roman god Mercury had to be eloquent as a mediator and during commerce.

Symbol: jasmine flowers

Definition: practical; realistic; straightforward

Quote: While we live our bodies are moving particles of the earth, joined inextricably both to the soil and to the bodies of other living creatures. It is hardly surprising, then, that there should be some profound resemblances between our treatment of our bodies and our treatment of the earth. — Wendell Berry (1934 -) Sixth generation Kentucky Farmer

Symbols: 1) the cube; 2) the square; 3) the number four

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Definitions: (1) characterizes one who gives up resentment, stops anger, or pardons wrongs (or perceived wrongs); reconciliation; (2) giving up all claim to punish or exact a penalty; overlooking or abandoning vengeful feelings

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Synonyms: absolving, exculpating, excusing, exonerating, releasing

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Balancing Qualities: Communication, Imagination

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Familial Qualities: acceptance, tolerance

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Significant Date: International forgiveness week is the first week of February.

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Sayings:
• Ira furor brevis est (Latin): “Anger is a brief madness.”
• To err is human; to forgive, divine. — Alexander Pope (1688-1744) English Poet

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Proverb: Anger is as a stone cast into a wasp’s nest. — Malabar

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Quotes:
• Forgiveness is the fragrance of the violet that clings fast to the heel that crushed it. — George Roemisch

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• Forgiveness can purify memory. It can travel through time and history breathing life into the killing fields, into the collective soul of nations, into the lives of its brutalized citizens. — Pope John Paul II [born Karol Józef Wojtyła] (1920-2005) the 264^th Pope of the Roman Catholic Church

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• If you’re harboring the slightest bitterness toward anyone, or any unkind thoughts of any sort whatsoever, you must get rid of them quickly. They aren’t hurting anyone but you. It is said that hate injures the hater not the hated. — Peace Pilgrim [born Mildred Lisette Norman] (1908-1981) Steps Toward Inner Peace

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• Nature does abhor a vacuum, and when you begin moving out of your life what you do not want, you automatically are making way for what you do want. By...

Definitions: (1) possessing the power of seeing beforehand; prescience; (2) having thoughtful regard or provision for the future; prudent forethought; (3) exhibiting the ability to project to oneself and others the consequences of actions taken

Quote: Lacking foresight, evolution is simply opportunistic, retaining those features that were available when opportunity knocked. … It even created the capacity for music and poetry and humor – somehow. — William H. Calvin (1939-) American theoretical neurophysiologist; The River That Flows Uphill

Comment: All of the confusion, frustration, and sorrow caused by war, greed, corruption, and ignorance have a hope of being mitigated if large numbers of people, individually, decide to focus on some general good. People may turn to the positive because they are tired of the misery they have wrought upon themselves and others. We can have the foresight to seek the light beyond our own desires.

The most permanent of these disasters is the ongoing destruction of plants, animals, and habitats which may take another hundred generations to rebuild if they come back at all.

We need to extend our vision into the future. But more importantly we need to extend our love and concern to those people who will be facing these sad consequences. After all, they are our children.

Definition: self-controlled when subject to annoyance or provocation; patient; long-suffering

Familial Qualities: determined, stick-to-itive

Comment: Forbearance is greater than tolerance, greater than patience, greater, even, than long-suffering. It includes a clarity of understanding, and a knowing faith, in the truth that all things work together for the greatest good.

Symbol: the ox

Definition: being of the very best quality; exceptionally good; first-class; of great worth; superior; admirable

Synonyms: choice, prime, sterling, transcendent

Quotes:
• When you write down your ideas you automatically focus your full attention on them. Few if any of us can write one thought and think another at the same time. Thus a pencil and paper make excellent concentration tools. — Michael LeBoeuf (1942-) American business author

• Persistence is the twin sister of excellence. One is a matter of quality; the other, a matter of time. — Habeeb Akande, British-Nigerian writer

Definition: irresistibly attractive; bewitching; fascinating

Synonyms: captivating, enrapturing, entrancing, ravishing

Compatible Quality: trusting

Symbol: sweet william flowers

Definitions: (1) grace and dignified in fine design, manner, or style; luxurious in a restrained, tasteful way; first-rate; (2) characterized by a sense of propriety and refinement; fastidious; (3) excellent

Quote: Genius ain't anything more than elegant common sense. — Josh Billings [[born Henry Wheeler Shaw] (1818-1885) American humorist

Definitions: (1) preparation of the mental, moral, and physical powers by instruction, self-management, and exercise; (2) the result of training; self-control; orderly conduct

Synonyms: correct, educate, regulate

Compatible Qualities: commitment, striving

Quotes:
• Seek freedom and become captive to your desires. Seek discipline and find your liberty. — Frank Herbert (1920-1986) Chapterhouse Dune

• Discipline is the bridge between thought and accomplishment ... the bridge between inspiration and value achievement ... the bridge between necessity and productivity. — Jim Rohn (1930-2009) American Motivational Speaker

Advice: What time of day are you the sharpest, most energetic, most clear-headed? Are you a morning person or a late-night person? Don’t fritter away this valuable time with mundane or routine tasks. Do the most difficult and important things at your optimum time.

Questions:
• What must I do?
• What will it take?
• Who must I become?

Symbol: the yoke

Definitions: (1) of high repute; worthy of honor; esteemed; noble; (2) loftiness of appearance or manner; stately; (3) calm self-possession and self-respect

Color: violet

Symbol: sun-shade (Chinese)

Fictional Figure: Hermione is an example of “dignity without pride, love without passion, and tenderness without weakness.” — William Shakespeare (1564-1616) The Winter’s Tale

Definitions: (1) yielding to influence; tractable; (2) capable of responding or conforming to changing or new situations; (3) adaptable physically, emotionally, or mentally

Synonyms: pliable, pliant, supple

Too Far: wishy-washy

Quote: Most moral codes say “either-or” . . . while the universe itself seems to be filled instead with a whole lot of “maybes.” — David Brin (1950 -) Earth

Reflection: Flexibility can be experienced on many levels. On the physical, a flexible set of muscles helps in your supple and graceful movement. On the intellectual/emotional, flexibility is essential for dealing with the variability of life’s situations and interactions with other people. And spiritually when one acquires a broad and balanced set of positive qualities, flexibility is an inevitable result.

Comments:
• Prisoners of war who survived first decided to survive and then were flexible enough to do and be whatever it took to survive.

• People have an incredible capacity to juxtapose seemingly impossible concepts in their psyche, such as killing for peace or cheating for success. Be aware of these incongruities and inconsistencies. If you find you are justifying a point of view, you could take that as a clue; you may be forcing a fit.

Definitions: (1) worthy of great respect; highly regarded; estimable; (2) motivated by principles of honor with a scrupulous regard to probity, rectitude, or reputation

Synonyms: dignity, nobility, renown, spirit, upright

Quote: What is honored in a country is cultivated there. — Plato (428-348 bc) Greek Philosopher
Note also: What is honored in the self is also cultivated there.

Symbol: the turtle

Definitions: (1) using or showing vision, creativity, or productive talent; (2) able to conceptualize or feel a situation other than that within one’s personal experience

Synonyms: conceptive, ideal, inventive, original, poetical, romantic

Too Far: Imagination taken to an animated level becomes fantasy. Fantasy taken too far makes for an unreal inner world. Balance your fantasy with hands-on experience and follow-through.

Quotes:
• What is now proved was once imagined. — William Blake (1757-1827) English Poet

• Imagination is more important than knowledge. — Albert Einstein (1879-1955) German-American Physicist

• Most people look at what is and never see what can be. — Albert Einstein (1879-1955) German-American Physicist

• Don’t rely on words or equations until you can picture the idea they represent. — Lewis C. Epstein and Paul G. Hewitt (1930 -) American physicist

• You can find in a text whatever you bring, if you will stand between it and the mirror of your imagination. You may not see your ears but they are there. — Mark Twain [born Samuel Langhorne Clemens] (1835-1910) American Humorist

• Look about you this moment: Everything you see and touch was once [an] invisible idea until someone chose to bring it into being. Any powerful idea is absolutely fascinating and absolutely useless until we choose to use it. — Richard Bach (1936 -) One

Comments:
• Reality responds to imaginings like lightning to a rod. There is a corresponding actual reality in direct proportion to the potential reality of your imagination.

• You can use your imagination against yourself too. We are very creative about how we should feel – good or bad. Most of the negative self-talk is pure imagination.

Color: yellow

Symbols: 1) wings; 2) flight; 3) the moon;4) Gemini (zodiac)

Definitions: (1) free from guilt or sin <especially through lack of knowledge of evil>; blameless; guiltless; faultless; (2) without guile or cunning; lacking sophistication; ingenuous

Synonyms: immaculate, pure, simple, spotless, undefiled, virtuous

Comment: The quality of innocence is normally attributed to the purity and beauty of a new baby. It is such a compelling quality we are instantly drawn to that bright bundle of pure potential. As time goes on, adding the qualities of sincerity, grace, charm, and wonder to innocence blossoms the personality dynamically into a splendid, mature soul.

Color: white

Definition: (1) formed, coordinated, or blended into a functioning or unified whole; united; (2) whole, intact, or pure <the integrity of a pristine soul>; (3) able to see how things or people fit together in the most harmonious way

Quote: When we try to pick out anything by itself, we find it is tied to everything else in the universe. — John Muir (1838-1914) Scottish-born American Naturalist

Symbols: 1) a necklace; 2) a sheaf; 3) interlocking fingers

Definitions: (1) the quality of being of sound moral principle; uprightness of character; incorruptible; (2) honest and sincere in a professional, intellectual, or artistic endeavor; reputable; (3) integration of self; maintenance of identity; (4) holding steadfastly true to one’s identity-conferring commitments; scrupulously principled; (5) standing up for ones best judgment with proper respect for the judgment of others

Compatible Qualities: complete, firm

Suggestion: Trust the higher self to do what is right instead of manipulating the ego self to live up to your expectation.

Symbols: 1) a rock or stone; 2) the Lovers (tarot)

Definitions: (1) responsive to the views of others; (2) tender or compassionate toward the feelings of others; (3) endowed with sensation; perceptive through the senses

Too Far: critical, temperamental

Definitions: (1) being the same in actual character as in outward appearance; genuine; real; (2) simple and straightforward innocence; (3) truthful and honest; without deceit, pretense, or hypocrisy; (4) faithful

Saying: Ex animo (Latin): “from the heart”

Quote: Sincerity is the single virtue that binds divinity and man in one. — Senge Takatomi (1845-1918) Japanese Shinto Philosopher

Comment: The primary quality saving a person from being an out and out fool is sincerity.

Consideration: There are some crucial qualities, a class of qualities one really cannot do without. First on the list would be sincerity. If you are sincere in your attempt to do the right thing – however you define it – you are succeeding in a very important aspect.

Advice: If you are motivated by, and have a genuine sincerity in what you do, you should never feel guilty. If you choose correctly, it will reinforce the positive. If you choose incorrectly, you will learn there is a better way. And if it is some of both, you will get to experience them both and learn what was right and what was wrong.

Color: blue

Definition: inclined to friendly communication; open to conversing; neighborly; agreeable to a free exchange of ideas

Balancing Quality: Attentive.

Note: The best communicator is the person who is the best listener; one who is genuinely interested in the views and lives of others.

Compatible Quality: gracious

Familial Quality: companionable

Too Far: garrulous, nosy

Definitions: (1) well established; (2) firmly fixed in faith; dedicated; (3) devotion to duty; resolute; (4) not fickle or wavering; loyal

Derivation: Old English, “to stand fast (stable)”

Too Far: stubborn

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Definitions: (1) happening, done, or said at a suitable moment, especially in order to achieve a desired effect; opportune; (2) arriving at the appointed time; well-timed; (3) appropriate or adapted to the times or the occasion; (4) a lifesaver

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Balancing Quality: Prepared

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Saying: Take the time to do it right, or you’ll find the time to do it over.

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Quotes: Dost thou love life? Then do not squander time, for that is the stuff life is made of. — Benjamin Franklin (1706-1790) American Statesman

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For everything there is an appointed time, even a time for every affair under heaven. — The Bible, Ecclesiastes 3:1

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God … does not recognize earth-time. To the universe, four days is no different than four billion light years. — Robert James Waller (1939-2017) The Bridges of Madison County

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Nobody sees a flower – really – it is so small it takes time – and to see takes time, like to have a friend takes time. — Georgia O’Keeffe (1887-1986) American Artist

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My hour has not yet come. — Jesus of Nazareth (7 bc-30 ad) Jewish Theologian

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Note: Do not be forced into something you are not ready for. Be wise in your judgment of the best time to act.

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Affirmations:

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• I have enough time to enjoy everything I do.

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• I have enough time to do everything I need to do.

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Reflection: Your pace is not the same as that of another. Respect the pace of others. There is an ideal pace at which we each should proceed. You don’t want to be going too fast or too slow. Your pace may be...

Definition: characterized by energetic activity; vital; vigorous

Definitions: (1) zealous or ardent in loyalty or affection; faithful; (2) dedicated with great seriousness <as to a cause> (3) very faithful to a religious belief; worshipful; (4) sincere; earnest; fervent; heartfelt

Synonyms: holy; reverent

Quote: We invest or devote ourselves because the other to which we commit has, for us, an intrinsic excellence or worth and because it promises to confer values on us. We value that which seems of transcendent worth and in relation to which our lives have worth. — James W. Fowler (1940 -) Stages of Faith, The Psychology of Human Development and the Quest for Meaning

Comment: One is not devoted unless and until all one’s doubts are removed. We use our powers of logic, intuition, organizing, belief, commitment, and finally faith before we allow ourselves to be enveloped in the fires of pure devotion.

Color: blue

Symbol: lily of the valley

Definition: mental or emotional restraint exercised over one's own impulses, emotions, or desires especially in the face of self-described negative temptations

Definition: mental or emotional restraint exercised over one's own impulses, emotions, or desires especially in the face of self-described negative temptations

Definitions: (1) dedicated to worship; (1) devoted to one’s sacred duty; (3) recognition of that which is highly valuable and important

See also: Holy

Definitions: (1) dedicated to worship; (1) devoted to one’s sacred duty; (3) recognition of that which is highly valuable and important

See also: Holy

Definitions: (1) one willing to expose themselves to danger, ranging from minor challenge to major peril; (2) venturesome

Observation: The first circle is your comfort zone. Risk taking is lived in the second circle. And it is really risky if you get out to the third. Of course, these ‘circles of risk’ are relative to the individual.

See also: Changeable

Definitions: (1) advancing or moving onward; (2) making use of or interested in new ideas, findings, or opportunities; forward-looking; (3) marked by growth, reform, or continuing improvement

Quote: I’ve seen this problem before; does that mean I am making progress or going in circles? — Michael Hanna, 100 Thought Adjusters

Observation: To live in a complex society, progress is necessary.

Tip: If you concentrate on the openings instead of the obstacles, you will make progress.

Comment: The smallest of positive decisions, multiplied by a sincere intention to make it real, plus your other active positive qualities creates a proliferation of positive action. This leads to a more accurate assessment of what is the best action to take under any new circumstance.

Symbol: wings {Spiritual Evolution}

Definition: an accepted or professed rule of action or conduct; a guiding sense of the requirements and obligations of right behavior

Definitions: (1) composed, dignified, and self-assured; (2) being in balance or equilibrium

Quote: It is to the mind of perfect poise, housed in a body of clean habits, stabilized neural energies, and balanced chemical function – when the physical, mental, and spiritual powers are in triune harmony of development – that a maximum of light and truth can be imparted with a minimum of temporal danger or risk to the real welfare of such a being. By such a balanced growth does man ascend… — The Urantia Book (110:6.4)

Definitions: (1) fond of fun; frisky; indulging in sportive fancy; frolicsome; (2) humorous; joking; (3) possessing a positive attitude which spills over into active cheerfulness; merry

Synonyms: gay, jocund, lively, sprightly, vivacious

Balancing Quality: Fair

Consequential Qualities: order, sharing

Note: When a child, or anyone, plays they learn it is fun to be associated with other individuals.

Saying: All work and no play makes Jack a dull boy.

Quotes: If all the year were playing holidays, to sport would be as tedious as work. — William Shakespeare (1564-1616) Hamlet

The creation of something new is not accomplished by the intellect but by the play instinct acting from inner necessity. The creative mind plays with the objects it loves. — Carl G. Jung (1875-1961) Swiss Psychiatrist

In a sense, all science, all human thought, is a form of play. Abstract thought [is the way we are able] to continue to carry out activities which have no immediate goal (just as other animals play while young) in order to prepare... for long-term strategies and plans. — Jacob Bronowski (1908-1974) Polish-Jewish British Mathematician

Symbols: 1) swings; 2) the seal; 3) viola flowers

Definitions: (1) acting as a helpful instrument or means; (2) giving care or aid; service-oriented; (3) providing information <often of a spiritual nature>; (4) fulfilling a duty prescribed by law, ethics, or morality; (5) an act in obedience to objective reality

Quotes:
• The true character of ministry is a servant’s heart. — Harold Ashton Warner (1917–2012) Australian journalist

• Love never ends or fails. Everything must be based on love - the relation between two friends, ministry, service; every field must be based on love. Why? Because God is Love. — Pope Theodoros II (840–897) 116^th Catholic Pope (Served only 20 days before dying)

Definition: devoted unreservedly <to an idea or a project>; engaged; pledged; bound

Synonyms: entrusted, confided, consigned, relegated

Quotes:
• Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful, committed citizens can change the world; indeed, it’s the only thing that ever has. — Margaret Mead (1901-1978) American Cultural Anthropologist

• Until one is committed, there is hesitancy, the chance to draw back, always ineffectiveness. Concerning all acts of initiative (and creation), there is one elementary truth the ignorance of which kills countless ideas and splendid plans: that the moment one definitely commits oneself, then providence moves too. A whole stream of events issues from the decision, raising in one’s favor all manner of unforeseen incidents, meetings and material assistance, which no one could have dreamed would have come their way. I learned a deep respect for one of Goethe’s couplets:
Whatever you can do or dream you can, begin it.
Boldness has genius, power and magic in it. — William Hutchison Murray (1913-1996) Scottish Mountaineer and Writer

Comment: You cannot make a commitment for someone else even if you know, without a doubt, they are ready to take the first step. You might be able to provide inspiration, encouragement, or information. You can offer some help or preparation, but it is ultimately that person’s choice.

Mythological Figure: Juno, the supreme goddess of Roman mythology, wife of Jupiter, and goddess of marriage

Symbol: ranunculous flowers

Definitions: (1) mentally clear and sound <especially the ability to anticipate and appraise the effect of one’s own actions>; rational; (2) having or showing good reason or judgment; sensible; (3) free from hurt or disease; healthy

See also: Realistic

Compatible Quality: prepared

Quotes: In order to be sane and adjusted as a human being, an individual must realize that he cannot know all there is to know. It is not enough to understand this limitation intellectually; the understanding must be an orderly and conditioned process, “unconscious” as well as “conscious.” Such a conditioning is essential to the balanced pursuit of knowledge of the nature of matter and life. — A. E. van Vogt (1912-2000) The Players of Null A

In the case of permanent insanity the exits to the theater have been blocked, usually because of the knowledge that the show outside is so much worse. The insane person is running a private unapproved film which he happens to like better than the current cultural one. If you want him to run the film everyone else is seeing, the solution would be to find ways to prove to him that it would be valuable to do so … Otherwise why should he get “better”? He already is better. It’s the patterns that constitute “betterness” that are at issue. From an internal point of view insanity isn’t the problem. Insanity is the solution. — Robert Pirsig (1928-2017) Lila

Reflection: Accepting reality is fine as long as everyone holds the same criteria for “reality.” The problem comes when you are presented with a false impression of reality. Slavery was explained as necessary and accepted as “good” by a certain segment of the population. War is accepted as the only solution by a large enough group of people that it takes place. A person who sees a higher reality is in a difficult position. Truth requires they act on the higher reality, but practicality dictates they live with the facts of the prevailing reality. Embracing both is sanity.

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Definitions: (1) focused on the end or final purpose; (2) characterizes one who intends to accomplish everything he or she sets out to do

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Music: “Winter Wonderland” (1934)
“Later on, we'll conspire,
”As we dream by the fire
”To face unafraid,
”The plans that we've made,
“Walking in a winter wonderland.”
— Felix Bernard (1897-1944) American Composer
— Richard B. Smith (1901-1935) American Lyricist

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Quotes: The limitations define how you are to proceed. — Jerry Downs (1949 -) American Artist

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• One has half the deed done who has made a beginning. — Horace (65 bc-8 ad) Roman Lyric Poet

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• The last step depends on the first. The first step depends on the last. — Rene Daumal (1908-1944) French Poet

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• Take care to get what you like or you will be forced to like what you get. — George Bernard Shaw (1856-1950) Irish Playwright

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• After 5,000 “failed” experiments on the light bulb: “I had 5,000 ways of proving that I was getting closer to where I wanted to go.” — Thomas Edison (1847-1931) American Inventor

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• Purpose is a general direction toward which you wish your life to move. Resolutions, on the other hand, are goals that help contribute to your purpose. Once you have stated your purpose, set up a plan to achieve it. Look at the resources that are available, and think about which ones are needed. It’s important to have a taste of success. Also, make sure you reward yourself when you meet your short-term goals. — Dr. George Sheehan (1918-1993) “Peak Performance! Coaching Your Internal Team,” Taking Care Magazine

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• Having a goal sometimes limits your flexibility. — Judy Kain (1948 -) Extra-ordinary Person
Note: Don’t be so narrowly...

Definitions: (1) a friendly disposition; benevolence; (2) cheerful consent; willing

Saying: Goodwill to all. — A Christmas wish

Quotes:
• Christmas is not a time nor a season, but a state of mind. To cherish peace and goodwill, to be plenteous in mercy, is to have the real spirit of Christmas. — Calvin Coolidge (1872-1933) 30th president of the United States

• In a time of domestic crisis, men of goodwill and generosity should be able to unite regardless of party or politics. — John Fitzgerald Kennedy (1917–1963) 35th president of the United States

Definitions: (1) practical understanding or intelligence; (2) sound and prudent judgment

Derivation: Originally, commonsense was the faculty uniting and interpreting the impressions of the other five senses.

Sayings:
• Correlation does not imply causation. — Statistical axiom
• Best to have it and not need it than to need it and not have it.
• You cannot buy time, happiness, or virtues.
• A person can look before committing and therefore learn from looking as well as from leaping. An animal ordinarily learns only by leaping.

Quotes:
• Today’s commonsense is yesterday’s science. — Neils Bohr (1885-1962) Danish Physicist

• Commonsense is instinct. Enough of it is genius. — George Bernard Shaw (1856-1950) Irish Playwright

• A walking encyclopedia will walk over a cliff, for all its knowledge of cliffs and the effects of gravity, unless it is designed in such a fashion that it can find the right bits of knowledge at the right times, so it can plan its engagements with the real world. — Daniel Dennett (1942 -) American Philosopher

Definitions: (1) having the power to choose; willful; (2) forming a purpose or an opinion; decisive; self-determinative

Definitions: (1) competent to act in any situation; flexible; pliable; (2) turning with ease from one thing to another; deft; many-sided; (3) self-adjusting within an ever-growing complexity; resourceful; (4) having or capable of many uses or applications

Quote: In the long run, fancier [in nature] lasts longer since versatility is a virtue. — William H. Calvin (1913 -) The River That Runs Uphill

Definitions: (1) worthy of honor or respect because of meritorious distinction; noteworthy; (2) deserving of deference; exalted; (3) worthy of admiration or reverence because of recognized goodness <often mingled with a degree of awe>; (4) worthy of worship or adoration; blessed; sacred; worthy of praise; laudable

Symbol: an older person

Definitions: (1) The essence of worth; intrinsic worth; THE ideal; (2) The ultimate desire; priceless; (3) Adherence to the highest principles; probity; (4) Worthy of the greatest admiration; estimable; cherishable; (5) The most precious treasures; important; useful; (6) The embodiment of all virtue; attractive; appealing; (7) Possessing the most fascinating qualities

Comment: God is Value - Infinite Value. It is impossible for any (actual or potential) value of God to ever be lost. We embody value in our soul.

Definitions: (1) to act as one; in concert; (2) being in agreement; in harmony; (3) the totality of components; a person who has brought together their complex parts into a systematic whole

Quote: He who experiences the unity of life, sees his own self in all beings, and all beings in his own self, and looks on everything with an impartial eye. — The Bhagavad-Gita, VI,29

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Definitions: (1) the power to think and learn; the ability to make sense; intelligent judgment; (2) comprehension of knowledge; discernment; (3) fully aware not only of the meaning or nature of something but also of its implications; (4) a friendly or harmonious relationship; an agreement of opinion or feeling; an adjustment of differences; (5) patient and tolerant of growth; sympathetic

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Consequential Quality: tolerance

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Poetry:
Knowledge, so full of itself, flies
beyond the cosmos, while Wisdom,
only as ancient as the earth, tries
to follow, but staggers and stumbles,
held back by the short-legged pace
of Understanding, still merely a child.
— Katherine Solomon (1944 -) American Poet

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Sayings:
• Damnant quod non intelligunt (Latin): “They condemn what they do not understand”
• Tout comprendre c’est pardonner (French): “To understand all is to forgive all.”
• Walk a mile in another person’s moccasins. (American Indian)
Note: This saying is encouraging us to see things from someone else’s perspective. Even though you will then be better able to see things how they see them, the common misunderstanding is that you will then agree with their point of view. As always, you will retain your own unique point of view. You cannot “become” the other person no matter how accurately you understand them. Knowing is not agreeing.

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Quotes:
• The hardest thing to understand is why we can understand anything at all. — Albert Einstein (1879-1955) German-American Physicist

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• It is good to give when asked, but it is better to give unasked, through understanding. — Kahlil Gibran (1883-1931) The Prophet

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• Master: In time, you will understand how
. Student: And when I learn?
. Master: Then you will understand how much you have yet to...

Definitions: (1) having the power of perceiving or comprehending quickly; discriminating <a clear intellect>; not confused or dull; (2) easily seen or comprehended <of your statements by others>; easily understandable; perspicuous; distinct; lucid; (3) free from obscurity <of others communications to you>; evident; manifest; indisputable; undeniable; (4) free from emotional perturbations; undisturbed; unruffled; serene; (5) free from guilt or blame; morally unblemished; innocent

Synonyms: acute, apparent, bright, obvious, orderly, plain, pure, vivid

Quote: In foggy weather you can see clearly the terrain that is near you and you often think that those who are further away from you are stuck in the fog. Although things might appear clear to you, those at a distance fancy that they are the ones in the clear and that you are stuck in the fog. — Benjamin Franklin (1705-1790) American Author

Symbols: 1) crystal; 2) a calm blue sea; 3) a cloudless blue sky

Definition: (1) regarded with deep respect, love, awe, or affection; to venerate, honor; or hold in esteem; admired; (2) feeling profound respect or expressing adoring veneration; worshipful

Derivation: Latin, “to fear”

Definition: regarded with deep respect, love, awe, or affection; to venerate, honor; or hold in esteem; admired

Derivation: Latin, “to fear”

Definitions: (1) showing respect for others; considerate; courteous; (2) aware of other views and sensibilities; heedful; mindful; attentive; (3) characterized by or manifesting careful deliberation; contemplative; cognitive; (4) actions resulting from thought; decisiveness; creativity; (5) possessing the power of reasoning; reflective imagination; (6) able to fit different concepts together; elastic; supple; (7) competent in turning ideas into ideals and ideals into ideas; (8) occupied with or given to religious reflection; meditative

See also: Thinking

Balancing Qualities: Creative, Curious, Flexible, Open, Persistent

Quotes: The soul is dyed with the color of its thoughts. — Marcus Aurelius Antoninus Augustus (121-180) Roman Emperor and Philosopher

Govern your thoughts as if your future depends on them, because it does. — Debra Saint Claire (1952 -) Master Herbalist

Reflection: Others deserve your special attention because they are valuable. If you realize their worth, you will wish to be good to them – thoughtful, considerate, and courteous.

Comments:

• Positive thoughts expand. Negative thoughts contract.

• In order to be thoughtful, you have to know (or gamble on knowing) what the other person desires, needs, or wants. There are subtle signs, but one way that is pretty definite: Ask.

Definitions: (1) first in order; preceding all others; the beginning; (2) arising or proceeding independently; inventive; novel; (3) thinking or acting in an individual or creative manner

Quote:
• A mind that’s afraid to toy with the ridiculous will never come up with the brilliantly original. — Glen David Brin (1950 -) Brightness Reef

• The story of man’s ascent from seaweed to the lordship of earthly creation is indeed a romance of biologic struggle and mind survival. Man’s primordial ancestors were literally the slime and ooze of the ocean bed in the sluggish and warm-water bays and lagoons of the vast shore lines of the ancient inland seas. — The Urantia Book (65:2.1)

Definition: taking advantage of conditions that are favorable to the attainment of a goal; open to success

Sayings:
• Today’s stumbling blocks are tomorrow’s stepping stones.
• If your “master” is a strong one, then your success as a “slave” is your opportunistic attitude.
• Regrets are temptations fulfilled or opportunities unfulfilled. Learn from both.

Quote: When one door closes another door opens; but we so often look so long and so regretfully upon the closed door, that we do not see the ones which open for us. — Alexander Graham Bell (1847-1922) Scottish-Canadian Inventor

Observation: Problem solvers and risk takers are opportunistic.

Suggestion: If you are not experiencing any difficulties, then appreciate this peaceful time with thankfulness. If your life becomes too placid, you will be happier if you choose to extend yourself with a challenge. When your life is too hectic, take the opportunity to relax. Difficulties can be seen as blessings and hardships as opportunities; each can be an occasion to acquire some positive personal qualities.

Admonition: You never regret the positive things you try. You only regret the things you wish you had done.

If you regret what you have done, then at least you’ve done it and had not been scared away from a difficult but desirable situation. Then again, the regret may be, as often is the case, not the fact of the action but the immature way or imperfect manner in which you attempted it. Forgiveness and reflective thought are the transforming mechanisms which can change regret into a positive learning process (even if all you’ve learned is that you don’t want to do it again).

Definitions: (1) making known the truth; (2) a clear, coherent, often creative, and even imaginative presentation through any medium

Definitions: (1) Impossible to move or to be thrown off balance; steady; fixed; (2) Immutable in character; steadfast; (3) Changeless; (4) Unvarying in purpose; dauntless; (5) Unified in administration; permanent; (6) Full of composure; self-possessed; (7) Holding the equilibrium of the universe; firm; solid; (8) Trustworthy; stalwart; (9) Self-sufficient

Comment: Things are constantly changing for finite beings. The one sure thing we can count on is the consistency inherent in, and caused by, the stability of God.

Definitions: (1) taking particular notice of the value of someone or something; (2) honoring or holding another in high regard because of their station, character, or behavior; (3) showing consideration or concern for another’s privacy and feelings

Derivation: Latin, “to look back and see”

Quotes: The higher a creature’s education, the more respect he has for the knowledge, experience, and opinions of others. — The Urantia Book (25:3.12)

The only hope of preserving what is best lies in the practice of an immense charity, a wide tolerance, a sincere respect for opinions that are not ours. — Philip G. Hamerton (1834–1894) English Artist

Definitions: (1) able or quick to receive knowledge, ideas, or persons; (2) willing or inclined to receive suggestions or offers; (3) capable of accepting fortune (good or ill) in stride; (4) disposed to accept praise with humility

Symbol: the cauldron

Definitions: (1) granting or giving a part of yourself; altruistic; selfless; (2) dividing and distributing in fair portions; apportioning; (3) partaking, using, experiencing, occupying, or enjoying with others; (4) owning in common; (5) being a benefactor

Synonyms: big-hearted, contributing, generous, magnanimous, munificent

Quote: If you think a complimentary thought about someone, don’t just think it. Dare to compliment people and pass on compliments to them from others. — Catherine Ponder (1927 -) The Dynamic Laws of Prosperity

Comment: God created the universe because his primary motive is love, and the primary attribute of love is to share.

Definitions: (1) wise or judicious in practical affairs; (2) discreet or circumspect; cautious but sensible; (3) careful in providing for the future; provident

Derivation: Latin, “to separate” or “set apart,” “to distinguish”

Synonyms: considerate, economical, frugal, sagacious, thoughtful

Too Far: Looking into the future with fearful caution may lead to cowardice and failure.

Comment: Prudence has been called the “queen of values.”

Symbols: 1) a dolphin entwined around an anchor [arrested speed]; 2) jade: When asked, “Why was jade valued by the sages?” Confucius replied, “It is because the ancient sages were comparing Jade with the virtues. Jade represents kindness because it is soft and smooth to the touch. It represents prudence because its structure is fine and compact and thus solid. It represents justice because it has edges but does not injure. It represents good faith because its beautiful interior qualities can be seen from the outside. It is the image of sincerity as its luster is not veiled by its defects nor its defects by its luster.”

Definitions: (1) Showing the way to salvation; heroic; (2) Rescuing from harm; deliverer; (3) The liberator from fear and death; (4) The retriever of souls; resurrector; (5) Restoring to good standing; saving grace; (6) The vindicator of faith; (7) The rehabilitator of wrong thinking; healer; (8) The compensator for imperfection; (9) The destroyer of sin

Quote: You are all my children, and I am your Father. For age upon age, you have been scorched by multitudinous woes, and I have saved you all. — Buddhism, Lotus Sutra 3

Comment: There is no free ride, but we do get some help when we need it and ask for it.

Definitions: (1) acting in a just, noble, or honorable manner; upright; virtuous; ethical rectitude; (2) morally right or justifiable, reasonable; scrupulous; (3) satisfying the precepts of a code of behavior; fair; good; excellent; (4) pleasant; (5) authentic

Derivation: Anglo-Saxon, “wise,” “right”

Symbol: the tiger

Theological Figure: Varuna, the Hindu god of the cosmos is the guardian of righteousness and goodness. The Vedic god of natural and moral law.

Definition: demonstrating helpful, beneficial, or friendly conduct; giving assistance or advantage to an individual or the community; thoughtful

Balancing Qualities: To balance confidence and humility practice giving service.

People Who Exemplify This Quality: Martin Luther King (1929-1968) American Peacemaker

Saying:
When I do not know who I am I serve you.
When I know who I am I am you. — Hindu

Quotes:
• Do what needs to be done for yourself as if you were doing it for a dear friend. — Jerry Downs (1949 -) American Philosopher

• I don’t know what your destiny will be, but one thing I know: the only ones among you who will be really happy are those who will have sought and found out how to serve. — Albert Schweitzer (1875-1965) Franco-German Theologian

Comment:
Near versus Far
Many think service must be direct and person-to-person. Even though this individual support provides an emotional connection to the person served, it is no less valid to serve a wide variety of people, near and far. Entertainers for example distribute their talent for everyone’s enjoyment. Writers serve their readers. If someone makes a tool it is up to the one who uses it to do something with it.

Symbol: the buffalo

Definitions: (1) receptive; not closed to new ideas; (2) generous; liberal; (3) frank; candid; direct; honest; (4) ready to do, hear, see or accept; fully prepared; attentive; (5) allowing approach, view, passage, or access; available; (6) not secret or hidden; (7) expanded; unfolded

Compatible Quality: discerning

Too Far: gullible

Reflection: There are those who say you are already all you need to be or will ever be; that all you need to do is allow it; just be open and don’t get in your own way. It may be, especially in hindsight, that the best way was open to you all along.

Comment: People are fond of saying, “I went into this philosophy or idea with a healthy skepticism – I even wanted to prove it wrong – but, in the end, I was convinced it was correct.” An honest skepticism prevents you from being naive, but a healthy openness helps you grow.

Sincere openness may have you taken in by a plausible idea. Until you learn, you may even be too trusting. You may look the fool because you were willing to be open, but you also are respected for your honor and your willingness to gain from experience; unlike the hardened skeptic who, because of fear, kept closed.

Advice: Give other people’s belief systems a healthy respect. Be open to their sense of reality and order. Their experience and sincerity are putting together a personal subjective puzzle. Realize you and they are evolving and expanding. Tomorrow you may stand with them on more compatible ground because of the compassion you showed toward them today.

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Definitions: (1) free from prejudicial personal feelings or opinions; eminently fair; unbiased; right-minded; (2) external to the mind and distinct from inner or imaginary feelings and thoughts; actual phenomena; real; (3) The actual, correct, and exact truth; (4) a purposeful goal one’s efforts are intended to attain or accomplish; target
See also: Realistic

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Quotes:
• Objectivity does not mean detachment, it means respect; that is, the ability not to distort and to falsify things, persons and oneself. — Erich Fromm (1900-1980) German-American Jewish Social Psychologist

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• The scientist’s job is to explore everything. No matter the difficulties! To stay open, to accept ambiguity. To attempt to fuse with the object of knowledge. To admit that there are values shot through the whole enterprise. To love it. To work toward discovering the values by which we live. To work to enact those values in the world. To explore – and more than that – to create! — Kim Stanley Robinson (1952 -) Green Mars

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Reflection: It is a most difficult thing to be truly objective. We look at the world through our own subjective experiential view. To those who do not experience the wisdom of a larger view, statements like “Love your enemy” are truly baffling. The only reason to even consider that statement as reasonable is if you believe Christ was genuinely objective.

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Observations:
• An astute observer must have a keen sense of insight into motivation if he or she is to explain the actions of others.
• Curiosity and wonder are two of the positive qualities we use when we take the time and effort to seek the objective truth.
• Objectivity works best on the factual level. The physical sciences thrive on objective experimentation. Observation can be reproduced. If another person performs the same experiment with the...

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Definitions: (1) free from prejudicial personal feelings or opinions; eminently fair; unbiased; right-minded; (2) external to the mind and distinct from inner or imaginary feelings and thoughts; actual phenomena; real; (3) The actual, correct, and exact truth; (4) a purposeful goal one’s efforts are intended to attain or accomplish; target
See also: Realistic

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Quotes:
• Objectivity does not mean detachment, it means respect; that is, the ability not to distort and to falsify things, persons and oneself. — Erich Fromm (1900-1980) German-American Jewish Social Psychologist

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VThe scientist’s job is to explore everything. No matter the difficulties! To stay open, to accept ambiguity. To attempt to fuse with the object of knowledge. To admit that there are values shot through the whole enterprise. To love it. To work toward discovering the values by which we live. To work to enact those values in the world. To explore – and more than that – to create! — Kim Stanley Robinson (1952 -) Green Mars

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Reflection: It is a most difficult thing to be truly objective. We look at the world through our own subjective experiential view. To those who do not experience the wisdom of a larger view, statements like “Love your enemy” are truly baffling. The only reason to even consider that statement as reasonable is if you believe Christ was genuinely objective.

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Observations:
• An astute observer must have a keen sense of insight into motivation if he or she is to explain the actions of others.
• Curiosity and wonder are two of the positive qualities we use when we take the time and effort to seek the objective truth.
• Objectivity works best on the factual level. The physical sciences thrive on objective experimentation. Observation can be reproduced. If another person performs the same experiment with the...

Definitions: (1) reacting readily and sympathetically; receptive; (2) sensitive and compassionate; serving with graciousness; (3) attentive and open-minded; a listener; (4) a satisfier of curiosity; a giver of answers and insights

Synonym: amenable

Comment: We human beings appreciate, and respond to, the encouragement of other people.

Definitions: (1) absolute; utter; sheer <pure joy>; (2) free from defects; perfect; faultless; unblemished; (3) untainted with evil or guilt; innocent; blameless; (4) physically chaste; virginal; spotless; (5) ceremonially or ritually clean; undefiled; (6) Genuine; objectively real

Synonyms: clean, clear, fine, genuine, guileless, guiltless, immaculate, impeccable, pristine, simple, spotless, unadulterated, uncorrupted, unspoiled, unsullied

Color: white

Symbols: 1) fire; 2) rain; 3) the lily; 4) sea foam; 5) the desert; 6) Temperance (tarot) {Purification}; 7) angelica flowers [pure intentions]; 8) the three stars in the belt of Orion {Purity, Righteousness, and Choice}

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Definitions: (1) indicating acceptance, approval, or affirmation <She received a positive response.>; (2) the best of a kind; good; ideal; favorable <He was a positive role model to the class.>; (3) marked by optimism <We enjoyed their refreshing positive point of view.>; (4) existing in fact or by the presence of something and not by its absence; real; (5) beyond all doubt or qualification; undeniable; sure; uncontestable <He offered positive proof.>; (6) confident; fully assured; firmly convinced; decided; <The witness gave a positive identification.>; (7) resolute; in agreement; affirmative; certain <Her answer was a positive “yes.”>; (8) building progressive growth <We made positive, practical improvement.>; (9) making a definite contribution; constructive <He took the positive approach and the results were evident.>; (10) explicitly laid down; direct; precise; specific <The engineer knew he had to take a positive line.>; (11) independent of changes, circumstances, opinion, or taste; inherent <as is objective reality>

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Music: When you’re rooted in the positive, your destination is the brightest star. — Stevie Wonder (1950 -) Master Blaster

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Quotes: Positive thoughts can be a powerful influence for good. — Peace Pilgrim [born Mildred Lisette Norman] (1908-1981) Steps Toward Inner Peace

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One positive statement of good is more powerful than 1,000 negative thoughts; and two positive statements of good are more powerful than 10,000 negative thoughts — Catherine Ponder (1927 -) The Dynamic Laws of Prosperity

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Our lives are not determined by what happens to us but by how we react to what happens; not by what life brings to us, but by the attitude we bring to life. A positive attitude causes a chain reaction of positive thoughts, events, and outcomes. — Valen E. Cover (1983 -)...

Definitions: (1) the capacity to view things in their true relations or relative importance; (2) the interrelation in which a subject or its parts are mentally viewed; (3) a broader overview or larger prospect <to gain a broader perspective on>

Quotes:
Therapy is not really concerned with truth, which is almost always merely a matter of perspective. Therapists are concerned with adjustment – adjustment to an unchanging situation or a changing truth. — Karen Joy Fowler (~1965-) The Lake was Full of Artificial Things [1988]
Note: One’s idea of Objective Truth is always going through a subjective metamorphosis.

When you look at the stars and the galaxy, you feel that you are not just from any particular piece of land, but from the solar system. — Kalpana Chawla (1962–2003) Indian-born American astronaut

Comment: An unprejudiced study and correlation of origin, history, and destiny can begin to give one a true perspective of any reality problem.

Definitions: (1) resolute endurance <especially with what is known to be correct>; (2) abiding; persevering; (3) continuing to exist; lasting

Balancing Qualities: Daring, Diversity, Fearless

Quotes: Keep on plugging. — John Preston Downs (1913-2005) American Business man and Father

It just goes to show, if you are persistent, something gets done. — Any parent to a child who has just accomplished a project

There is only one reason that you ever fail at anything, and that is because you eventually change your mind. — Victor L. Wooten (1964 -) American Bassist & Author

Nothing in the world can take the place of persistence. Talent will not; nothing is more common than unsuccessful men with great talent. Genius will not; unrewarded genius is almost a proverb. Education will not; the world is full of educated derelicts. Persistence and determination alone are omnipotent. — Calvin Coolidge (1872-1933) The 30th President of the United States

Affirmation: I refuse to give up. I shall continue, firmly, steadily and insistently until the good appears. — Catherine Ponder (1927 –) The Dynamic Laws of Prosperity

Comment: The person who asks for something 30 or 40 or even 150 times, and finally gets it, has figured out how to ask for something.

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Definitions: (1) the will or ability to wait calmly; (2) to endure pain or trouble without complaint, losing control, or making a disturbance; (3) quietly tolerating delay, confusion, or inefficiency; (4) refusing to be provoked or angered by insult; forbearing; (5) ministering to the growth of the uneducated or inexperienced; accommodating the needs of growing children; (6) steadiness, endurance, or perseverance in performing a task; diligent; (7) steadfast and consistent action; abiding; (8) able to relieve grief or anguish

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Derivation: Latin, “to suffer”

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Synonyms: composed, constant, even-tempered, equanimity, fortitude, imperturbable, long-suffering, persistent, poise, self-controlled, stoic

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Patience refers to the quietness or self-possession of one’s own spirit; resignation refers to the submission of one’s own will to the will of another.

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Note: One of the definitions of tolerance is “to put up with.”

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Balancing Qualities: Adaptable, Foresight, Humor, Initiative, Prepared

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Compatible Qualities: accommodating, assertive, open, persistent, perspicacious

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Note: Having the focus to pay attention to something, and being persistent enough to continue to pay attention to it, will develop patience while you are getting it done.

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Parental Qualities: faith, hope

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Familial Qualities: kindness, serenity, tolerance

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Consequential Qualities: confidence, creativity, decisive, freedom, insight, peace, progress, self-discipline, self-esteem, stress hardy, wisdom

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Quotes: The greatest gift of stone is...

Divine Definitions: (1) The Originator and Executioner of the overall plan of creation <with the ability to effectively and efficiently move reality forward according to this plan>; (2) The preparer of structure <physical and administrative>; (3) The Designer of an interdependent system of organic cosmic order <integrating nature, astronomy, biology, chemistry, physics, etc.>; (4) The Architect of the orderly and methodical mind; (5) Presiding over organization; coordinator; director; (6) The expert correlator of all things, meanings, values, and beings

Comment: God’s plan is accommodating enough to encompass every possible set of decisions a person could ever make. Every potential interaction is accounted for. His organization is so flexible as to offer just the right kind of help to each individual toward a more perfect state of mind and soul no matter where they are scattered along the road.

ORGANIZED
Human Definitions: (1) an orderly and methodical mind; (2) arranging elements into a new whole from interdependent parts; brought into being; (3) brought together for a common objective; cooperative; establish or institute <an organization> for a common purpose; (4) system of organic cosmic order <nature, astronomy, biology, chemistry, physics>

Quotes: Sometimes we let life guide us, and other times we take life by the horns. But one thing is for sure: no matter how organized we are, or how well we plan, we can always expect the unexpected. — Brandon Jenner (1981-) American actor

Tip: The key to order is putting like objects together.

Suggestion: A simple and effective way of getting organized is by beginning your day making a list and ending it making notes. And then mentally prioritize the listed items.

Definitions: (1) an orderly and methodical mind; (2) arranging elements into a new whole from interdependent parts; brought into being; (3) brought together for a common objective; cooperative; establish or institute <an organization> for a common purpose; (4) system of organic cosmic order <nature, astronomy, biology, chemistry, physics>

Quotes:
• For every minute spent organizing, an hour is earned. — Benjamin Franklin (1706-1790) American Statesman

• Sometimes we let life guide us, and other times we take life by the horns. But one thing is for sure: no matter how organized we are, or how well we plan, we can always expect the unexpected.  Brandon Jenner (1981-) American actor

Tip: The key to order is putting like objects together.

Suggestion: A simple and effective way of getting organized is by beginning your day making a list and ending it making notes. And mentally prioritize the listed items.

Definitions: (1) exhibiting proper conduct, speech, or dress; respectable; (2) modest deportment; chaste; (3) generous; kind; fair

Synonyms: becoming, befitting, decorous, seemly, suitable

Quote: We may not all be equally guilty. But we are all equally responsible for building a decent and just society. — Ruby Nell Bridges Hall (1954-) American civil rights activist

Definitions: (1) able to adjust to a new situation or environment <by changing one’s behavior or attitudes>; (2) made to fit <a new use>; (3) suitable for a specific situation; (4) to bring one thing into correspondence with another

Synonyms: Adaptable implies a personal modification according to changing circumstances; accommodate suggests yielding to effect a correspondence of view; adjust suggests bringing parts or ideas into close harmonious accord; conform applies to bringing patterns, examples, or principles into agreement with some standard; reconcile implies the demonstration of the underlying compatibility of things that seem to be incompatible.

Familial Qualities: flexible, obedient

Reflection: As we experience our lives, actively and passively, we also become more adaptable. Expansion comes when we look beyond the confines of the circumscribed environment: from the self, to the family, to the community, to the state, to the nation, to the planet, to the universe.

Observation: In evolution, when change occurs in the environment, the species that adapt to the change have become more flexible and more complex; they have expanded their survival boundaries to more than a single environment.

The more successful mechanisms (or qualities) are those built on a sturdy foundation. They eventually become stable enough to live on their own.

Just as physical evolution follows how well a species functions in increasingly complex environments, so too do we evolve on levels of the mind, soul, and spirit by those decisions we make in reaction to our internal and external environments. Because we can anticipate the future, we can also be proactive.

Color: green

Definitions: (1) done skillfully; aesthetically satisfying; (2) appreciative of art and beauty; sensitive to the arts

People Who Exemplify This Quality: Henri Matisse (1869-1954) French Artist

Saying: Ars longa, vita brevis (Latin): “Art is long, life is short.”

Quotes: Art is the demonstration that the ordinary is extraordinary. — Amedee Ozenfant (1866-1966) French Cubist Painter

Art reveals the artist’s inner self. Art reveals a man’s ideals, what he values. — Terry Goodkind (1948 -) American Author

Be responsive to your audience. Art is making an interpretation of an experience. — Jerry Downs (1949 -) American Artist

The artist is not a different kind of person, but every person is a different kind of artist. — Arthur Eric Gill (1882-1940) British Sculptor

The high mission of any art is, by its illusions, to foreshadow a higher universe reality, to crystallize the emotions of time into the thought of eternity. — The Urantia Book (48:7.23)

Definitions: (1) held in reverence; (2) bringing comfort, joy, pleasure, or contentment; (3) enjoying great happiness; blissful

Synonyms: cheerful, endowed, enriched, felicitated, gladdened, thankful

Balancing Qualities: Humble, Responsible
Note: If you are blessed with the opportunity to serve because of your talents or the situation, seize the moment and choose to take up the responsibility. As you look back on it, or forward to it, you may be humbled by the fact you were chosen to do what was needed to be done.

Quotes: You are blessed as long as you view what happens as a blessing. — Jerry Downs (1949 -) and Joe Burull (1947-2021) American Photographers

Beatitude dips from on high down on us and we see. It is not in us so much as we are in it. If the air comes into our lungs, we breathe and live; if not, we die. If the light comes into our eyes, we see; else not. And if truth come to our mind we suddenly expand to its dimensions, as we grew to worlds. — Ralph Waldo Emerson (1803-1882) American Philosopher

Affirmation: I am blessed on every level with happiness, success, and true achievement. I will accept what abundance comes my way with gracious thankfulness.

Mythological Figure: In Greek mythology, Pandora is the first woman (Mother Eve). Although some say Pandora’s box contained all manner of ill, were not these “ills” also offering the blessings of acquiring the vitues needed to overcome the vicissitudes of living with grace? Traditionally the quality at the bottom was hope.

Definitions: (1) full of good spirits; animated; full of life; joyful; (2) having a bright attitude; lightness of mind; (3) creating contagious merriment; (4) willing; hearty; (5) likely to dispel gloom or worry; (6) something that gladdens <words of cheer>

Synonyms: blithe, bonny, buoyant, glad, happy, lively, pleasant, sprightly, sunny

Music: “Whistle While You Work” — Frank Churchill (1901-1942) & Leigh Harline (1907-1969) American Composers

Proverb: A cheerful heart causes good healing. — The Bible, Proverbs 17:22

Quotes:
• The best way to cheer yourself is to try to cheer somebody else up. — Mark Twain [born Samuel Langhorne Clemens] (1835-1910) Mark Twain’s Notebook

• Let us be of good cheer, remembering that the misfortunes hardest to bear are those which never come. — James Russell Lowell (1819-1891) American Romantic Poet

Comment: When you are doing what you “know” you are supposed to be doing, you can be in a sublime state of cheerfulness, even if the outside circumstances point to some other emotion. I believe Christ on the cross was in a state of divine cheerfulness, even in the face of apparent failure and excruciating pain, because he was intensely aware he was doing what the Father’s will.

Color: yellow

Definitions: (1) exciting, and then holding, attention or curiosity; attractive; mesmerizing; (2) able to stimulate great desire to learn; thrilling; captivating; (3) able to arouse insight into new aspects; multifaceted

Quote: Happiness goes like the wind, but what is interesting stays. — Georgia O’Keeffe (1887-1986) American Artist

Suggestion: Being genuinely interested in what is wonderful in others will excite them to exhibit the best of themselves; thus, inspiring you to find novel ways to help them feel free to grow and show their endearing qualities.

Definitions: (1) clearly articulated and intelligible; (2) logically connected; (3) in natural agreement; harmonious

Synonyms: consistent, related, united

Quote: When you build a thing you cannot merely build that thing in isolation, but must repair the world around it, and within it, so that the larger world at that one place becomes more coherent, and more whole; and the thing which you make takes its place in the web of nature, as you make it. — Christopher Wolfgang John Alexander (1936–2022) Austrian-born British-American architect

Divine Definitions: (1) Available for service; (2) Rendering assistance; mediating; (3) Making the way clearer; guiding; (4) Aiding in the growth of each individual; fostering; (5) Supportive toward the objective; sustaining; cooperative; (6) Improving all conditions; ministering; (7) Provident; (8) Elevating the mind to beneficial ideas and ideals

Comment: We can moderate our attitudes and behavior by asking for help, as in prayer. God will help in every way possible but He will not interfere in our personal choice process. The type of help received may be surprising, but in retrospect it will always be completely confirmed as wise and lovingly helpful. Prayer opens up the mind to sublime thinking often resulting in practical insight.

Definitions: (1) God is the source of authenticity; genuine; (2) In accord with reality; (3) The ideal of fundamental veracity; (4) Imparting true meaning; forthright; (5) Reliably certain; accurate; (6) Dependably exact; precise; (7) Sincere; upright; (8) Reflecting the essential character of the teacher; (9) Definitively logical; honest

Saying: The truth shall set you free. Facts are uniform and static. Truth is flexible and living. Seek the truth and you will be rewarded with continual progress.

Definitions: (1) The breath of life; alive; (2) Super-consciousness; high-minded; (3) The animating principle; inspiration; (4) The source of ideals and values; qualitative reality; (5) The invisible higher vibrational reality; supernatural; (6) The supreme moral and ethical standard; (7) The spiritualizing influence; (8) The Father of the soul <The Mother of the soul is the mind.>; (9) The Holy Spirit; the Universe Mother Spirit; (10) The third Person of The Trinity; the Infinite Spirit

Comment: Nothing material can transcend itself. We are physical and our bodies live and die. Our personal will is capable of choosing superfinite values and incorporating them into our being. Our soul lives on because it is made of the forever-living spiritual substance of the universe: spirit.

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Definitions: (1) tending to face facts; concerned with or based on what is actual or practical rather than visionary; (2) existential

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Quote: Just because something is a metaphor doesn’t mean it can’t be real. — Terry Pratchett (1948-2015) Reaper Man

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Reflection: There is an objective reality. The more we identify with objective reality, the more real we are. Objective reality is described in terms of positive qualities. If we include all of the positive qualities, then we are describing the current human understanding of objective reality: that which is! The more “is” you are, the more whole you are, and the less concern you need have for your survival.

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Consideration: The theory of relativity says physical things are all moving in relation to each other. If any one thing is to be measured, a fixed point is needed. Once that one point is fixed, all other points can be measured in relation to it.

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This is also true of things mental and spiritual. When someone’s theories can be measured and calculated (and at least temporarily) proven, then that person’s ideas become a relative beacon. The fixed point, then, is the established theory. As other observers study the ideas of this fixed point, its accuracy and objectivity are brought into relative focus. This is done by speculation, experimentation, interpretation, experience, and logical agreement. Or, logical or otherwise, belief.

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We feel a satisfaction in establishing our “fixed” position. There is even greater satisfaction in confirming the accuracy of our position. If our experience verifies our belief, then we stay with the belief, which in turn dictates our experience. If the belief is confirmed by the agreement of our fellows, we again feel confident in staying with it. But sometimes...

Definitions: (1) In existence; (2) Existential; (3) The objective fact; (4) Indisputably actual

Comment: Are there any confirming means of identifying the evidence of God’s reality? All such proofs are from personal experience. The first is the experience of the intellectual capacity for knowing God. The discovery, and self-verification of this intellectual idea, can be further substantiated by the personal and spiritual experience of loving and being loved in return. The observation that love, truth, beauty, goodness, and all other qualities of value are knowable in personal experience confirms one’s confidence in reality beyond the physical. This insight is indicative of spiritual facts.

Comment: Are there any confirming means of identifying the evidence of God’s reality? All such proofs are from personal experience. The first is the experience of the intellectual capacity for knowing God. The discovery, and self-verification of this intellectual idea, can be further substantiated by the personal and spiritual experience of loving and being loved in return. The observation that love, truth, beauty, goodness, and all other qualities of value are knowable in personal experience confirms one’s confidence in reality beyond the physical. This insight is indicative of spiritual facts.

Once the possibility of knowing God is verified, the second stage of proof becomes evident. This is the personal urge to find God. To the exact extent a person seeks God, the Father pours in as much revelation of Himself as can be received. And thus, capacity is enlarged for even more grace.

By this point, initial skeptical curiosity has been transformed through intellectual discovery and personal verification into reasonable faith. One is then tempted to experiment with the third stage of confirmation – the desire to be like God. Finding this possible is truly convincing.

Definitions: (1) Divine solicitude and direction; (2) The guiding force; fostering; (3) Having and showing foresight; understanding; (4) The preparer of nurturance; (5) The provider of fundamental needs <a planet to stand on, a body to inhabit, a spirit to guide us, a mind to understand with, choices to learn from, and a personality to unite it all>; (6) Conscientious and prudent management; (7) Considerate regard of the individual within the total circumstances; (8) The one who gets things moving; expediter; (9) The devoted guardian; the diligent caretaker; the assiduous defender; (10) The protector, preserver, and promoter of value; (11) Willing to walk hand in hand; participative; (12) The bridge maker

Comment: Intervention is a character sometimes attributed to Divine Providence. From our point of view, it may seem like the hand of God is changing the natural course of events but when seen from a larger perspective it is the efficient motion of the Total Plan unfolding as it should. God will not interfere with our free will, yet we are held in His tender watch-care.

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Definitions: (1) complete in all respects; without defect or omission; faultless; (2) thorough excellence in skill or quality; expert; proficient; (3) completely correct or accurate; exact; precise; (4) without reserve or qualification; pure; impeccable; (5) totally effective; meticulous; (6) a fine physical specimen; sound; flawless; (7) appreciative of the character or nature of someone or some ‘thing’; the most admirable quality

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Balancing Qualities: Common sense, Down-to-earth

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Compatible Qualities: compromising, realistic

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Quotes: Be perfect, therefore, as your heavenly Father is perfect. — The Bible, Matthew 5:48

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The most important question to ask at any one moment is, “How is this perfect?” — Joe Burull (1947-2021) American Photographer

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When we realize a total of something as we are experiencing it, we are for that moment, perfect. — Jacquelyn Small, Transformers, the Therapists of the Future

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From the Universal Father who inhabits eternity there has gone forth the supreme mandate, “Be you perfect, even as I am perfect.” — The Urantia Book (1:0.3)

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The word “perfect” as the Bible uses it of men, does not refer to sinless perfection. Old Testament characters described as “blameless” or “wholly devoted” were obviously not sinless. Although a number of Hebrew and Greek words are translated as “perfect,” the thought is usually either “completeness in all details” (Hebrew: tamam; and Greek: katartizo) or “to reach a goal or achieve a purpose” (Greek: teleioo). Scripture recognizes that Christians do not attain sinless perfection in this life.

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Three Stages of Perfection

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Definitions: (1) showing keenness of insight, sympathetic understanding, or intuition; discerning; (2) a quick capacity for comprehending; observant

Too Far: nosy

Quotes:
• To be is either to be perceived or to perceive. — Bishop George Berkeley (1685-1753) Anglo-Irish Philosopher

• If the doors of perception were cleansed, everything would appear as it is: infinite. — William Blake (1757-1827) English Poet

• Eskimos see sixteen different forms of ice which are as different to them as trees and shrubs are different to us. Hindus, on the other hand, use the same term for both ice and snow. Creek and Natchez Indians do not distinguish yellow from green. Similarly, Choctaw, Tunica, the Keresian Pueblo Indians and many other people make no terminological distinction between blue and green. The Hopis have no word for time. — Robert Pirsig (1928-2017) Lila

Observation: In our attempt to simplify complex activities or processes, we tend to isolate individual aspects of the system. This is like turning off a movie projector and studying the film one frame at a time. One will get a detailed look at the individual frames, but will never be able to perceive the dynamic spirit or emotional content of the process. Perceiving the micro and the macro separately and then putting them together gives one a larger perspective.

Definitions: (1) characterizes one who promotes development by providing nourishment, support, and encouragement during the stages of growth; (2) raising; training; educating; (3) furthering the development of a person, project, idea, or ideal; fostering

Color: green

Symbols: 1) Mommy; 2) Mother Earth

Definitions: (1) keeping within reasonable bounds; temperate; sober; steady; avoiding excesses and extremes; (2) mild; calm; gentle; nonviolent; (3) to lessen the intensity or severity

Sayings:
• Meden agan (Greek); Ne quid nimis (Latin): “Nothing in excess”
• Be moderate in prosperity, prudent in adversity. — Periander (~635-585 b.c.) Ruler of Corinth

Quote: Be moderate in everything, including moderation. — Horace Porter (1837–1921) American soldier and diplomat

Definitions: (1) The personification of all true, beautiful, and good qualities; God; (2) The greatest of all excellent qualities; the source of all positive qualities; (3) Charitable; (4) Endowed with admirably balanced qualities; (5) Ability to give and draw intense interest or affection; (6) God’s benevolent concern for His creation; (7) The ability to elicit great pleasure

Comments:
God is Love. Love is God’s way. Love is the desire to do good for others. Love is genuine and unselfish. Love is best when shared. Love is the greatest thing in the universe and it can be attached to any person. Love is dynamic. Love is alive. Love is best understood in relationships.

From our point of view, there are many qualities. To God there is only one: Absolute Love. If we parse absolute love, we will discover all of the positive qualities we recognize, and project the probability of many more. Yet in Him they fit together perfectly. He self-limits and balances every quality with every other quality. He is the ideal harmony of love.

Definitions: (1) mental illumination; enlightenment; knowledge; (2) free from care; cheerful; happy; (3) extremely beautiful; ravishing; animate; bright; (4) nimble, buoyant, lively; (5) having a shining nature, character, or personality; (6) willing to show the way; (7) Emitting health; glowing; (8) Diffusion of mental knowledge;elucidating; (9) Emanating spiritual knowledge; enlightening; (10) Free from burdens; infused with joy

Synonyms: delicate, easy, gentle, radiant, unencumbered

Saying: A candle’s light is best seen in the dark.

Quotes:
• Some people change when they see the light, others when they feel the heat. — Caroline Schoeder

• Let there be light: and there was light. And God saw the light, and it was good. — The Bible, Genesis 1:3,4

• We are all facets of the diamond which is God ... Each of us reflecting light in our own way. — Linda Ohlson Graham (1947-) American Poet

• Only those who live up to the highest light they have find their lives in harmony. Those who act on their highest motivations become a power for good. — Peace Pilgrim [born Mildred Lisette Norman] (1908-1981) Steps Toward Inner Peace

Symbols: 1) dew; 2) gold; 3) the lamp; 4) the diamond

Mythological Figure: Balder, the beautiful and wise Scandinavian deity of light and peace

(LIGHTHEARTED)

Definitions: (1) free from care or anxiety; (2) cheerfully optimistic and hopeful; easygoing

Comment: Even if things are difficult on the material level, with a focus on the positive, your personal spiritual connection can be lighthearted. It may not change your mood, but you can be heartened by your faith.

Quote: Who says a lighthearted approach to business is incompatible with success? — Herbert David Kelleher (1931–2019) American airline businessman

Definitions: (1) disposed to be helpful and solicitous; gentle and considerate; good and tenderhearted; friendly; generous; (2) affectionate; loving; agreeable; (3) inclined to offer sympathetic relief; willing to give pleasure; (4) able to put up with abuse; (5) clement; not quick to lash out; forbearing

Synonyms: affable, courteous, fair, nice, polite

Quotes:
• Perfect kindness acts without thinking of kindness. — Lao-tse (c. 6^th Century bc) Chinese Philosopher

• [Tollydiggle:] It is kindness that makes one strong and brave. — L. Frank Baum (1856-1919) The Patchwork Girl of Oz

Symbols: 1) the dolphin; 2) the elephant {Kind, Compassionate, and Loving} (Hindu)

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Definitions: (1) having principles of rectitude, honesty, and righteousness; upright; proper; (2) equitable; impartial; fair; (3) the duty of a judge; discriminating, reliable, and reasonable

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Sayings:
• Fiat justitia, ruat caelum (Latin): “Let justice be done though the heavens fall.”
• Justice is fairness through time. — Anonymous

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Motto: Justitia omnibus (Latin): “Justice for all.” — District of Columbia

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Quotes:
• It is wise to disregard laws when they conflict with justice. — L. Frank Baum (1856-1919) Tik-Tok of Oz

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• The just shall shine, and shall run to and fro like sparks among the reeds. — Amenemope (c. 1100 bc) The Wisdom of Amenemope, 3:7

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• [Justice] is the first virtue of social institutions, as truth is of systems of thought. — John Rawls (1921-2002) American Philosopher

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• Injustice anywhere is a threat to justice everywhere. We are caught in an inescapable network of mutuality, tied in a single garment of destiny. Whatever affects one directly affects all indirectly. — Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. (1929-1968) Letter from Birmingham City Jail

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• Appropriate anger can be a force for good. Anger has provoked good and courageous people to come forward and defend the rights of those who are powerless to defend themselves. — Abigail Van Buren [born Pauline Phillips] (1918-2013) The Anger in All of Us and How to Deal with It

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Comment: Justice has a lot to do with seeing reality from the other person’s point of view.

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Observation: The problem with a jury of one’s peers is the redneck jury who sentenced a fourteen-year-old black boy to death because he spoke flippantly to an...

Definitions: (1) closeness with warm friendship developed through long association; very familiar; linked (2) indicative of one’s deepest nature; intrinsic; essential; self-experiential; (3) worthy of entrusting with the closest confidence; communicative; sharing; (4) the essential part of; quintessential

Quote: People didn’t understand that true intimacy did not consist of sexual intercourse, which could be done with strangers and in a state of total alienation; intimacy consisted of talking for hours about what was most important in one’s life. — Kim Stanley Robinson (1952 -) Red Mars

Color: orange-brown

Divine Definitions: (1) The ultimate authority; unchallengeable; (2) Worthy of being believed; reliable; (3) Adept; unable to make a mistake; unfailing; (4) Always accurate; never in error; (5) Dependable; incapable of deception

Comment: God’s infallibility is a direct result of a perfect combination of omniscience and absolute wisdom. All of His decisions are determined with a resolute certainty. Everything has been taken into account.

Definitions: (1) filled with the spirit; (2) to stimulate to service; (3) having an animating effect upon; impelling; (4) inducing or influencing another to some creative or effective effort; (5) persuading by positive means to be good, recognize beauty, and know truth

Derivation: Latin, “to breathe in”

Quote: Inspiration may be a form of superconsciousness, or perhaps of subconsciousness – I wouldn’t know. But I am sure that it is the antithesis of self-consciousness. — Aaron Copland (1900-1990) Classical Composer

Comment: If you focus on the positive, even in your criticisms of a person or a situation (with tact), you are helping to transform both the situation and the person.

There are many ways to be treated poorly. And it is easy to feel badly when it happens to you. But if you lash out in anger and frustration, you will only be successful in creating more anger and resistance. In hoping to control an ugly situation, you may be able to box it up. But the person or people who have created the negative have not been changed.

Containment may be necessary as a first resort. Society and the individual do have the right to protect themselves. But force is not the final solution. The final solution is for people to possess the qualities within themselves that will make it impossible to do the negative things they have done before. When inspired with the positive, people tend to act in accordance with their higher qualities.

Color: blue

Symbol: the torch

Definitions: (1) a positive concept of oneself; (2) a realistic understanding of one’s capacity

Observation: It is ironic how often those with a poor self-image usually have a sensitive perception of the values of others: “I’m no good but look at how wonderful so-and-so is.”

Subjective reality is folded in such a way that the person with a poor self-image cannot see or accept his or her own positive qualities. Consider Marilyn Monroe; her beauty was certainly obvious to an adoring public, and she surely must have been aware of it, but it was not enough. Those who study theatrical art say she was a talented actor, but her lack of self-esteem helped to destroy her.

Structure: The following are from “Anxiety—Recognition and Intervention” The American Journal of Nursing, Barbara C. Schutt R.N., Editor.

Components of a Good Self-Image
• An ability to understand and be understood
• Satisfaction of personal expectations
• Reasonable control of environment
• Satisfaction of personal wants
• Satisfaction of personal goals
• Reasonable control of self
• A sense of productivity
• A sense of usefulness
• A sense of belonging

Threats to a Good Self-Image
• A sense of isolation, alienation, or loneliness
• A sense of insecurity (a threat to identity)
• A sense of helplessness
• Fear

Divine Definitions: (1) Unconditional kindness; unselfishly generous; charitable beyond bounty; beneficent; (2) Gracious and attractive; virtuous; (3) Blameless; unimpeachable; (4) Praiseworthy; desirable; (5) Deserving of respect; honorable; (6) A euphemism for God

Quote: Do good without thought of benefit to the self. Goodness begets goodness, but to the one who is truly good, evil also begets goodness. True goodness is like water. It blesses everything and harms nothing. And like water, the true goodness of the Supreme seeks the lowest places, even those levels which others avoid. — Lao-Tse (c. 604-531 BC), Taoism

Comment: Good is not good only in contrast to evil. Evil (even if encompassing stupidity, sin, and iniquity) only makes up a very small portion of the universe - a few dark spots on a pure, clean background. Evil is measurably separate from true Goodness, sometimes a little and sometimes a lot. We are certainly selfish, misguided, and immature beings with only a finite amount of information, but that goes along with the fact we have been given the right to choose. And that free will was given by The One Person who wishes nothing more than to share His infinite goodness.

Definitions: (1) worthy of acceptance or belief <an authentic idea>; genuine; real; (2) approved by authority; trustworthy; reliable; (3) true to one's own personality, spirit, or character; unique

Synonyms: credible, faithful, official, original

Quote: The most authentic thing about us is our capacity to create, to overcome, to endure, to transform, to love, and to be greater than our suffering. — Ben Okri (1959-) Nigerian-British poet

Definitions: (1) having or showing kindness, courtesy, charm, good taste, or generosity of spirit; (2) tactful and delicate; urbane; refined; (3) merciful; compassionate; (4) possessing divine grace; virtuous; good

Synonyms: affable, benignant, cordial, genial, mild, sociable, tender

Comment: It is because of God’s graciousness that we were given the gifts of grace. And one of those is the gift of free choice. He gave us choice so we would be able to grow and discover our own holiness.

Definitions: (1) sincere and frank; honest and forthright; (2) real; true; authentic; not artificial; not counterfeit <a genuine manuscript>

Synonyms: natural, unadulterated, unaffected, veritable

Comment: When, on the one hand, one seems genuine and honest, but on the other hand, has selfish motives, their true purpose cannot really be known until time clarifies it. However, you may be able to see through their facade from the outset. If not, wait patiently, eventually the individual will show themself. Remember the old saying: “Actions speak louder than words.”

Sometimes people say they are motivated by a set of positive qualities and yet are taking steps and actions going against the very qualities they profess to hold in such high regard.

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Definitions: (1) facing and dealing with anything recognized as difficult or painful instead of withdrawing from it; (2) that firmness of spirit that meets danger or hardship without fear; strength of character; (3) the quality of being mentally or morally fearless or brave; valorous; intrepid

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Synonyms: bold, daring, dauntless, enterprising, gallant, hardy, heroic, pluck
Courage implies firmness of mind and will in the face of danger or extreme difficulty; mettle suggests an ingrained capacity for meeting strain or difficulty with fortitude and resilience; resolution stresses firm determination to achieve one’s ends; spirit also suggests a quality of temperament enabling one to hold one’s own or keep one’s morale when opposed or threatened; tenacity adds to resolution implications of stubborn persistence.

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Balancing Qualities: Compassionate, Confident, Curious, Farsighted, Kind, Open-minded

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Compatible Qualities: appreciation, attentiveness, experience, flexibility, gratitude, humor, knowledge, preparedness, relaxation, strength, understanding
NOTES:
• These compatible qualities may also be considered antidotes to fear either singly or in combination. Yet courage and boldness are not really antidotes to fear, they are more positive reaction mechanisms.
• If your focus is good enough, your attentiveness is good enough. You perceive the rattlesnake before it has a chance to bother you. Then you just take a wide path so you don’t even experience the fear because your attentiveness gives you an alternate path.
• You are not as afraid of the things you have already experienced.
• One of the greatest antidotes to fear is humor. When you experience fear, or if your intention is to be courageous, make sure there is a serious quantity of levity involved.
• To be prepared gives you a look into possible futures. If you are climbing a...

Definition: a willingness and ability to work with others; collaborative; greater efficiency through teamwork

Proverb: When spider webs unite, they can tie up a lion. — Ethiopian

Quote: Whatever God’s dream that man may be, it is certain it cannot come true unless man cooperates. — Stella Terrill Mann

Reflection: Ultimately the final outcome of racial tension will be one of three separate possibilities: isolation, annihilation, or assimilation.

Assimilation is accomplished by communication and interaction. Society is strengthened by cross-cultural relationships, cross-societal associations, personal friendships, and the melding of linguistic and musical ideas and attitudes. When assimilation is rendered with a cooperative spirit, the new combination is a strong and unique new people.

Comment: A stable civilization is built on a cooperative society

Observation: A discussion may begin as a negotiation and, if productive, lead to cooperation; and then, if fruitful, become a collaboration.

Symbol: fish {Teamwork}; geranium flowers

Definitions: (1) showing kindly regard for the feelings or circumstances of others; thoughtful; (2) showing care; deliberate

Derivation: Latin, “examine,” perhaps based on sidus: “star”

Quote: Though force can protect in emergency, only justice, fairness, consideration, and cooperation can finally lead men to the dawn of eternal peace. — Dwight D. Eisenhower (1890-1969) The 34^th President of the United States

Definitions: (1) respectful of the basic human rights of others; (2) courteous and polite; mannerly; (3) proper behavior

Synonyms: affable, complaisant, obliging

Comments:
• When you choose to be civil you are creating civilization.

• Although being civil oftentimes implies an attitude little more than a lack of rudeness, it also implies a willingness to be tolerant. This is the beginning of an acceptance of our unavoidable differences, and a practical step away from the negative toward the positive.

How to Live This Quality Today:
• Think before you speak.

• Give people the benefit of the doubt. Examine their motives and realize that even though they may be doing something you don’t like, they may have positive reasons in their minds.

Definitions: (1) having distinctive importance; momentous; renowned; (2) marked by nobility of thought or action; distinguished; dignified (3) unusual in ability of achievement; highly gifted; illustrious; superior; eminent; (4) impressive; remarkable; grand (5) proficient; skillful; (6) excellent; splendid; fine; (7) enthusiastic

Synonyms: celebrated, extraordinary, grand, majestic, powerful

Quotes:
• To be great is to be Godlike. And since the quality of greatness is wholly determined by the content of goodness, it follows that, even in your present human estate, if you can through grace become good, you are thereby becoming great. — The Urantia Book (28:6.22)

• Greatness is a transitory experience. It is never consistent. It depends in part upon the myth-making imagination of humankind. The person who experiences greatness must have a feeling for the myth he is in. He must reflect what is projected upon him. And he must have a strong sense of the sardonic. This is what uncouples him from belief in his own pretensions. The sardonic is all that permits him to move within himself. Without this quality, even occasional greatness will destroy a man. — Frank Herbert (1920-1986) Dune
Note: The word ‘sardonic’ is said to derive from the sardonion plant that grows in Sardinia, which when eaten produces convulsive laughter that can end in death.

Divine Definitions: (1) The personal aspect of deity; (2) The One Uncaused Reality; (3) The first, best, and highest being in existence; (4) The embodiment of sanctity

Comments:
• Divinity is the unifying and coordinating quality of deity. Divinity is qualitatively comprehended as love, truth, beauty, and goodness. Divinity is correlated in personality as love, mercy, and ministry. Divinity is manifest impersonally as justice, power, and sovereignty.

• God started it all going. He lets it run its course with the aid of beings who He also created that have a place in the scheme of things. God is supernatural, above nature, as well as in nature, but nature is not God.

Quote: God is the shortest distance between Zero and Infinity – in either direction. But God, being without dimension, is not a line but a point. Therefore, God is the tangential point between Zero and Infinity. — Alfred Jarry (1873-1907) Elements of Pataphysics [The Science of Imaginary Solutions] (1911)

Definitions: (1) refined or polite; (2) heeding the need of others with delicacy and sensitivity; generous; kind; (3) able to handle a situation smoothly; self-composed, serene; patient; (4) mild; moderate; (5) noble; royal; lordly

Synonyms: meek, pacific, peaceful, placid, quiet, softhearted, tender

Balancing Qualities: Determined, Strong

Saying: Suaviter in modo, fortiter in re (Latin): “Gently in manner, strongly in deed”

Comment: We associate gentleness with the sense of touch; but even though we cannot physically touch most people, we can touch their hearts with the kindness of a smile, touch their minds with an encouraging word, or touch their funny bones with a sense of humor.

Symbol: the unicorn {Gentleness and Longevity} (Chinese)

Divine Definitions: (1) Showing loving interest and amiable goodwill; congenial; (2) Always ready to comfort, help, and be supportive; loyal; (3) The Person who knows you completely and is intensely fond of you; amicable; (4) The Person who is considerate of your every want and need; (5) Willing and able to take you into His heart; endearing; inviting; hospitable

Comments:
• God is the friend of each and every individual. Friends do not like to see friends hurting themselves or other friends, therefore God is the ultimate promoter of peace. If there is a conflict, He will let each individual know what is the best right action.

• God is not only a judge. He is also a companion. If you do not recognize Him, look at your human and animal friends. All good-natured compatibility is shared and enjoyed by the creator of relationships.

• We normally take God very seriously. That does not change the fact that He has the best sense of humor in the universe. He knows all the incongruous situations we put ourselves into. His empathy for our difficulties is not diminished. We will be able to best surpass ourselves when we get to the point where we do not take ourselves so seriously.

• The cynic says the universe is just a big joke. But God does not laugh at us; He laughs with us. He is the embodiment of compassion. It is we who make mistakes and treat each other foolishly. Humor is the general anesthesia for being born human. Humor clarifies the facts and purifies the truth.

Divine Definitions: (1) The non-personal side of Deity; (2) The unlimited, primal, original, and precursor aspects of Divinity from which power, energy, and matter emerge; (3) Holding and controlling all power, energy, and strength in check.

Quotes:
• May The Force be with you. — George Lucas (1944 -) Star Wars

• The absolute truth abides forever, whether enlightenment appears in the world or not. — Buddhism, Lankavatara Sutra 61

Observation: All the stars and the tiniest atom all obey the Force.

Comment: God’s force and power are always in control, always acting with the best interest of all involved. They are governed by goodness and distributed with fairness. He has no reason or will to force or coerce anyone to do anything.

Divine Definitions: (1) The head of the household <in His case: the universe>; paternal; (2) Devoted to the care and rearing of the family; (3) The first Person of The Trinity; (4) The originator and initiator of all things and beings; The Father-Absolute

Comment: Here Father denotes the loving nature of The Original Person.
See Also: Mother

Divine Definition: The Father, The Mother, Sons and Daughters; the unit of mutual and intimate support

Comment: God was replete before creating anything or anyone. It was His loving nature motivating Him to begin the universal family. It is love that brings His family together. The best parental qualities are His.

Definitions: (1) all sides treating each other truthfully and impartially; just; equitable; objective; (2) pleasant and courteous; civil; (3) free from anything which might impair the appearance, quality, or character; clean; pure; (4) agreeable to the eye or mind <especially because of fresh, charming, or flawless traits>; lovely; beautiful; attractive; (5) open; honest; (6) the perfect melding of justice and mercy

Synonyms: candid, clear, equanimous, evenhanded, frank, honest, open, reasonable, sympathetic, unprejudiced

Comment: Every circumstance cannot be fair, but if all parties enter a situation with an attitude of fairness, they will have a better chance of ending up with a satisfactory outcome for all. Take into consideration not only a concern for your interests, but also a healthy concern for the other person’s interests.

Definitions: (1) enlarging in range or scope; unfolding; becoming more comprehensive; opening; developing in detail; (2) spreading positive ideas or ideals; (3) possessing a large measure of benevolence; broad-minded, generous, open-hearted, and sympathetic

Synonyms: amplifying, diffusing, dilating, extending, swelling

Quote: The great thing in this world is not so much where we stand as in what direction we are moving. — Oliver Wendell Holmes (1841-1935) American Poet

Comment: When you make someone your enemy, you shrink your consciousness; you shrink your options; you limit your possible points of view. The narrower your world view(s), the smaller your world.

Visualization: There was a TV show called “Bonanza.” It opened with a map being consumed by fire expanding from the center outward. Think of it as a positive metaphor: an increase of consciousness, an unfolding of personality, a growing of the soul?

Definitions: (1) Setting the cosmos in motion; actualizing reality; activating the plan of creation; (2) Fully committed to the dynamic service of the universe; (3) Affectionately connecting with each person; (4) Exerting executive control of the energetic forces proposed by Original Thought; (5) Operating within everything and everyone; absolute immanence

Comments:
• Only after God had thought about what would be the options (having taken a look at all possible beginnings, all branching possibilities, and every possible outcome), using His infinite omniscience and perfect wisdom, did God finalize a plan of action. Then did the decree go forth as to what should take place and who should be involved.

• The divine plan asks those who have made some progress toward The Center to be willing to help those who are still struggling to become more complete. We are asked to be engaged as He is engaged.

Divine Definitions: (1) God is the ultimate and inevitable goal of all creation; the final accomplishment; (2) The promise of prevailing in one’s search for God; the definitive attainment; (3) The end result of giving in to God’s irresistible influence; triumphant and victorious; (4) Our refuge and our strength

Comment: If we had no free will, our future would be predetermined. But since He, in His infinite wisdom, did give us the gift of free will, we can choose our destination and how to get there. If we choose to align our will with the will of The Father, He has assured us we will fulfill our heart’s desire. God gives us whatever help we need but we choose our own fate.

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Definitions: (1) arriving at a solution after purposeful consideration thus ending uncertainty or dispute; (2) making a choice or finalizing a judgment; (3) showing determination for a dedicated purpose; firmness; resolute

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Synonyms: conclusive, positive, unmistakable, unquestionable

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Balancing Qualities: Open-minded, Vision

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Parental Qualities: faith, wisdom

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Consequential Qualities: calm, peaceful

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Too Far: demanding, narrow-minded

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Quote:
The opposite of courage in our society is not cowardice, it is conformity. — Rollo May (1090-1994) Man’s Search for Himself
Note: You must be in charge of your decisions. There are elements of weakness and cowardice in conformity. Those who possess power tend to praise qualities which trigger an obedient response. They will say, “Be patient, be tolerant, calm down, do what I say and you’ll get yours.” They would say the quality of consistency equals fairness, that “we must be objective and treat everyone the same or someone will complain,” as if that is a good enough reason to promote mediocrity. In the end, does waiting patiently produce the promised reward? Sometimes promises cannot be fulfilled. Sometimes a promise is made realizing memory is weak, and what was promised can be forgotten or modified to suit the situation when it comes up again. Sometimes promises are intended to stall for time.

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Reflection: One of the most difficult times we have is just before a decision is made. This is particularly true on important decisions: a career choice, a relationship choice, a life choice. The mind brings up lots of possibilities and what-ifs. Some of these options have fear-triggering repercussions. But once the decision is...

Divine Definitions: (1) The Person who brings everything into being; the originator; the ordainer of what is caused to exist; (2) Characterized by originality and execution of first thoughts; (3) Productive; inventive; omniferous; (4) The generator of reality: physical, mental, spiritual, and personal; (5) Establishing and mandating the primal patterns, forms, and designs; the lawmaker; (6) Self-moved by the motivation of love

Comments:
• To appreciate and stand in awe of the creation is to give credit to The Creator for manifesting such prolific and imaginative innovations.

• God has also blessed us with a bit of the creative impulse. When we are being creative, we are sharing with Him a fundamental quality of His nature. This gift is one reason why He does not give us all of the answers. It is part of The Plan that we discover, and even create, reality for ourselves.

Divine Definitions: (1) Imparting reassurance, encouragement, and strength; (2) Bringing solace and consolation in times of distress; (3) Providing grace, hope, and cheer; (4) Showing compassion and soul soothing kindness; (5) Bestowing satisfaction and contentment; (6) The Teacher of all things

Comments:
• Definition number six, “the Teacher of all things,” helps us understand how comfort is beyond a simple hug with a sympathetic, “It will be all right. I’ll help you through this.” Comfort also includes information, security, and understanding. The more we know the more comfortable we feel.

• Some of God’s qualities (omnipotence, omniscience) are impossible to share. Some, like comfort, are where we have our opportunity to be like Him. We can give comfort, in all of its forms (teacher, listener, inventor, nurse) to our brothers and sisters; all the while getting better as we practice.

COMFORTING
Human Definitions: (1) imparting encouragement and strength; heartening; (2) bringing solace or cheer to someone; consoling; reassuring; (3) providing grace, hope, and cheer; showing compassion and soul soothing kindness; (4) bestowing satisfaction and contentment

Synonyms: relieving, supportive

Quotes:
• Expect trouble as an inevitable part of life and repeat to yourself, the most comforting words of all; this, too, shall pass. — Esther Pauline "Eppie" Lederer [pen name: Ann Landers] (1918-2002) Advice columnist

• We who lived in concentration camps can remember the men who walked through the huts comforting others, giving away their last piece of bread. — Viktor Emil Frankl (1905-1997) Holocaust Survivor

Divine Definitions: (1) The most exquisite Person in the universe. The personal quality that gives pleasure to the senses, exalts the mind, and elevates the spirit by pattern, harmony, and/or truth; (2) The aesthetic effect produced by harmony; (3) The essence of any excellent quality; (4) Grace with charm; delightful; (5) Intensely pleasing; extremely fine; (6) Artistic; attractive; lovely

Quote: Beauty is always triumphant over ugliness in the hearts of all who are illuminated by the love of truth. — Jesus of Nazareth (7 BC-30 AD), The Urantia Book, 156:5.5

Reflection: Our idea of beauty is so paltry compared with the grandeur of The Divine Beauty that it seems hopelessly meager. And yet these are the words we have available to use. One possibility is to extend the concept from an idea to an ideal and then it can be felt as well as known.

BEAUTY
Human Definitions: (1) the quality or combination of qualities in a person or thing that gives pleasure to the senses, exalts the mind, or elevates the spirit by their harmony, pattern, excellence, or truth; loveliness; (2) any particularly attractive, graceful, ornamental, or excellent characteristic; (3) a special grace or charm; delightful; (4) generally pleasing; very fine

Quotes:
• Beauty is built into every jot and tittle of creation – into every atomic brick! Beauty soaks reality like water fills a rag. — Chet Raymo (1936-) American Naturalist

• Beauty is a living reality that must be practiced to be fully realized. And the receiving and giving rhythm of appreciation and expression is how beauty is acted out and embodied. — Steve McIntosh (1960-) American Author

• The world in which we live needs beauty if it is not to fall into despair. Beauty, like truth ... is a precious fruit which withstands the ravages of time, which unites generations and which prompts them to communicate. — Second Vatican Council (1962) Message to Artists

Divine Definitions: (1) The giver of gifts; the Person with the most lavish generosity; (2) The giver of examples and life lessons; (3) The application of devotion to the universe <He bestows his love upon all his children.>

Observation: Many great people have lived remarkable lives: Jesus, Buddha, Lao-Tse, Saints (known and unknown). These lives, lived in the service of The Truth, are a gift, an example of how to live. All personalities can choose to amplify themselves to the exalted character they are meant to be. And when they do, they become a bestower of the gift of themselves upon humanity.

Comment: Among the gifts which have been bestowed upon us are: life, personality, body, mind, spirit, grace, free will, and revelation (external and internal).

GENEROUS
Human Definitions: (1) liberal in sharing; unselfish; a warmhearted readiness to give; bountiful; (2) free from meanness or pettiness; open-handed; (3) magnanimous; noble-minded; gracious

Quote: If you get great pleasure and joy out of giving of yourself, then your “selfishness” manifests itself as generosity. — Judy Kain (1948-) American Empathic Woman

Parable: The Bible story of the employer who paid those who worked all day the same as those who worked just at the end of the day shows generosity to be a greater quality than consistency.

Comment: Generosity includes the sharing of ideas, establishing positive systems and infrastructure, caring for emotional needs, even helping control those who cannot control themselves. The best generosity gives without expectations.

Observation: One of God’s most heartwarming characteristics is Absolute Generosity.

Divine Definitions: (1) The Person from which everything emanates; (2) The foundational focal point; the nucleus; (3) The place of tranquil quiescence; stationary and still (4) The fundamental source of power and authority; (5) The convergence of every part of reality <physical force, personality and mind circuits, spiritual and physical gravity, and all life>; (6) The destiny of everything; the nexus (7) Holding everything together; cosmic cohesiveness

Inspiration: God encompasses all reality, is its source and center, is extant throughout it, and is its ultimate destination.

CENTERED
Human Definitions: (1) composed and poised; in control of the mind and emotions; (2) placed or fixed at or around an axis; focused; (3) gathering together; concentrating; (4) holding a moderate or central position; (5) in a place of tranquil quiescence; stationary and still

Symbols: 1) the number one; 2) the tree as the world axis

Quotes:
• A mind at peace, a mind centered and not focused on harming others, is stronger than any physical force in the universe. — Wayne Walter Dyer (1940–2015) American self-help author

• The highest levels of performance come to people who are centered, intuitive, creative, and reflective – people who know to see a problem as an opportunity. — Deepak Chopra (1946-) Indian-American author

Definitions: (1) having easy and open access to; approachable; friendly; intimate; (2) receiving with gladness or delight <you are always welcome>; courteous, cordial; (3) able to be contacted, appreciated, or discovered

Observation: A welcoming person projects an air of friendliness by putting others at ease.

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Definitions: (1) offering the promise of an attractive or enjoyable experience; (2) polite urging; a welcome request

Quote: Practice means to perform, over and over again in the face of all obstacles, some act of vision, of faith, of desire. Practice is a means of inviting the perfection desired.— Martha Graham (1894–991) American dancer and choreographer

Definitions: (1) stimulating or exciting; having gusto; (2) adding a pleasant tang to; piquant

Quote: Zest is the secret of all beauty. There is no beauty that is attractive without zest. — Christian Emest Dior (1905–1957)) French fashion designer

Definitions: (1) ardent in the pursuit of an object; enthusiastic; (2) full of, characterized by, showing, or sowing fervor or passion; (3) giving wholehearted commitment

Compatible Qualities: Intelligent enthusiasm, High ideals, Deep understanding

Too Far: fanatic

Saying: Abeunt studia in mores (Latin): “Practices zealously pursued pass into habits.”

Comment: It is hard to be zealous in tedium. In order to proceed with a tedious task, one must transcend the boredom with a higher purpose; i.e., zealous concentration on the accomplishment of the chore by focusing on the idea you are doing some good for someone else, the community, or society as a whole.

Color: red

Definition: whimsically comical; clownishly crazy; wildly absurd

Quote: Master the Zany habit of thinking backwards. It will help you become a really great thinker! — Lucas Remmerswaal; New Zealand journalist

Definitions: (1) very pleasing to the senses <especially if tasty or tasteful>; delicious; delectable; (2) a general quality of approval or appreciation

Saying: One should always keep their words soft and tender for tomorrow they may have to eat them.

Symbols: 1) the tummy; 2) the tongue

Foods: 1) Love; 2) Creativity; 3) Music; 4) Nature; 5) humor; 6) gratitude; 7) Communion with the Divine

Definition: amusing in a clever way; exhibiting ironic humor

Definitions: (1) excellent; grand; marvelous; (2) unusually good; extraordinary; amazing

Proverb: When one stops wondering at the wonderful it stops being wonderful. — Chinese

Quote: If you want to find something wonderful, you have to be prepared to wonder. — Jerry Downs (1949 -) American Artist

Tip: Don’t be so interested in the ultimate spectacle that you walk unknowingly right by the simply wonderful.

Definitions: (1) a cause of astonishment; a marvel; (2) the quality of exciting and amazed admiration; (3) rapt attention at something awesomely mysterious or new and beautiful

Synonyms: appreciation, curious, reverence

Quotes: To be surprised, wonder, is to begin to understand. — Jose Ortega y Gasset (1883-1955) Spanish Philosopher

Uncertainty and mystery are energies of life. Don’t let them scare you unduly, for they keep boredom at bay and spark creativity. — R. I. Fitzhenry (1918-2008) Publisher

Tip: Deal with what happens as an answer and not as a question.

Symbol: a wide-eyed child

Definitions: (1) possessing amazing skill or accomplishment; very clever; (2) enchanting; charming; magical; (3) sagacious; wise; (4) praiseworthy

Definitions: (1) engagingly or ingeniously clever in conception and execution; (2) good-humored kidding; smartly facetious; (3) quick to see and illuminate amusing relationships or insights

Saying: Sal atticum (Latin): “attic salt” [wit]

Quote: Wit is the salt of conversation, not the food. — William Hazlitt (1778-1830) English Writer

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Definitions: (1) having a nimble, alert mind; quick in perception and understanding; keen; clever; sharp-witted; (2) being able to readily access memory and put ideas together in new ways

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Definitions: (1) having or showing good judgment; discerning; (2) accurately discriminating between what is true and what is false or between what is proper and what is improper; prudent; discreet; (3) able to conceive of a pragmatic solution; common sense; sagacious

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Synonyms: calculating, crafty, cunning, enlightened, erudite, incorruptible

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Balancing Quality: Appreciation

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Compatible Quality: common sense

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Familial Qualities: farsighted, foresighted, prepared

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• God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, courage to change the things I can and wisdom to know the difference.

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• Verbum sat sapienti est (Latin): “A word to the wise is sufficient.”

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• The heart is wiser than the intellect. — Josiah Gilbert Holland (1819-1881) American Novelist

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• Be you always as wise as serpents but as harmless as doves. — Jesus of Nazareth (7 bc-30 ad)

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Quotes: The beginning of wisdom is the definition of terms. — Socrates (c. 4th Century bc) Greek Philosopher

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Wisdom is better than strength, and a wise man is better than a strong man. — Amenemope (c. 1100 bc) The Book of Wisdom 6:1

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[Merlin:] The essence of wisdom is to know when to be doing and when it is useless even to try.  — Mary Stewart (1916 -) The Last Enchantment

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As mind pursues reality to its ultimate analysis … Thinking surrenders to wisdom, and wisdom is lost in enlightened and reflective worship. — The Urantia Book (112:2.11)

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Definitions: (1) Encompassing the entirety of discernment; Perfect judgment; capable; (2) The embodiment of truth; aware of all of the real facts and true circumstances; (3) The embodiment of beauty; the integration of reality; (4) The embodiment of goodness; knowing what is proper; prudent; discriminative; (5) Enlightened; incorruptible; (6) Having the wisest possible perspective; being able to see all reality at once; profound; (7) Proposing the practical application of His pragmatic plan; sagacious; (8) The most sensible adaptation of omniscience; possessing supreme common sense

Consideration: All that we perceive as separate is being coordinated in perfect symmetry because God’s wisdom is absolute and motivated solely by supreme love. All choices taken by The All-wise Creator will be the best course of action for all persons for all time. Nothing is out of place. He experiences no regrets. He makes no mistakes.

Definitions: (1) innocently charming; engagingly sweet; attractive; (2) cheerful; merry

Derivation: Old English, “joy”; Anglo Saxon, “delightful”

Definition: the intentional exercise of free will; one’s deliberate choice resulting in voluntary action; volitional

Derivation: full of <free> will

Balancing Qualities: Open-minded, Respect for others

Parental Quality: conscious

Too Far: obstinate, stubborn

Symbols: 1) music; 2) the sun

Definitions: (1) promoting or conducive to good health, mental vitality, or well-being; vigorous; sound; (2) tending to improve the mind or morals

Compatible Quality: homey

Symbol: bread

Definition: (1) showing devoted commitment, earnest enthusiasm, directed determination, or sincere and energetic focus; (2) dedicated to an ideal over a long time; loyal

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Definition: (1) acting with playful humor; (2) demonstrating eccentric creativity; (3) spontaneous, fanciful, and imaginative inventiveness

Compatible Qualities: changeable, rascally

Definitions: (1) able to communicate with grace, kindness, or propriety; articulate; (2) civil; courteous; (3) having the ability to converse with ease; quick-minded

Comment: It can often be a greater kindness not to speak.

Definition: one who loves literature; well-educated; well-informed

Derivation: The word encyclopedia comes from the Greek meaning “well-rounded.”

Symbols: 1) any book; 2) a library

Mythological Figure: Nebo, the god of science and literature in Babylonian mythology; also the god of prophecy

Definition: having good intentions in mind when acting; sincere

Definitions: (1) feeling favorable, kind or sympathetic; (2) having a pleasant character; friendly

Definitions: (1) sound in body and mind; healthy; (2) having reasonable propriety; just; right; (3) expertly accomplished; skillful; complete; done with close attention <well done>; thorough; (4) abundant; prosperous; fortunate; comfortable <His investments did well.>; (5) with a high degree of pleasure or approval; (6) the proper or satisfactory treatment of a person, thing, or situation; in a kindly or friendly manner; (7) to accept in good grace; (8) behaving in a moral manner; commendable; with merit; (9) a reservoir of feelings and emotions; (10) elegantly <She carries herself well.>

Symbol: sunflowers

Definitions: (1) carefully observant; vigilant; attentive <especially with parental care>; cautious; diligent; awake; aware; (2) guarding against danger; (3) alert to opportunity; (4) mentally informed; (5) acting with discretion; self-observant; self-restrained

Symbol: eyes

Mythological Figure: Argus, a Greek mythological giant had a hundred eyes and was ever watchful. After he was killed by Hermes, the god Hera set his eyes into the tail of the peacock.

Definitions: (1) ready with affection, cordiality, kindness, generosity, or sympathy; (2) loving; ardent

Familial Quality: familial

Color: red-orange

Definitions: (1) infused with feeling of loving kindness; affectionate; (2) strongly attached; intimate; (3) cordial or hearty <a warm welcome>; (4) animated; vigorous; (5) the ability to inspire with kindly feeling <warm to the idea>; affect with lively pleasure; (6) excited enthusiasm, contagious cheerfulness, attractive vitality; (7) to successfully approach a goal or find a solution <You’re getting warmer.>

Quotes:
• A warm smile is the universal language of kindness. — William Arthur Ward (1921–1994) American motivational writer

• Why there is one body in our System qualified to give light and heat to all the rest, I know no reason but because the Author of the System thought it convenient; and why there is but one body of this kind, I know no reason, but because one was sufficient to warm and enlighten all the rest. — Sir Isaac Newton (1642–1727) English polymath

Colors: orange-brown, red

Symbol: the hearth

Definitions: (1) gratification of aesthetic appetites <especially artistically>; (2) the hope for beauty fulfilled; (3) occupied with delight or pleasure <especially sensually>; (4) given to or spent in luxurious enjoyment

Definitions: (1) The personal exercise of the Divine free will; self-willed; (2) The all-wise choosing made manifest; self-disclosing; (3) The clearly correct interpretation of the original thought; self-determinative

Comment: The Creator respects His own decisions. God is the one Person with free will who completely understands the value of free will. Since He knows its value, He decided to gift us with free will as well. He will not stray from His own perfect decisions. He will never violate our free will. He will respect our free will even if we choose foolishly. Neither will He coerce or compel us to submit to His bidding. Instead, He has given us the opportunity to affectionately dedicate our will as a precious gift to Him. We can decide to be in harmony with His all-wise volition.

Definition: alluringly lively, playfully active, or spirited in temper or conduct; sprightly

Derivation: Latin, “long-lived”

Definitions: (1) necessary to existence, continuance, or well-being; indispensable; essential; critically important; (2) energetic, lively, or forceful

Colors: orange, red

Symbol: blood

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Definitions: (1) possessing moral and ethical excellence; upright; righteous; (2) having good and great qualities; (3) chaste; pure; virginal

Saying: Evil must be left behind in this world, but virtue follows the soul to heaven. — Hindu

Quotes: Virtue is like a stone, best plain set. — Sir Francis Bacon (1561-1626) English Philosopher and Statesman

His father had … insisted that they [the virtues] were the most important things he could have, and implying with a sharp dismissive gesture of hand and arm that wealth, fame, and worldly possessions were worthless and demeaning. “Little men,” he once said, “spend their days in pursuit of such things. I know from experience that at the moment of their deaths they see their lives shattered before them like glass. I’ve seen them die. They fall away as if they have been pushed, and the expressions on their faces are those of the most unbelieving surprise. Not so, the man who knows the virtues and lives by them. The world goes this way and that. Ideas are fashion or not, and those who should prevail are often defeated. But it doesn’t matter. The virtues remain uncorrupted and incorruptible. They are rewards in themselves, the bulwarks with which we can protect our vision of beauty, and the strengths by which we may stand, unperturbed, in the storm that comes when seeking God.” — Mark Helprin (1947 -) Winter’s Tale

Symbols: 1) the Christian Theological Virtues {Faith, Hope, and Charity}; 2) the Greek Cardinal Virtues {Prudence, Justice, Fortitude, and Temperance}

Definitions: (1) possessing moral and ethical excellence; upright; righteous; (2) having good and great qualities; (3) chaste; pure; virginal

Saying: Evil must be left behind in this world, but virtue follows the soul to heaven. — Hindu

Quotes: Virtue is like a stone, best plain set. — Sir Francis Bacon (1561-1626) English Philosopher and Statesman

His father had … insisted that they [the virtues] were the most important things he could have, and implying with a sharp dismissive gesture of hand and arm that wealth, fame, and worldly possessions were worthless and demeaning. “Little men,” he once said, “spend their days in pursuit of such things. I know from experience that at the moment of their deaths they see their lives shattered before them like glass. I’ve seen them die. They fall away as if they have been pushed, and the expressions on their faces are those of the most unbelieving surprise. Not so, the man who knows the virtues and lives by them. The world goes this way and that. Ideas are fashion or not, and those who should prevail are often defeated. But it doesn’t matter. The virtues remain uncorrupted and incorruptible. They are rewards in themselves, the bulwarks with which we can protect our vision of beauty, and the strengths by which we may stand, unperturbed, in the storm that comes when seeking God.” — Mark Helprin (1947 -) Winter’s Tale

Symbols: 1) the Christian Theological Virtues {Faith, Hope, and Charity}; 2) the Greek Cardinal Virtues {Prudence, Justice, Fortitude, and Temperance}

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Definition: robust energy; enthusiasm; lively spirit; vital

Definitions: (1) living or growing with full vital strength; robust; (2) acting with abundant energy and force; powerful

Color: red

Symbol: the hippopotamus (Egyptian)

Definitions: (1) exalted in having gained the advantage or superiority over negative passions, appetites, or temptations; (2) successful in the accomplishment of a positive goal; fulfilled

Synonyms: triumphant, successful

Symbol: the palm tree

Historic Figure: Rodrigo Diaz de Bivar [El Cid] (1040-1099) was victorious in every battle.

Definitions: (1) ever awake and alert; (2) keenly watchful to detect danger or trouble; wary; (3) on the lookout for opportunities to do good

Observation: Birds are always vigilant even while busily feeding or drinking.

Symbols: 1) the cock; 2) the rooster atop of a weather vane

Definition: characterized by energetic activity; vital; vigorous

Definition: vigor, energy, or enthusiasm in the expression of ideas either verbal or physical <as in dance>; vivacious; spirited

Definition: familiar because of attentive study or close association; skilled; experienced

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Definitions: (1) Competent to act in any situation; flexible; pliable; (2) Self-adjusting within the ever-growing complexity of the universe; self-correcting; (3) Competent to spiritize human notions; adjuster; (4) Available to satisfy any need; many-sided; resourceful; (5) Able to make old things new; renewing; (6) Ever-leading all beings toward the light; (7) Skillful at turning and tuning a situation; deft

Comment: God does not do it all alone. As a matter of course (because of His absolute generosity) He bestows every ability and gives away every task that can be done by any of his Sons or Daughters. As we become more like Him, we will be able to serve to a greater degree.

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Definition: prone to taking risks in spite of possible danger or loss; eager for adventure; daring

Synonyms: bold, brave, courageous, intrepid

Compatible Quality: lucky

Definitions: (1) Worthy of profound respect; noteworthy; (2) Worthy of worship or adoration; (3) Worthy of praise; laudable; (4) Worthy of appreciation; thankworthy; (5) Worthy of being enshrined; sacred; (6) Worthy of devotion; hallowed; (7) Worthy of reverence; blessed; (8) Deserving of deference; exalted; (9) Of the most holy stature; sacrosanct

Comment: Genuine supreme spiritual experience is beyond emotion, tradition, or philosophy. Once we know God, even to the small extent possible for humans, we realize He is worthy of worship by all intelligent beings.

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Definitions: (1) having qualities worthy of esteem; being highly thought of; considered a treasure; (2) having considerable significance monetarily, emotionally, personally, or spiritually; (3) the embodiment of all virtue; attractive; appealing

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Synonyms: admirable, cherishable, estimable, precious, priceless, probity

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Quote: We do not believe in ourselves until someone reveals that deep inside us something is valuable, worth listening to, worthy of our trust, sacred to our touch. Once we believe in ourselves, we can risk curiosity, wonder, spontaneous delight or any experience that reveals the human spirit. — e. e. cummings (1894-1962) American Poet

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Consideration: Cloistered nuns and monks spend their whole lives in silence, praying. They pray for the pope, starving children, and the good of the planet. They believe they are having a positive effect. And yet, by all accounts, things are getting worse. So, are they wasting their time? No, because they are being positive. All positive energy has a dual effect. First, on a personal level, it is making them more real because they are becoming closer to the qualities that make up the universe. Those positive choices are of value in and of themselves. And second, the prayer energy is being used for something. It is positive energy; therefore, it must have a positive effect.

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Observations:

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• You are valuable. Recognition of your value may be external; you believe the evaluation of another because they love you. Or you can take an honest, private assessment of your own inner value.

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• Einstein said you can only chase down the facts by what is observable. Science depends on it. On the level of being, the level of experience, you can actually get inside...

Definition: possessing a strength of mind or spirit that enables a person to encounter difficulty with courage; bold or determined in facing danger

Derivation: Old French, “to be of worth”

Synonyms: brave, fearless, heroic, intrepid, knightly, stout

Symbols: 1) the lion; 2) the wolf

Mythological Figure: Hector was the most valiant of the Trojans and their noblest hero. — Homer (c. 751-651 bc) The Iliad

Definition: possessing the quality or property of being useful; utilitarianism: an ethical doctrine that seeks the greatest happiness for the greatest number of people

Quote: To be a utilitarian means that you judge actions as right or wrong in accordance with whether they have good consequences. So you try to do what will have the best consequences for all of those affected. — Peter Albert David Singer AC (1946-) Australian moral philosopher

Definition: having the power to produce good or profit; beneficial; helpful; service giving

Quote: Joy, feeling one's own value, being appreciated and loved by others, feeling useful and capable of production are all factors of enormous value for the human soul. — Maria Montessori (1870-1952) Italian physician and educator

Definition: having polite manners; courteous; civil; suave; elegant or refined; sophisticated; polished and poised; pleasantly tactful

Quote: If a man be gracious and courteous to strangers, it shows he is a citizen of the world. — Francis Bacon (1561-1626) British philosopher and statesman

Definition: having integrity; upright; honorable; straightforward

Quotes:
• Get up, stand up. Stand up for your rights. Get up, stand up. Don't give up the fight. — Bob Marley (1945–1981) Jamaican songwriter

• Always tell young people to hold on to their dreams. Sometimes you have to stand up for what you think is right even if you have to stand alone. — Claudette Colvin (1939-) American Civil rights pioneer

Symbol: a tall tree

Definitions: (1) an emotional or spiritual exaltation; (2) a bettering of conditions; (3) bringing to a higher moral, cultural, intellectual, or spiritual level

Quote: Your destiny is to fulfill those things upon which you focus most intently. So choose to keep your focus on that which is truly magnificent, beautiful, uplifting and joyful. Your life is always moving toward something. — Ralph Fulsom "Red" Marston (1904-1967) American inspirational writer

Definitions: (1) carrying oneself with pride; (2) adhering to suitable rectitude

Synonyms: pure, upstanding
Upright implies a strict adherence to decent principles; conscientious implies an active moral sense governing all one’s actions with a painstaking efforts to follow one’s conscience; honest stresses adherence to such virtues as truthfulness, candor, and fairness; honorable suggests a firm holding to codes of right behavior and the guidance of a high sense of honor and duty; just stresses conscious choice and regular practice of what is right or equitable; scrupulous implies showing close attention to detail and applies to what is proper or fitting or ethical.

Quotes:
• The little reed, bending to the force of the wind, soon stood upright again when the storm had passed over. — Aesop (c 620–564 BC) Greek fabulist

• It is only through seriousness of purpose and persistence that we ultimately carry the day. We might liken it to riding a bicycle. You stay upright and move forward so long as you keep up the momentum. — Ban Ki-moon (1944-) South Korean [eighth secretary-general of the United Nations]

Symbol: the qilin [similar to the unicorn, with two horns] (Chinese)

Definitions: (1) happy; optimistic; cheerful; (2) marked by an increase in activity; prosperous

Quotes:
• Being upbeat is the key to life. — David Paradine Frost (1939-2013) British television host

• In any walk of life, a positive, upbeat outlook trumps any adversarial act. Revenge is counterproductive. Unproductive emotions limit one’s ability to move forward, to focus, to think positively, to act creatively. — Jon Meade Huntsman, Jr. (1960) 16th Governor of Utah

Definition: knowing what is in vogue in attitude or style; modern; able to see and set new trends

Quote: The more up-to-date the information, the more valuable it is. — Katie Jacobs Stanton (1970-) American businesswoman

Definitions: (1) alert to opportunity; enterprising; (2) industriously successful; promising

Quote: Progress lies not in enhancing what is, but in advancing toward what will be. — Kahlil Gibran (1883-1931) Lebanese American Artist and Poet

Definition: determined; resolute; indefatigable

Quotes:
• Dare, dream, dance, smile, and sing loudly! And have faith that love is an unstoppable force! — Suzanne Brockmann (1960) American writer

• God steps into the suffering with us, and He takes it on himself, and He walks through it with us, and He uses it to create something in you that is unstoppable. — Kirk Cameron (1970) American actor

Definitions: (1) existing as the only one or as the sole example; solitary in type or characteristics; (2) having no like or equal; unparalleled; incomparable; (3) singular; unusual; extraordinary

Quotes:
• When strangers meet, great allowance should be made for differences of custom and training. — Frank Herbert (1920-1986) Heretics of Dune

• If we live truly, we shall see truly – insist on yourself; never imitate – nothing is at last sacred but the integrity of your own mind, nothing can bring you peace but yourself, nothing can bring you peace but the triumph of principles. — Ralph Waldo Emerson (1803-1882) American Poet

Poetry:
I am now who never was.
I am becoming who never was.
I am always unique.

Comment: Everybody is different; everyone needs something different.

Observation: Parents soon see each of their children’s personalities as unique and wonderfully lovable.

Definitions: (1) Knowledgeable; discerning; (2) The source of the power and ability to think and to know; intelligent judgment; (3) Friendly or harmonious relationship; an agreement in feeling; (4) Helpful in the adjusting of differences; (5) Fully aware of meanings and implications; (6) Patient and tolerant of growth; sympathetic

Comment: To understand is literally to stand under. In this way God is the one who supports all reality with His empathetic knowledge: omniscience.

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Definitions: (1) the quality of being in accordance with or conforming to actual experience, facts, and reality; (2) the ideal of fundamental objective reality apart from and transcending perceived experience; (3) subjective existence portrayed to oneself or to others with honesty, integrity, and veracity; (4) expressing sincerity in action, character, and utterance; forthright; (5) in agreement with a common standard or a collective idea; (6) reliably certain; accurate; (7) dependably exact; precise Note: Higher nature in Sanskrit is called satchitananda: sat = truth, chit = conscious, and ananda = bliss.

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Synonyms: genuine, logical, upright

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Compatible Quality: tact

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Sayings:
• Veritable vos liberabit (Latin): “The truth will set you free.”
• Magna est veritas et praevalebit (Latin): “Truth is mighty and will prevail.”
• Vincit omnia veritas (Latin): “Truth conquers all things.”

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Poetry:
He who binds to himself a joy
Does the winged life destroy
He who kisses the joy as it flies
Lives in Eternity’s sun rise. — William Blake (1757-1827) English Poet

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Quotes: In a time of universal deceit, telling the truth is a revolutionary act. — George Orwell [born Eric Arthur Blair] (1903-1950) English Author

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Nonviolence and truth are inseparable and presuppose one another. There is no God higher than truth. — Mohandas Karamchand Gandhi (1869-1948) Indian Peacemaker

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Unless there is truth, and unless people tell the truth, there is always danger in everything outside of the individual. — T. H. White (1906-1964) The Once and Future King

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The truth cannot contradict The Truth. — Pope Leo XIII [born Vincenzo Gioacchino Raffaele Luigi Pecci]...

Definitions: (1) God is the dependable custodian of reality; (2) The assurance of tranquility; reliable; (3) The one who puts minds at ease; certainty; (4) The one who makes failure impossible; (5) The one who shelters souls; security; (6) The one who frees us from anxiety and doubt; safety; (7) Worthy to give confidence to; (8) Forthright in dealing with His children; matter-of-fact; straightforward; (9) Receptive to prayers

Comment: A relationship based upon personal devotion (having the best interest of the other in mind) with a human partner or The Divine Parent, can only be had if it is founded on trust. His trustworthiness is undeniable.

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Definitions: (1) placing confidence in; believing in the honesty, integrity, or justice of; relying on; (2) without fear of consequences; allowing exposure; open-hearted; confiding; (3) supposing and supporting something as accurate; (4) certain; sure; expectant; hopeful

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Compatible Qualities: responsible, trustworthy

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Too Far: gullible

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Note: Be wise to the signs. Are you being played for a sap? If the person you trust is a real good liar, don’t beat yourself up for being taken in. Be true to your ideals. Give yourself credit, and learn from the experience.

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Saying: In God we trust.

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Quote: As soon as you trust yourself, you will know how to live. — Johann Wolfgang von Goethe (1749-1832) German Artist

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Consideration: A blind person takes for granted the fact he or she occasionally needs to trust someone else; they need to put their faith in someone as a guide from time to time. Visualize a bicycle built for two; the person in front is sighted, the person in back is blind. They enjoy being together and they each play their part.

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Each person is sometimes a leader and sometimes a follower. We are all somewhat blind and somewhat sighted.

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Observation: If you trust someone, you will find (or have found) in their actions reasons to trust them. At first, you may give them the benefit of the doubt.

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If you do not trust someone (including oneself) or if you have a suspicious nature, then even the most innocent actions will be clothed in negative scrutiny.

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Comment: Trust is linked with expectations. If someone says, “I’ll pick you up at three,”...

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Definitions: (1) placing confidence in; believing in the honesty, integrity, or justice of; relying on; (2) without fear of consequences; allowing exposure; open-hearted; confiding; (3) supposing and supporting something as accurate; (4) certain; sure; expectant; hopeful

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Compatible Qualities: responsible, trustworthy

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Too Far: gullible

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Note: Be wise to the signs. Are you being played for a sap? If the person you trust is a real good liar, don’t beat yourself up for being taken in. Be true to your ideals. Give yourself credit, and learn from the experience.

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Saying: In God we trust.

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Quote: As soon as you trust yourself, you will know how to live. — Johann Wolfgang von Goethe (1749-1832) German Artist

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Consideration: A blind person takes for granted the fact he or she occasionally needs to trust someone else; they need to put their faith in someone as a guide from time to time. Visualize a bicycle built for two; the person in front is sighted, the person in back is blind. They enjoy being together and they each play their part.

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Each person is sometimes a leader and sometimes a follower. We are all somewhat blind and somewhat sighted.

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Observation: If you trust someone, you will find (or have found) in their actions reasons to trust them. At first, you may give them the benefit of the doubt.

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Comment: Trust is linked with expectations. If someone says, “I’ll pick you up at three,”...

Definition: a person of inflexible honesty and fidelity; loyal; faithful

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Definitions: (1) notably successful; victorious; (2) rejoicing over winning; exultant; elated

Quote: The most important thing in life is not the triumph but the struggle. — Baron Pierre de Coubertin (1863-1937) French Historian [Father of the Modern Olympic Games]

Comment: Triumphant is a quality of the past and the future. It is important to appreciate what has been accomplished. Contemplate the fact of having been triumphant in order to project it onto your next goal. Visualize it clearly and experience the victory even before it happens.

Color: red

Symbols: 1) a laurel wreath; 2) the Chariot (Tarot)

Definitions: (1) being in good order; neat; tidy; (2) a modification of viewpoint or opinion to satisfy another; compromise; (3) in balance; (4) being in good physical shape; firm; (5) well-proportioned; smartly designed; snug

Definition: greatly valued or highly prized; cherished; appreciated

Compatible Quality: abundant

Admonition: Your fond memories are treasured possessions.

Symbol: the golden fleece {Supreme Spirituality [through purity of the soul]}

Definitions: (1) Beyond the bounds of the finite; supermortal; (2) Superior to the material universe; multidimensional; (3) Existing objectively to any human conception; eventuated reality; (4) Potential actualized physical, mental, and spiritual reality; (5) Excellence surpassing practical understanding; supereminent; (6) Beyond the human realm; ethereal

Comment: God can help us in transcending our current finite state, but we have to choose to be more than we are. This is done by embracing those positive values inherent in, but not limited to, the finite. And by doing so we are also choosing to expand our ability to decide appropriately.

Definition: pioneering in any field; making or finding a new way; trail breaking

Definitions: (1) free from emotional disturbance or agitation; calm; serene; placid; (2) quiet; even; steady

Too Far: lax

Quote: It is neither wealth nor splendor, but tranquility and occupation, which gives happiness. — Thomas Jefferson (1743-1826) 3rd President of the United States

Color: green

Symbol: statice flowers

Definition: valuing the oral, written, or recorded history <especially the truth> handed down from age to age or ancestor to posterity

Balancing Quality: Curiosity

Familial Quality: conservative

Observation: There is a traditional conflict between those who hold to the established ways of the past and those who seek a more modern approach. This conflict need not be as divisive if those involved focus on the truth and value of each strategy. All things known lead to all things knowable.

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Definitions: (1) strong but pliant; yielding to force without tearing or breaking; flexible; resilient; (2) capable of enduring hardship; sturdy; resistant; (3) strong; robust; hardy; durable; vigorous; (4) resolute; firm; tenacious

Balancing Qualities: Gentle, Reasonable

Symbol: the sword

Definitions: (1) arousing sympathetic emotions of tenderness or compassion; moved to tears; pathos; (2) marked by sensitivity or tact

Definitions: (1) an ability, skill, or knack <especially with a musical instrument or with a mechanical tool requiring dexterity>; (2) a distinguishing trait or quality <a woman’s touch>; (3) the execution of an artistic talent in a special manner, <van Gogh’s touch with the brush >; (4) an appreciative and/or gentle contact; (5) to lay hands upon with the intention of healing; (6) in communication <let’s keep in touch>

Definition: energetic and dynamic; indefatigable

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Definitions: (1) happening, done, or said at a suitable moment, especially in order to achieve a desired effect; opportune; (2) arriving at the appointed time; well-timed; (3) appropriate or adapted to the times or the occasion; (4) a lifesaver

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Balancing Quality: Prepared

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Saying: Take the time to do it right, or you’ll find the time to do it over.

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Quotes: Dost thou love life? Then do not squander time, for that is the stuff life is made of. — Benjamin Franklin (1706-1790) American Statesman

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For everything there is an appointed time, even a time for every affair under heaven. — The Bible, Ecclesiastes 3:1

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God … does not recognize earth-time. To the universe, four days is no different than four billion light years. — Robert James Waller (1939-2017) The Bridges of Madison County

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Nobody sees a flower – really – it is so small it takes time – and to see takes time, like to have a friend takes time. — Georgia O’Keeffe (1887-1986) American Artist

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My hour has not yet come. — Jesus of Nazareth (7 bc-30 ad) Jewish Theologian

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Note: Do not be forced into something you are not ready for. Be wise in your judgment of the best time to act.

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• I have enough time to enjoy everything I do.

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• I have enough time to do everything I need to do.

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Reflection: Your pace is not the same as that of another. Respect the pace of others. There is an ideal pace at which we each should proceed. You don’t want to be going too fast or too slow. Your pace may be...

Definitions: (1) in good order; neat; (2) organized; systematic; methodical; (3) precise and appropriate <especially in manner and dress for a particular occasion>; (4) an acceptable and fair solution to a problem

Definitions: (1) experiencing increase or success <especially because of good management>; prosperous; (2) flourishing; growing

Quote: In order that people may be happy in their work, three things are needed: they must be for it, they must not do too much of it, and they must have a sense of success in it. — John Ruskin (1819-1900) English Poet and Artist

Symbol: marigolds

Definition: a feeling of sudden emotional excitement or a sudden wave of emotion

Comment: It may be interesting to look at what gives you a thrill. Is it fear in a small dose? Is it the exhilaration accompanying an important discovery or a personal accomplishment. Or maybe it is the beauty of nature or art?

Definitions: (1) practicing prudent economy; sparing; using good management of money and other resources; frugal; (2) thriving; successful; prosperous; fortunate

Synonym: careful

Too Far: miserly

Quote: You cannot bring about prosperity by discouraging thrift. You cannot strengthen the weak by weakening the strong. You cannot help the wage earner by pulling down the wage payer. You cannot further the brotherhood of man by encouraging class hatred. You cannot keep out of trouble by spending more than you earn. You cannot build character and courage by taking away man’s initiative and independence. You cannot help men permanently by doing what they could and should do for themselves. — Abraham Lincoln (1809-1865) 16th President of the United States

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(DIVINE WILL)
Definitions: (1) The original absolute thought of the Universal Father; (2) The personal thoughts of God; (3) The final will

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Comment: All Divine thoughts, being perfect, are instantly (in infinity) or eventually (during the finite) manifest. He is the originator of purpose and His actions are full of reason.

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(DIVINE MIND)
Definitions: (1) Full of thought; mindful; (2) Actions resulting from thought, i.e., decisiveness and creativity; (3) The opener of eyes; intelligible; (4) Able to keep track of all thought; reflective; (5) Characterized by careful thought; deliberative then deliberate; (6) The conceiver of new ideas; imaginative; (7) The ability to turn ideals into ideas and ideas into ideals; (8) Able to fit different thoughts together; elastic; supple

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Comment: Our mind is hard wired with the ability to know right from wrong and fact from fiction. But we can also evaluate the future based on the experiences of the past. We can look before we leap. We can determine the value of something and then decide if and when to pursue it. We can evaluate good, better, and best.

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(DIVINE COURTESY)
Definitions: (1) The inventor of respect; considerate; courteous; (2) Heedful; careful; (3) Concerned for the well-being of His sons and daughters; attentive; (4) Willing to do everything to fulfill the needs of His family

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Comment: The thoughts of God are so magnificent and so immense as to be beyond our ability to grasp completely. But He kindly makes it possible for us to comprehend His will in finite pieces.

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(DIVINE WORTH)
Definitions: (1) Worthy of being thought about with intense interest; engrossing; (2) Worthy of active study; theology; (3) Worthy of being meditated upon; worthy of devoted...

Definitions: (1) the power of reasoning and conceiving ideas; imaginative; (2) the ability of a person to form mental images; envision, (3) given to pondering a suggestion; cogitation; (4) focusing on something in order to arrive at a conclusion using logic, judgment, and inference See also: Conscious, Thoughtful Synonyms: deliberating, fancying, realizing, reflecting, speculating Quotes: I am, therefore I think. — Dr. Chris Halvorson (1960 -) American Theoretical Physicist If you realized how powerful your thoughts are, you would never think a negative thought. — Peace Pilgrim [born Mildred Lisette Norman] (1908-1981) Steps Toward Inner Peace Then only are we thinking when the subject on which we are thinking cannot be thought out. — Johann Wolfgang von Goethe (1749-1832) German Artist Comments:

• Thinking people apply their knowledge to new situations unrelated to the original situation.
• To move from a single good idea to its completion surround it with compatible ideas, and umbrella it with good ideals.
• Complexity results from keeping ideas in your head. Create systems to help you express your thoughts. Holding ideas takes energy – write them down.

Types of Thinking ────────────────────────────────────────────────────────── Strategic         Personality               Disciplinary                   Overall            Miscellaneous                         Related                                                          Quality ────────────────────────────────────────────────────────── Additive          Aggressive            Anthropological                Brilliant           Aesthetic Analytic           Extroverted          Financial                             Clear              Constructive Applied           Introverted           Historical                            Deep              Creative Backward        Kinky                    Humanistic                         Keen                Efficient Broad              Optimistic           ...

Definitions: (1) concerned with healing the body, mind, or spirit; (2) calming; relaxing

Derivation: Greek, “to treat,” “to attend to”

Saying: Cura te ipsum (Latin): “Physician, heal thyself.” Luke 4:23

Definitions: (1) very exact, accurate, attentive, or painstaking <especially in regard to details>; complete; (2) having full command of an art or talent; (3) executed without negligence or omissions <a thorough search>

Synonyms: absolute, perfect

Compatible Qualities: focused, zealous

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Definition: awesome; excellent; extraordinary; great; magnificent; unusually good; wonderful

Definition: softhearted, sympathetic affection; easily moved to love or pity; compassionate

Definitions: (1) youthful and delicate; fragile; (2) expressive of affection, consideration, or friendship; gentle; (3) keenly aware of impressions, emotions, or moral influences; (4) sensitive to others’ feelings; sympathetic; compassionate

Synonyms: careful, meek, merciful, mild, soft, yielding

Colors: green, indigo

Symbol: honeysuckle flowers

Definitions: (1) holding fast to ideals, ideas, habits, or possessions; (2) having a highly retentive memory

Synonyms: courageous, determined, persevering, persistent, tough

Quote: Let me tell you the secret that has led me to my goal. My strength lies solely in my tenacity. — Louis Pasteur (1822-1895) French Chemist and Microbiologist

Symbol: bamboo {Tenacity, Endurance, and Longevity}

Definitions: (1) moderate indulgence in or use of substance, speech, or action; self-controlled; (2) even management of passion and feelings; patient; calm; cool; (3) in proper proportion; balanced

Compatible Quality: Self-control (No flying off the handle.)

Familial Qualities: symmetrical, synergistic

Comments:
• Socrates, Plato, and Aristotle all extolled a set of cardinal virtues. They were: wisdom, courage, justice, and temperance.
• There is a time component to temperance. All of the good things of life need not be crammed into the shortest time (or even one life). There is value in savoring the moment.

Symbols: 1) a beach; 2) the number fourteen

Fictional Figure: Sir Guyon, a knight, is the personification of temperance and self-restraint. — Edmund Spenser (1552-1599) Faërie Queene

Definitions: (1) having to do with the practical, industrial, or mechanical arts; (2) showing technique <a technical skill>; (3) concerned with the applied and computer sciences

Balancing Quality: Intuitive

Observation: The following table, “Man versus Machine,” is from Human Engineering Guide for Equipment Designers by Wesley E. Woodson and Donald W. Conover

MAN EXCELS IN:

• Detection of certain forms of very low energy levels

• Sensitivity to an extremely wide variety of stimuli

• Perceiving patterns and making generalizations about them

• Detecting signals in high noise levels

• Storing large amounts of information for long periods

• Recalling relevant facts at appropriate moments

• Ability to exercise judgment where events cannot be completely defined

• Improvising and adopting flexible procedures and alternate solutions

• Ability to react to unexpected low-probability events

• Inductive reasoning

• Ability to profit from experience and alter a course of action

• Ability to perform fine manipulation, especially where misalignment appears unexpectedly

• Ability to continue to perform even when overloaded

• Original problem solving

MACHINES EXCEL IN:

• Monitoring people and machines

• Performing routine, repetitive, or very precise operations

• Responding very quickly to control signals

• Exerting great force, smoothly and precisely

• Storing and recalling large amounts of information in short time periods

• Perform complex and rapid computation with high accuracy

• Sensitive to infrared, radio waves, et cetera, beyond the human range

• Able to do many different things at one time

• Deductive processes

• Insensitivity to extraneous factors

• Rapid, continuous, and/or precise repetition of operations the same way over a long period

• Operating in environments which are hostile or beyond human tolerance

Definitions: (1) possessing the faculty of discerning <beauty, art, order, style, nature, or character> with appreciation; (2) able to act in a fitting or politic manner; using proper or decorous behavior; tactful; (3) elegant; refined

Synonyms: appetizing, flavorful, piquant, sapid

Music: A Miles Davis (1926-1991) trumpet ballad.

Definitions: (1) mild; gentle; harmless; (2) civilized; obedient; behaved; tractable; (3) humble

Balancing Qualities: Courageous, Spontaneous

Symbol: 1) a cat; 2) a dog

Definitions: (1) possessing a specific faculty, natural gift, or extraordinary endowment; (2) skilled in some field; showing great capacity; (3) exhibiting eminent abilities in art; (4) having superior genius in science

Derivation: Greek, referring to a balance or scale, also a weighed amount of precious metal

Compatible Quality: creative

Quotes: If you’ve got a talent, sometimes you’ve got to take that talent to where it is appreciated. — John Raitt (1917-2005) American Singer, to his daughter, Bonnie, when she asked why he wasn’t home so much.

Well done, good and faithful steward; you have been faithful over a few essentials, and I will now set you over many; enter you into the joy of your lord. — The Bible, Matthew 25:21

Comment: A talent may be innate, inherited, or acquired but it can always be enhanced.

Symbol: narcissus flowers

Definitions: (1) possessing a keen sense of what to say or do <especially to avoid giving offense>; fitting; having skill in dealing with difficult or delicate situations; diplomatic; (2) considerate of and concerned for the sensibilities of others <particularly those who are troublesome or stubborn>; persuasive; (3) possessing a shrewd sense of what is appropriate, tasteful, or aesthetically pleasing; discriminating

Compatible Qualities: patient, sagacious

Familial Qualities: finesse, graceful

Comment: To be tactful is not to be compromising. One must perceive the consciousness of one’s audience to understand what and how to say precisely what is needed.

Definitions: (1) precisely organized; having a logical plan; methodical; (2) having the need to order things, ideas, or structures into an integrated whole; thorough

Balancing Qualities: It is easy for a systematic person to get caught in the rut of efficiency by pursuing a task in a linear manner. If you add the qualities of flexibility and objectivity, you will be able to focus on the detail as well as manage to see the overview.

Definitions: (1) working together in harmony; cooperative; (2) characterizes separate agents, persons, or qualities that [when acting in unison] have a greater total effect than the sum of their individual values; superadditive; (3) describes a balanced or symmetrical collaboration; teamwork

Synonyms: A synectic exercise is the bringing together of a select group of diverse personalities and areas of expertise for creative thinking about a specific problem with the free use of metaphor and analogy; brainstorming is the spontaneous contribution of ideas, no matter how obscure, in the hope of solving a specific problem or to generate a general stimulation of creative thinking.

Observation: Any chemist can tell you about the synergistic/superadditive (definition #2 above) results which occur all around us. The most abundant example is water. From hydrogen, which burns freely, and oxygen, which supports fire, we get a substance essential to extinguish many combustible substances – not to mention its life-giving characteristics.

Another example is salt. From sodium, an extremely reactive metal, and chlorine, a poisonous gas, comes one of the most necessary substances for human health.

Symbols: 1) Sagittarius (Zodiac); 2) the hurricane {Cosmic Synergy} (American Indian)

Definitions: (1) having insight into another person’s mental or emotional state <even though never having been in that state oneself>; (2) demonstrating affinity between persons or from one person for another; (3) an action or response arising from compassion; (4) showing pity and understanding for another’s trouble or suffering; (5) in mental agreement; in cosmic harmony; in financial accord, etc.

See also: Nonjudgmental, Empathetic

Comment: Although you can sympathize with and for another, it is not a good idea to try to sympathize for yourself. It is too easily turned into self-pity. When you are in need of sympathy, is just the time when you must focus on the talents you have, the things you like, the people you admire, the accomplishments you have made, and the good you can do.

Colors: green, red

Definitions: (1) possessing beauty of form <arising from balanced proportions>; (2) showing similarity of arrangement on either side of a dividing line or plane; having correspondence of opposite parts in size, shape, and position; (3) able to comprehend the nature of reality <symmetrical thinking (often beyond logic and reasoning)>

Quotes: There is no excellent beauty that hath not some strangeness in the proportion. — Francis Bacon (1561-1626) English Philosopher

When we try to pick out anything by itself, we find it hitched to everything else in the universe. — John Muir (1838-1914) Scottish-born American Naturalist

Observation: The perfect proportion is known as the Golden Section: the square root of 5 plus 1 divided by 2. This ratio is 1 to 1.618. A is to B as B is to A & B. This is the ratio of most of nature’s most beautiful things: the human body, DNA, the spiral nautilus, et cetera.

Comment: Symmetry is beautiful in physical manifestation. Symmetry of the soul is not only seen; it is also felt.

Symbol: Gemini (Zodiac)

Definitions: (1) ready to move; celeritous; prompt; speedy; (2) able to shift from idea to idea rapidly; quick-witted; (3) able to do what must be done without delay; efficient

Quote: Let everyone be swift to hear; slow to speak; slow to wrath. — The Bible, James 1:19

Symbols: 1) the horse; 2) lightning (American Indian)

Fictional Figure: Camilla was the queen of the Volscians. She could run over standing grain without causing it to bend. — Publius Vergilius Maro [Virgil] (70-19 bc) The Aeneid

Definitions: (1) a loved one; a darling; (2) a generous, friendly person; anyone arousing loyal affection

Definitions: (1) something or someone pleasing or gratifying to the mind <sweet words of affection>; (2) mild, gentle, meek, or kind; soft or delicate; pure and clean; (3) obliging civility; courteous; amiable manners or behavior; gracious; an affable disposition; good-humored; reasonable; (4) pleasant to the sense of taste; harmonious to the ear; attractive to the eye; aromatic to the sense of smell; or comfortable, soft, or cozy to the tactile sense; (5) indicative of a beloved friend, child, or lover

See also: Suave

Saying: Sweetness and Light [The harmonious association of Beauty and Intelligence]

Symbols: 1) honey; 2) sugar; 3) nectar; 4) daphne flowers

Definition: : graceful with good proportions; lithe; possessing clean lines; sleek

Definitions: (1) upholding, supportive, maintaining, or enduring; (2) providing for; encouraging; confirming; (3) keeping up one’s spirits <especially in the face of difficulty or hard times>

Symbol: Strength (Tarot)

Definitions: (1) remaining alive or in existence; (2) continuing to function or manage in spite of some adverse circumstance or hardship; holding up; enduring

Quotes: Existence on a mountain is simple. Seldom in life does it come any simpler: survival, plus the striving toward a summit. The goal is solidly, three-dimensionally there – you can see it, touch it, stand on it – the way to reach it is well defined, the energy of all is directed towards its achievement. It is this simplicity that strips the veneer off civilization and makes that which is meaningful easier to come by – the pleasure of deep companionship, moments of uninhibited humor, the tasting of hardship, sorrow, beauty, joy. — Thomas F. Hornbein (1930 -) Everest, The West Ridge

In so far as [the] soul becomes permeated by truth, beauty, and goodness as the value-realization of God-consciousness, such a resultant being becomes indestructible. If there is no survival of eternal values in the evolving soul of man, then mortal existence is without meaning, and life itself is a tragic illusion. … What you begin in time you will assuredly finish in eternity – if it is worth finishing. — The Urantia Book (111:3.7)

Love and compassion are necessities, not luxuries, without them humanity cannot survive. — Tenzin Gyatso (1935 -) The Dalai Lama

Consideration: Become positive qualities and you will survive death. First give your chosen qualities meaning: definition, scope, and range. Then use and share them with somebody else.

Comment: The first impulse of a being is to survive; usually thought of as physical survival. This is important, of course, for a while. Except we have an abundance of evidence that physical survival does end. This is why we turn to the hope that there is a form of survival beyond the grave. Unless you were with Jesus when he lived and died, and saw him on Easter Sunday, you have no personal proof of life after death, nonetheless faith can see through the veil.

Definitions: (1) always effective <a sure method>; (2) reliable or dependable; trustworthy; (3) without doubt, question, or dispute; absolutely true; (4) showing no hesitancy; positive; confident; certain; (5) never missing; unerringly steady

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Definition: proceeding carefully; not likely to fail or fall

Symbol: the ram

(SURE-HANDED)

Definitions: (1) displaying dexterity with confidence and proficiency; (2) good with money or with any important matter <A mother has to be sure-handed in many areas.>

Definitions: (1) upholding another by aid, encouragement, or countenance <especially if in need>; (2) characterizes one who keeps another from fainting, falling, failing, or declining; (3) encouraging the spirits of another person; (4) helpful emotionally, financially, morally, etc.

Synonyms: assisting, forwarding, furthering, seconding

Advice: Instead of getting mad at yourself or someone else for mistakes, you can get over the disappointment quickly by putting as much support into the situation as you can.

Symbols: 1) the staff; 2) the crutch; 3) the throne

Definitions: (1) an ability of the mind to be resilient and adaptable <especially to something new>; (2) soft and pliant; flexible; compliant; (3) limber; lithe

Definitions: (1) of the highest quality; splendid; extremely fine; excellent; very competent; (2) grand; magnificent; stately; noble; august; (3) rich; elegant; luxurious

Definition: possessing a warm and cheerful disposition; optimistic; brightsome

Music: “On the Sunny Side of the Street” — Jimmy McHugh (1894-1969) American Composer and Dorothy Fields (1905-1974) American Lyricist

Saying: The sun shines on the wicked and the just alike.

Symbol: sunshine

Definition: appropriate; acceptable; fitting; proper; becoming

Definition: particular and concise <especially in speech>

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Definitions: (1) turning out to be as hoped for; (2) achieving a desired objective or a favorable result; (3) having gained wealth, fame, or quality

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People Who Exemplify This Quality: A successful person teaches another person how to succeed in the same way they succeeded. The student, in turn, promises to keep the cycle alive by teaching someone else. The commitment is not fulfilled until the new student has reached the predetermined goals and knows how to do it again. The student repays the debt by becoming the teacher.

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He has achieved success who has lived well, laughed often, and loved much;

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Who has enjoyed the trust of pure women, the respect of intelligent men, and the love of little children;

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Who has filled his niche and accomplished his task;

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Who has never lacked appreciation of Earth’s beauty or failed to express it;

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Who has left the world better than he found it,

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Whether by an improved poppy, a perfect poem, or a rescued soul;

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Who has always looked for the best in others and given the best he had;

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Whose life was an inspiration;

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Whose memory is a benediction. — Bessie Anderson Stanley (1849-1952) American Poet

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Quote: Success is the progressive realization of a worthy ideal. — Earl Nightingale (1921-1989) American Motivational Speaker

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Affirmation: I am succeeding; and am helping others to succeed also.

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Reflection: There are a lot of successful people...

Definitions: (1) possessing a refined sense of observation; capable of discerning the finer points of things; (2) delicately skillful or clever; artful craftsmanship; cunning; (3) having a keen insight and ability to penetrate deeply and thoroughly; astute; discriminating

Questions:

• What do I have to offer?

• How can I love this other person?

• What form of love does this person need?

• How subtle should I be with my generosity?

Note: Be willing to see the person’s value and respect their individual need.

Definitions: (1) lofty or exalted in excellence, nature, thought, or style; (2) inspiring awe due to outstanding spiritual, intellectual, or moral worth; (3) imbued with high honor or dignity; noble; (4) to purify or convert something inferior into something of higher value

Comment: Acquiring qualities transforms you from a mere collection of physical molecules into the sublime state of a spiritual being.

Definition: smoothly gracious or polite; sophisticated polish; well-mannered

Derivation: Latin, “sweet” <referring to sweetness of the mind versus sweetness to the tongue.>

Synonyms: Suave suggests a specific ability to deal with others easily and without friction; diplomatic stresses an ability to deal with ticklish situations tactfully; politic implies shrewd as well as tactful and suave in the handling of people; urbane implies high cultivation and poise coming from wide social experience.

Definitions: (1) characterized by or conforming to the current fashion; (2) elegantly smart or chic; (3) a unique combination of charming elements; individualistic

Quote: Style is the dress of thought. Style is the outward manifestation of our inner spirituality. — Reverend Leo Booth (1946 -) British-American Author, Say Yes to Your Spirit

Definitions: (1) strength derived from vigorous growth, determination of spirit, or solidity of constitution <a person of sturdy stock>; robust; hardy; (2) courageous; indomitable; resolute

Observation: Even if a person is as sturdy as an oak, you can tell by their smile if they have a gentle spirit.

Definition: possessing striking beauty or excellence

Quote: The human soul itself is quite ordinary, existing by the billion, and on a crowded street you pass souls a thousand times a minute. And yet within the soul is a graceful shining song more wonderful than the stunning cathedrals that stand over the countryside unique and alone. The simple songs are the best; they last into time as inviolably as the light. — Mark Helprin (1947 -) Memoir From Antproof Case

Definitions: (1) physically fit; substantial; solid; having great muscular brawn; robust; stout; in healthy and sound condition; hale; hearty; (2) morally powerful; having command of character or will; forceful; persuasive; cogent; (3) intellectually authoritative; able to think clearly and to express thoughts dynamically; forthright; passionate; (4) emotionally intense <in degree or quality>; ardent; warm; deeply felt; (5) being a distinctive or distinguished character; (6) possessing a singular competency or ability in a specified subject or field; (7) able to endure beyond normal limits; (8) having many resources <i.e., controlling wealth, numbers (of people), or supplies>; (9) exhibiting a potent effect; conspicuously productive

Balancing Qualities: Compassionate, Friendly, Gentle, Helpful

Note: In the physical realm you can’t just keep your body hard, you have to keep it supple as well. Same on the emotional, mental, and spiritual levels. You can’t just exemplify those qualities that give you strength. You also need to allow yourself the flexibility necessary to encompass the “softer” side of reality.

Quotes: When we were young, we were stronger than death. — Inuit Explorer

What does not destroy me, makes me strong. — Friedrich Wilhelm Nietzsche (1844-1900) German Philosopher

Color: red

Symbols: 1) horns; 2) the tiger; 3) a coiled snake; 4) thighs (Egyptian); 5) dahlias [inner strength]

Fictional Figures: 1) Kwasind in Hiawatha is the strongest man who ever lived. — Henry Wadsworth Longfellow (1807-1882); 2) Superman (1932 -); 3) Superwoman (1942 -)

Mythological Figures: 1) Sampson; 2) Hercules; 3) Atlas, who holds up the world

Definitions: (1) devoted to the acquisition of knowledge; (2) characterized by careful attention to facts or truth; diligent; earnest; (3) marked by or suggesting purposefulness; (4) deliberately or consciously planned; (5) fond of or engaged in instruction

Derivation: Latin, “eager,” “zealous”

Quote: A pupil from whom nothing is ever demanded which he cannot do, never does all he can. — John Stuart Mill (1806-1873) British Philosopher

Definition: remarkable due to conspicuous qualities; noticeably attractive; obviously impressive

Definitions: (1) making great efforts to do one’s best; trying very hard; (2) taking productive steps toward a valuable goal; (3) struggling vigorously <as in opposition or resistance> <striving for justice>

Quote: Living [is] struggling to do something impossible – to succeed, or die, knowing you had tried! — Anne McCaffrey (1926 -) Dragonflight

Comment: When we suffer and strive, we tend to focus on a narrow, subjective sense of reality. But if we view our situation as part of something larger, we can anticipate the values we have the opportunity of manifesting. Consider the tree growing on the edge of existence at tree line. The fact it is surviving in a harsh environment creates its magnificence. Our life is just like that tree, we are living through difficulty and continuing to grow.

Advice: When people use the words I, me, or mine, we are usually speaking from our lower selves. But at those times when a person is aligned with his or her higher self, they speak with the voice and identity of the higher self. During that time, we can dictate to the lower self what is of greater value.

Practice this alignment through meditation. Talk to your higher self, give your will over to your higher self. “It is my will that Your will be done.” Heed the positive feelings, insights, and understandings that are always trying to break though from the higher mind. We will filter and change what we receive to align with our current sense of reality, but as we pay attention to those fragments of pure, clear, accurate thought, our current reality will be transformed for the better.

Definitions: (1) expanding; reaching <stretching the limits of imagination>; (2) opening the mind beyond its previous boundaries <resulting in new extents>; (3) elongating something that has the ability to return to its original shape; (4) going beyond an original ability <usually with effort>; (5) extending over a distance <stretching your thoughts even to the heavens>

Quote: Man’s mind stretched to a new idea never goes back to its original dimension. — Oliver Wendell Holmes (1809-1894) American Physician and Author

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Definition: able to maintain stability when faced with the state of bodily or mental tension resulting from factors tending to alter an existent equilibrium; emotional flexibility

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Balancing Qualities: Clarity, Relaxation, Understanding

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Quotes: The mind can go either direction under stress – toward positive or toward negative: on or off. Think of it as a spectrum whose extremes are unconsciousness at the negative end and hyperconsciousness at the positive end. The way the mind will lean under stress is strongly influenced by training. — Frank Herbert (1920-1986) Dune

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1. Know your life goals. Decide to concentrate on what is worth being, rather than what is worth having.

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2. Stop measuring your life in quantities and begin to think in terms of qualities.

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3. Cut back on the “I’ve got to do everything” idea – delegate.

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4. Spend some quiet time to read; stare into space.

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5. Cultivate a deep friendship. — Jane Brody (1941 -) Type “A” Behavior: Don’t Rush Your Life Away

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Note: Brody also advises that we cure “hurry sickness” and conquer hostility.

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• Exercise helps create stress hardiness – all kinds of exercise: physical, emotional (friendship), psychological (reflecting), and spiritual (meditation).

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• All qualities are progressive. Compare a current concern to a previous one. Earlier you would have folded, but now it is less of a big deal. It used to be heavy, but now you take it in stride.

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• If you are escaping your stress with drugs or alcohol,...

Definition: possessing undeviating rectitude; upright; honest; open; frank; candid

Quote: You can run faster if you don’t run into walls. — Jerry Downs (1949 -) American Sage

Symbol: a straight line

Definition: (1) evoke strong feelings; (2) rousing; thrilling; stimulating; exciting

Compatible Quality: inspiring

Definitions: (1) strong; sturdy; robust; able-bodied; (2) bold; intrepid; valiant; brave; courageous; (3) resolute; fortitude; dauntless; (4) powerful; forceful

Synonyms: brawny, enduring, solid, staunch, substantial, vigorous

Balancing Qualities: Generous, Gentle

Definition: characterizes one who excites others to growth; rousing to greater activity

Compatible Quality: inspiration

Note: You are inspired to begin or continue with enthusiasm if you are stimulated by some force, outside or inside, that is powerfully valuable to you.

Colors: magenta, yellow

Definitions: (1) constant, firm, persevering or determined; tenacious; (2) resolutely supportive; faithful, loyal

Quote: He always stands by his decisions: what is right is right, even if it hurts or later turns out to be wrong. — Nina George (1973 -) The Little Paris Bookshop

Observation: Antidotes to Disappointment

• A sense of humor

• Faith in what you are doing

• Learning from information given

• Adjusting your plan to circumstances

Inspiration: Terry Fox (1958-1981) ran 3,339 miles across Canada in 1980 raising $25 million for cancer research, even though he had one artificial leg lost to cancer. — Ann Donegan Johnson, The Value of Facing a Challenge: The Story of Terry Fox

Definition: conforming to excellent quality, value, or standard < a sterling reputation>; genuine purity

Definition: firm, constant, or resolute in mind, purpose, pursuit, or principle; controlled and stable

Compatible Quality: dependable

Definitions: (1) like a star; brilliant; (2) outstanding

Saying: Per aspera ad astra (Latin): “through difficulties to the stars”

Definitions: (1) well established; (2) firmly fixed in faith; dedicated; (3) devotion to duty; resolute; (4) not fickle or wavering; loyal

Derivation: Old English, “to stand fast (stable)”

Too Far: stubborn

Definition: holding tightly to a principle; steady and steadfast; constant and consistent

Familial Qualities: faithful, loyal

Definitions: (1) well-proportioned beauty; stately; (2) showing poise and dignity; graceful

Definitions: (1) majestic in mien or manner; lofty, (2) dignified elegance

Synonyms: elevated, grand, imposing, lordly, magnificent, proud

Definitions: (1) resistance to fatigue, illness, stress, or difficulty; (2) possessing staying power or endurance

Derivation: Latin, referring to the life-threads spun by the Fates

Definitions: (1) valiant in character or deed; brave; bold; daring; (2) robust in body, mind, or spirit; strong; sturdy; (3) resolute; firm; (4) one who is staunchly supportive; steadfast; unwavering; unshakable dependability

Fictional Figure: Philip Faulconbridge, a daring soldier, true as steel to his friends. — William Shakespeare (1564-1616) King John

Definitions: (1) not easily moved or thrown off balance; not likely to break down, fall apart, or give way; steady; fixed; (2) firm in character, purpose, or resolution; steadfast; stalwart; (3) enduring or possibly permanent; long lasting; firm; solid; (4) capable of returning to equilibrium or original position after having been displaced; flexible; (5) full of composure; self-possessed; self-sufficient

Balancing Qualities: Adventuresome, Changeable, Lively

Too Far: stagnant

Quote: Heaven is under our feet as well as over our heads. — Henry David Thoreau (1817-1862) American Author

Reflection: We hold on to our old selves while allowing our new selves to grow around the old. We are like coral, where the old is the structure upon which the new growth of life is active. The old self is a record of what we have chosen. The only you that is alive and vibrant is the new you. The past is the structure upon which we rely for stability. We know ourselves by who we have been, and yet we are not our past structure any more than we are our body.

Symbols: 1) the cube; 2) the number four

Definition: courageous; lively; mettlesome; plucky; spirited

Definition: full of life; nimble; agile; energetic; active <especially of the aged>

Definitions: (1) having an elastic quality; resilient; flexible; (2) showing a lively and happy gait <with a spring in her step>

Definitions: (1) possessing an airy spirit providing cheerfulness or courage; (2) lively or spryly animated; brisk; vivacious; light but spirited vigor of manner or wit; buoyant

Definitions: (1) possessing an airy spirit providing cheerfulness or courage; (2) lively or spryly animated; brisk; vivacious; light but spirited vigor of manner or wit; buoyant

Definitions: (1) inspiringly valiant; illustrious of heroic imagination; famous; celebrated; distinguished; (2) exceptionally good; very fine; excellent; (3) sumptuously grand < a splendid idea>; imposing

Synonyms: brilliant, glorious, magnificent

Color: violet

Definitions: (1) acting playfully or creatively upon a sudden impulse; (2) not premeditated; not contrived or manipulated; natural; (3) done or resulting from one’s own desire

Too Far: capricious

Saying: Carpe diem (Latin): “Seize the day.”

Comment: Each quality has a default level. But you can change that level by being open to it when it comes up in your life. Consciously supporting it enhances it.

Observation: Automatic versus Spontaneous

Your automatic reactions are put into play immediately without thought. They could be very complex responses or as simple as flight or fight. Your habitual reactions have been created genetically over many generations. You can and have modified them somewhat by your conscious actions.

A spontaneous response could, at the least, be the same as an automatic response. But it also could be much more flexible. As you add a wider range of possible options, you extend your responsiveness.

Definitions: (1) pertaining to the spirit or soul as distinguished from the body; (2) from or concerned with the higher part of the mind; (3) consisting of pure essence; incorporeal; (4) showing much refinement of thought and feeling; (5) having to do with religion or the church; sacred, devotional, or ecclesiastical; not lay or temporal; the moral aspect; (6) supernatural; supra-personal

Quote: We are not human beings on a spiritual journey; we are spiritual beings on a human journey. — Steven Covey (1932-2012) Inspirational Speaker

Reflection: On the highest spiritual level all potentials are actuals.

Colors: blue, indigo

Symbols: 1) fire; 2) birds; 3) wings; 4) the lamp; 5) the eagle

Definitions: (1) having or showing mettle, courage, vigor, animation, or energy; (2) the spiritualizing influence; the immaterial intelligent or sentient part of a person; (3) the supreme moral and ethical standard; the motivating, activating, or essential principle influencing a person’s actions <the spirit of helpfulness>; (4) a positive inclination, impulse, or tendency (5) the source of ideals and values; the extraordinary feelings and qualities characterizing one’s inner attitude; ; qualitative reality; (6) the disposition of firmness or assertiveness

See also: High-Spirited, Public-Spirited

Too Far: tempestuous

Definitions: (1) grippingly charming; fascinating; enchanting; (2) characterizes a speaker of compelling eloquence; captivating; (3) marks an act of surprising interest; riveting

Symbol: 1) oleander; 2) moon flower

Definitions: (1) fragrant or aromatic to the smell and pungent to the taste <also applies to individuality, manners, or mind>; (2) something or someone who enriches in a positive way; characterizes that which gives zest or interest to; (3) lively, spirited, piquant

Saying: Variety is the spice of life. — William Cowper (1731-1800) English Poet

Symbol: peppers

Definitions: (1) possessing extraordinary or uncommon characteristics; exceptional; unique; (2) particularly valued <a special friend>; (3) appropriate; proper

See also: Important

Synonyms: distinctive, distinguished, individualistic

Definitions: (1) founded on truth; strong; valid; reliable; sensible <sound advice>; (2) morally solid; honest; honorable; upright; virtuous; trustworthy <The Church prides itself on sound principles.>; (3) firm; safe; stable; secure <especially financially>; (4) thorough; complete; (5) whole; unimpaired; unhurt; unmutilated; not weak, diseased, or damaged; healthy

Saying: Mens sana in corpore sano (Latin): “a sound mind in a sound body”

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Definitions: (1) possessing positive qualities; the embodiment of a quality <Brevity is the soul of wit.>; (2) full of or expressive of emotion or deep feeling <All were moved by the artist’s soulful rendition.>; (3) having spiritual or emotional warmth, power, or understanding

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Quotes: If the head and the body are to be well, you must begin by curing the soul. — Plato (c. 4th Century bc) Greek Philosopher

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What shall it profit you if you gain the whole world and lose your own soul? — Jesus of Nazareth (7 bc-30 ad) The Bible, Matthew 16:26

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If the soul could have known God without the world, the world would never have been created. — Meister Eckhart [born Eckhart von Hochheim] (c.1260-1328) German Theologian

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The soul is the self-reflective, truth-discerning, and spirit-perceiving part of man which forever elevates the human being above the level of the animal world. — Jesus of Nazareth (7 bc-30 ad) The Urantia Book (133:6.5)

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If you would have the message of the gods to direct your life, look for that which repeats. ... It comes again and again until you have made it part of your soul and your enduring spirit. — Marion Zimmer Bradley (1930-1999) The Mists of Avalon

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• Remember your belongings are just stuff; material possessions belong to Mother Earth. You are really made of your spiritual qualities, your soul.

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• The tools used to build your soul are:

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1. Events – may be external or internal

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2. Evaluations/reactions – based on your mind frame and soul characteristics to date

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Definitions: (1) knowledgeable and perceptive of modern matters; urbane; worldly-wise; cultured; (2) clever with complex ideas

Derivation: The Sophists were a class of ancient Greeks who taught values: rhetoric, philosophy, politics, mathematics, etc. Unfortunately, the use of vain subtleties and false axioms by some, gave the word sophistry its current meaning of general distrust and contempt.

Balancing Qualities: Honest, Natural, Simple

Definitions: (1) restored to a quiet, calm, or normal state; (2) mitigate, soften, or relieve <as pain or grief>; (3) gratifying; pleasing <soothing clarinet>

Synonyms: allaying, appeasing, assuaging, composed, pacifying

Colors: blue, violet

Definitions: (1) firm; sound; real; genuine; (2) showing complete unity <a solid contract>; in accord; (3) possessing moral strength and just principles; (4) displaying valid or true reasoning; (5) dependable <a solid relationship>; (6) exhibiting substantial quality <solid values>; (7) demonstrating ample comfort <solid furniture>

Synonyms: complete, prudent, stable, stout, thoroughgoing

Balancing Qualities: Flexible, Flowing

Compatible Quality: reliable

Symbol: granite

Definitions: (1) serious <especially with religious reverence>; sacred; devout; pious; marked by veneration to God; (2) willing to be deeply earnest, very sincere <a solemn oath>

Synonyms: awe-inspiring, profound

Compatible Qualities: liturgical, prayerful, worshipful

Familial Qualities: humor, selflessness

Too Far: dour

Definition: showing kindly affection; feeling tender and compassionate; meek; sympathetic or responsive to others; having a generous and giving spirit

Definitions: (1) gentle to the touch; smooth; pleasant to the feelings; comfortable; (2) easy to work with; malleable; pliable; flexible; (3) not hard, rough, rigid, rude, or harsh

Synonyms: civil, courteous, delicate, engaging, kind, lenient, mellow, mild, quiet, sentimental, sympathetic, tender

Balancing Quality: Hardy

Too Far: timid

Symbols: 1) fur; 2) a baby’s cheek

Definition: inclined to friendly communication; open to conversing; neighborly; agreeable to a free exchange of ideas

Balancing Quality: Attentive.

Note: The best communicator is the person who is the best listener; one who is genuinely interested in the views and lives of others.

Compatible Quality: gracious

Familial Quality: companionable

Too Far: garrulous, nosy

Definitions: (1) practicing a reasonable and moderate use of substance or emotion; temperate; showing self-control; not extreme in any way; (2) regularly displaying calm reason; cool; (3) having a serious, earnest, or thoughtful nature; solemn; (4) quiet; not flashy; (5) honest; not exaggerated <the sober truth>; (6) sane; rational

Balancing Qualities: Enthusiastic, Spontaneous

Definitions: (1) experiencing lofty thought, superior imagination, or sublime contemplation; (2) aspiring to great heights; (3) a feeling of unfettered freedom

Symbols: 1) a sailplane; 2) an albatross

Definition: (1) comfortably close <especially of a loved one>; characterizes one who cuddles with affection; cozy; (2) safe and secure

Definition: attractive in a flashy way; fancy

Definitions: (1) calm; serene; tranquil <a smooth disposition>; (2) equable; amiable; professional; (3) gentle; tender <especially to touch>; (4) making the way easy; comforting emotional upset; (5) a sweet and soothing sound in music or voice; (6) pleasant; enjoyable; (7) at ease in the social graces; charming; (8) even

Definitions: (1) possessing quick intelligence; mentally alert; shrewd; brilliant; (2) capable and practiced know-how; astute; clever; (3) brisk, lively, or witty <as an insightful remark>; (4) neat and clean with a fresh flair; in contemporary style; (5) sophisticated; elegant; fashionable

Definitions: (1) polished or smooth in manners, speech, or appearance; suave; (2) a well-groomed or healthy look; dapper; elegant; (3) slender, graceful lines; stylish

Definitions: (1) revealing knowing intelligence; expert; ingenuity; (2) individual deftness in execution or performance; mastery of technique; (3) able to perform dexterously a manual operation in the arts or professions; adroit; (4) having a competent aptitude in management

Mythological Figures: 1) Harpocrates, the god of science, secrets, and confidentiality among the Greeks and Romans; 2) Mercury, the Roman god of commerce, manual skill, eloquence, cleverness, and travel; 3) Hermes, the Greek god of science, eloquence, and cunning; also the inventor of the lyre, the protector of boundaries, and the god of commerce – serving as messenger to the other gods

Definition: affectionate <as the intimate kindness of a sister>; characterizing congenial or loyal relationship with or among siblings or women

Familial Quality: brotherly

Definitions: (1) being the same in actual character as in outward appearance; genuine; real; (2) simple and straightforward innocence; (3) truthful and honest; without deceit, pretense, or hypocrisy; (4) faithful

Saying: Ex animo (Latin): “from the heart”

Quote: Sincerity is the single virtue that binds divinity and man in one. — Senge Takatomi (1845-1918) Japanese Shinto Philosopher

Comment: The primary quality saving a person from being an out and out fool is sincerity.

Consideration: There are some crucial qualities, a class of qualities one really cannot do without. First on the list would be sincerity. If you are sincere in your attempt to do the right thing – however you define it – you are succeeding in a very important aspect.

Advice: If you are motivated by, and have a genuine sincerity in what you do, you should never feel guilty. If you choose correctly, it will reinforce the positive. If you choose incorrectly, you will learn there is a better way. And if it is some of both, you will get to experience them both and learn what was right and what was wrong.

Color: blue

Definitions: (1) easy to understand or deal with; (2) sincere; free of deceit or guile; innocent; (3) elegant and plain; not ornate or luxurious; unadorned; not elaborate or complicated; unembellished; (4) modest; unaffected; unassuming; unpretentious

Compatible Qualities: It takes time, teamwork, and tenacity to arrive at simplicity.

Music: “Simple Gifts”

‘Tis the gift to be simple

‘Tis the gift to be free …” — Elder Joseph Brackett (1797-1882) American Quaker Songwriter

Quote: Everything should be made as simple as possible but not simpler. If you can’t explain it simply, you don’t understand it well enough. — Albert Einstein (1879-1955) German-American Physicist

Note: The most complex thing can be boiled down to a simple formula or precept, for instance: E=mc2 or “All You Need Is Love.” As you are creating or investigating a system, its complexity can be overwhelming. But as you begin to grasp it, it begins to collapse back into its simple, unified reality.

Comment: Friar William Ackham (c.1287-1347) never said, “The simplest explanation is usually the correct one.” He did write, “Plurality must never be posited without necessity.”

Question: Although it may not seem obvious for some to ask, “Is there a reality beyond this one?” There are very few who do not succumb to this wonder when Death is breathing down their necks.

Symbol: The number one

Definition: harmless folly; simple whimsicalness; happy innocence

Familial Quality: giggly

Definitions: (1) a person of value; (2) the self-realization of one’s own worth; self-esteem; (3) important

Definitions: (1) cunningly artful; (2) keen-witted in practical concerns; possessing useful smarts, insightful; (3) acute perception and sound judgment; savvy, sharp

Synonyms: Shrewd stresses pragmatic cleverness; astute combines shrewdness, perspicacity, and diplomatic skill; perspicacious implies unusual power to see through, and understand, what is puzzling or hidden; sagacious suggests wisdom, penetrating thought, and farsightedness.

Definition: in good order; tidy; trim

Definitions: (1) possessing a distinguished remarkable quality; illustrious; brilliant; eminent; (2) bright and often splendid in appearance <It was as if a shining angle appeared when she walked into the room.>; resplendent; (3) radiant; gleaming; sparkling, glistening

Definitions: (1) protecting or defending <especially a loved one> from danger, violence, injury, annoyance, or attack; (2) securing or rendering safe; harboring

Derivation: Middle English, “bodyguard”

Symbols: 1) a roof; 2) a house

Definitions: (1) quick, acute, or penetrating in intellectual perception; clever; shrewd; (2) showing a keen awareness; attentive; vigilant; alert; (3) extremely sensitive to the needs or wants of others; (4) full of activity or energy; brisk; active; vigorous; (5) attractively dressed or groomed; good-looking; handsome; beautiful; (6) clearly defined; distinct, unobstructed

Definitions: (1) Giving freely of Himself; selfless; (2) Desiring the beings of His creation to participate in the joys of the creation to an ever-increasing degree; magnanimous; (3) The great teacher; generous; (4) Contributing everything possible; munificent; (5) Liberal with rewards; altruistic; big-hearted; (6) Serving His children; the benefactor

Comment: Before God started time, before He created space, He was complete. Nonetheless, He could not deny His fundamental nature. He decided to fashion Reality because He is a giving Person. When we decide to share the meanings and values of our inner life with Him, we are partaking of that same divine nature.

Definitions: (1) possessing a pleasing appearance; excitingly appealing; glamorous; (2) interesting or thrilling; (3) stimulating; passionate; sensual <usually physically>

Balancing Qualities: Generosity, Joy, Respect

Familial Qualities: desire, intimacy, sensuality

Too Far: licentious, lustful, promiscuous

Observation: There are some big differences between having sex versus making love. Sex is a physical pleasure which can be hedonistic, self-absorbing, and egocentric. Making love is thoughtful, caring, and giving. When you consider your partner’s needs, you experience a greater satisfaction of togetherness.

Color: red

Definition: demonstrating helpful, beneficial, or friendly conduct; giving assistance or advantage to an individual or the community; thoughtful

Balancing Qualities: To balance confidence and humility practice giving service.

People Who Exemplify This Quality: Martin Luther King (1929-1968) American Peacemaker

Proverb:
When I do not know who I am I serve you.
When I know who I am I am you. — Indian

Quotes:
• Do what needs to be done for yourself as if you were doing it for a dear friend. — Jerry Downs (1949 -) American Philosopher

• I don’t know what your destiny will be, but one thing I know: the only ones among you who will be really happy are those who will have sought and found out how to serve. — Albert Schweitzer (1875-1965) Franco-German Theologian

Comment:
Near versus Far
Many think service must be direct and person-to-person. Even though this individual support provides an emotional connection to the person served, it is no less valid to serve a wide variety of people, near and far. Entertainers for example distribute their talent for everyone’s enjoyment. Writers serve their readers. If someone makes a tool it is up to the one who uses it to do something with it.

Symbol: the buffalo

Definition: marked by peaceful repose or quietude; possessing a tranquil, placid mind; undisturbed in one’s soul

Prayer: God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference. — Reinhold Niebuhr (1892-1971) American Theologian

Comment: If you are caught up in the hustle and hassle of an active life, you will long for serenity and relaxation. The next vacation or retirement seems so far away. But you can always take an inner trip to your center where all peace exists.

Symbol: a calm sea

Definitions: (1) showing, having, or caused by earnestness or deep thought; sober or solemn; (2) meaning what one says or does; not joking or trifling; sincere; (3) concerned or dealing with important matters; grave; problem solving with a focused intensity; weighty; (4) requiring careful consideration in matters involving difficulty, effort, or costly action

Balancing Qualities: Flexible, Lighthearted, Playful

Definitions: (1) possessing an aptitude for making desirable discoveries by accident; (2) the faculty or phenomenon of finding valuable or agreeable things not sought for; (3) having good fortune; lucky

Derivation: Also known as “accidental sagacity,” a faculty possessed by the heroes in the Persian classic The Three Princes of Serendip (1557). The word serendipity was coined in 1754 in the English-speaking world by Horace Walpole (1717-1797) English writer, art historian, and politician

Comment: Since we can cultivate any quality, then the “accidental” part of this definition can be expected and anticipated as the spiritual result.

Definitions: (1) derived from, based on, or perceived by the senses; (2) easily affected by or appealing to the senses; (3) keenly appreciative of beauty, refinement, or luxury; (4) enjoying the pleasures of sensation

Too Far: licentious (lacking moral restraints)

Colors: pink, violet

Definitions: (1) showing tender emotion; having delicate feelings toward music, poetry, or drama; sensitive; (2) moved by sensible emotional idealism; acting from feelings balanced by practical and utilitarian motives

Balancing Qualities: Reasonable, Rugged

Symbols: 1) teardrops; 2) zinnia flowers

Definitions: (1) responsive to the views of others; (2) tender or compassionate toward the feelings of others; (3) endowed with sensation; perceptive through the senses

Too Far: critical, temperamental

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Definitions: (1) possessing good judgment or common sense; containing reasonable intelligence; wise; (2) capable of being perceived by the senses; capable of exciting physical sensation; (3) having appreciation or understanding; cognizant; emotionally or intellectually conscious; aware

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Quote: A match may start a fire, but once the fire is burning, putting out the match won’t stop it. The problem is no longer the match. It’s the fire. — Michael Crichton (1942-2008) The Terminal Man

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In order for us to allow a new thought to penetrate our minds it must to make sense. In other words, it has to pass through our filter systems.

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See also: Believable, Conscious, Objectivity

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Everyone has six basic filters.

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1. Learning – solidified by study and reaffirmation

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a) Childhood instruction

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b) Tradition, Custom

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c) Group affiliation, e.g., school, church, patriotism, team, hero worship

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2. Logic – may be personal or social

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3. Experience – different for everyone

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4. Belief – primarily structured religious belief, but also takes other forms

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5. Faith – knows the truth when it is encountered. There are often contradictions with the other filters but the truth still registers.

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6. Habit – A combination of all filters solidified by action.

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There is a second set of filters. They are physical, mental, or emotional inhibitors.

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Definitions: (1) a proper concern for one’s own desires with those of others; (2) disregard for one’s own interests; unselfishly generous

Balancing Quality: Service-minded

Comment: True heroes are also self-forgetful and self-effacing. While doing some service, with love, for someone else, your mind and heart are focused on the good you hope the other to receive. The very thought of getting something in return lessens the value.

Quote: You can't live a perfect day without doing something for someone who will never be able to repay you. — John Wooden (1910-2010) American Basketball Coach

Definitions: (1) able to maintain oneself without outside aid; capable of providing for one’s own needs; (2) having confidence in one’s own resources or powers

Balancing Qualities: Open-hearted, Open-minded

How to Live This Quality Today: Wash the dishes. Sweep the floor. Vacuum the rug.

Definition: a proper respect for oneself or for one’s own character and reputation

Balancing Qualities: Humility, Willfulness

Note: Lack of, or loss of, self-respect results in inaction due to the diminution of will.

Quote: Respect for ourselves guides our morals; respect for others guides our manners. — Laurence Sterne (1713-1768) Irish-born English Author

Advice: Idleness diminishes self-respect. Therefore, stay busy with something constructive you love to do, or have a duty to do. Then turn that duty into an act of love. Self-respect begins with knowing what is worthy of respect; and is gained by loving and serving that value in others.

Definition: in control of one’s emotions or reactions <especially when under pressure and stress>; having presence of mind; composed in manner; calm; poised

Symbol: the cloak

Definitions: (1) succeeding in life essentially unaided; (2) made by one’s own efforts

Definitions: (1) having control or rule over oneself; autonomous; (2) characterizes a state, community, or region that is governed by its own people; democratic

Quote: That State is best which governs least. — Thomas Jefferson (1742-1826) American Statesman, 3rd President of the Unites States

Note: This is only true if the majority of individuals are self-governing.

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Definition: a confidence and satisfaction in oneself; self-acceptance; self-respect

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Balancing Quality: Humility

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Too Far: arrogant, egotistical

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• Self-esteem is crucial for healthy families.

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• When you’re playing with your kids, love just happens.

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• Self-esteem is the most important building block for emotional health and happiness.

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• People who feel good about themselves tend to take good care of themselves and treat others with respect. — Dr. Louise Hart (1921-2020) The Winning Family: Increasing Self-esteem in Your Children and Yourself

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Reflection: Notice the questions you ask yourself. Notice the motives which move you. Will I be accepted? How do I make people like me? There is a range of what you can do in answer to these questions. Should I be nice to others because they will like me? Should I be kind to others because it is the right thing to do no matter what they think about me?

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Are you giving to get because you feel inadequate? Or have you transcended that need and are giving for the joy of giving? If you have a healthy sense of self-esteem, you will be more likely to act without ulterior motives. You will be motivated by love rather than fear.

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We compensate for what we think is our lack, trying to fill the hole in our soul. Since we are potential infinite beings, there will always be a yearning for perfection. This can be experienced as a lack or accepted as a fact. Once you get to acceptance, then you can use the fact as you would any other fact – as a building block.

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Definitions: (1) having within oneself all necessary qualities; self-possessed; (2) functioning independently; self-sufficient; (3) formal and reserved in manner

Definition: regarding oneself as valid; self-affirming; understanding or believing in oneself

Compatible Qualities: self-forgetful, self-forgiving

Too Far: self-absorbed

Reflection:

We define ourselves by five criteria:

1. What we can do (especially the things we do well).
2. What we aspire to do.
3. What we will try.
4. What we cannot do.
5. What we will not do.

Advice: Love yourself as you are. Faults and problems need not be dwelt upon. Instead give yourself credit for your list of positive qualities and accomplishments. Move forward with positive intention. Moving away from the negative is not as productive as moving toward the positive.

Definitions: (1) suitable, fitting, or becoming <especially with reference to conventional standards of conduct or good taste>; decent; decorous; (2) having a pleasing or proper appearance; fair; handsome

Synonyms: appropriate, congruous

Definitions: (1) searching for; trying to find; exploring; (2) asking or inquire for <the truth>; desiring to learn or discover knowledge; (3) undertake to get or acquire; (4) aim at an admirable goal; pursuing

Quotes: Seek and you shall find; knock and the door shall be opened to you. — Jesus of Nazareth (7 bc-30 ad) The Bible, Matthew 7:7–8

Seek the greater thing, and the lesser will be found therein; ask for the heavenly, and the earthly shall be included. The shadow is certain to follow the substance. — Jesus of Nazareth (7 bc-30 ad) The Urantia Book (165:5.3)

Advice: Most everyone has emotional buttons that, if pushed, make them crazy. Until you find out what the underlying cause really is, those who are willing to manipulate you will have the means to do so. The immediate solution is to remove yourself, graciously, from their presence so they cannot continue to annoy you. The long-range solution is to remove the buttons.

Color: indigo

Symbol: the journey

Definition: persistent in application or pursuit; constant and persevering; steadily industrious; assiduous; a hard and diligent worker; indefatigable

Derivation: Latin, “sincerely”

Definitions: (1) keeping a quiet and steady attitude or pace; calm; undisturbed; tranquil; (2) possessing a composed and decorous seriousness; sober; dignified; (3) serene; contemplative

Too Far: procrastination, laziness

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Definitions: (1) free from fear, care, doubt, or anxiety; not worried, troubled, or apprehensive; having ease of mind; (2) sure; assured; certain; (3) trustworthy; dependable; able to be relied upon

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Synonyms: confident, guarded, impregnable, protected, safe, undisturbed

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Familial Quality: abundance

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Too Far: Preemptive war demands heavy sacrifices in the name of security.

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Considerations:

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• A person in solitary confinement is extremely secure, but he has very little freedom.

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• Nobody is going to give up their current sense of security without some belief they will establish a new level of security by doing so. Physical security will be sacrificed when spiritual qualities, like courage, loyalty, and love, are recognized as more important. The soldier will risk his security to save a friend. The parent will endure hardship and stress to support his or her child. The artist is compelled to create because of the love of beauty, and the need to communicate. In these is the secure knowledge of a greater good.

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• All securities come down to one thing: survival. In order to survive physically, you will need to maintain the things of the body: health, environment, sustenance.

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• To survive emotionally you will need to nurture and be nurtured. You will also need to forgive and forget allowing yourself to proceed with life without the bonds of hate and revenge. In addition, you will want to be stress hardy to handle or deflect anxiety.

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• The mind requires exercise, creativity, and problem solving. Include in your complex mental matrix the openness to accept and adapt to other points of...

Definitions: (1) made competent by experience; matured; (2) improved quality; fit; (3) accustomed; acclimatized; (4) imparting with relish, zest, or interest; (5) made less harsh or severe; tempered; softened <He seasoned his remarks with discretion.>

Definitions: (1) investigating with thoroughness; exploring or examining with interest; inquiring; seeking; (2) piercing; penetrating

Synonyms: examine, hunt, keen, probe, pursue, sharp

Parental Quality: curiosity

Quote: Searching goes on forever. — Judy Kain (1948 -) American Wise Woman

Symbols: 1) searchlight; 2) a lighthouse

Definitions: (1) acting in strict regard for what is considered right or proper; having moral integrity; conscientiously honest; (2) punctiliously exact; careful with details; precise, accurate, and correct

See also: Upright

Definition: delightful; excellent; first-rate; splendid; extremely pleasing <especially to the taste>; delectable; yummy

Definitions: (1) morally pleasing; respectable; (2) spiritually alluring; agreeable; (3) pleasing to the taste or smell; appetizing

Synonyms: flavorous, palatable, piquant, pungent, rich, spicy, umami

Definitions: (1) displaying knowledge, accuracy, and analytical ability; (2) orderly and thorough in methods of study; reflective; devoted to learning; (3) a well-read person; erudite; academic

Definitions: (1) practical understanding; shrewdness or intelligence; common sense; (2) experienced and well informed

Derivation: Latin, “to be wise”; Spanish, “to know”

Definition: knowledge of or instinct for appropriate action <especially in social situations>; a polished behavioral sureness; tact

Derivation: French, “knowing how to do”

Definitions: (1) rescued from danger or from possible harm or loss; (2) kept safe, intact, or unhurt; safeguarded; secured; (3) kept from being lost; (4) in religion, said of a person whose has seen the way to the truth thus being redeemed from spiritual death

Synonyms: preserved, protected, spared

Symbol: the dolphin {Salvation}

Definitions: (1) fully gratified wants, needs, or desires; satiated; supplied to the full extent with what is wished for; content; (2) free from doubt, suspense, or uncertainty; fully assured; a mind set at ease; convinced; (3) doubts or objections adequately or convincingly answered

Familial Quality: grateful

Too Far: smug

Definitions: (1) distinctively smart and boldly stylish; jaunty; (2) saucy; fresh; (3) vigorous; lively

Definition: possessing a capacity for great wisdom or sound judgment; discerning; knowing; sagacious

Definitions: (1) agreeable to the mind; interesting; engaging; (2) savory; having a pleasing taste

Derivation: Latin: “to know,” “to taste,” “to perceive”

Mythological Place: Cawther, the lake of paradise, has sweet and cool waters (in the Koran). Anyone who drinks from it will never thirst again.

Definition: in healthy condition <especially clean and taking precaution against disease>; free from dirt, bacteria, or pollution

Symbol: soap

Quote: Good hand-washing is the single most effective action against the spread of disease. — Anita Downs Flora (1950 -) American Registered Nurse

Definitions: (1) cheerful; optimistic; hopeful; confident; (2) indicative of sturdiness or health; ruddy; (3) ardent; warm

Derivation: Latin, “blood”

Note: In medieval physiology being sanguine meant having a passionate & positive temperament – one in whom the blood is the predominant “humor.”

Synonyms: animated, lively

Definitions: (1) producing a remedial effect; wholesome; healthful; (2) encouraging or contributing to some beneficial purpose; (3) something corrective or beneficially effective, even though it may in itself be unpleasant

Synonyms: advantageous, profitable, useful

Definitions: (1) mentally clear and sound <especially the ability to anticipate and appraise the effect of one’s own actions>; rational; (2) having or showing good reason or judgment; sensible; (3) free from hurt or disease; healthy

See also: Realistic

Compatible Quality: prepared

Quotes: In order to be sane and adjusted as a human being, an individual must realize that he cannot know all there is to know. It is not enough to understand this limitation intellectually; the understanding must be an orderly and conditioned process, “unconscious” as well as “conscious.” Such a conditioning is essential to the balanced pursuit of knowledge of the nature of matter and life. — A. E. van Vogt (1912-2000) The Players of Null A

In the case of permanent insanity the exits to the theater have been blocked, usually because of the knowledge that the show outside is so much worse. The insane person is running a private unapproved film which he happens to like better than the current cultural one. If you want him to run the film everyone else is seeing, the solution would be to find ways to prove to him that it would be valuable to do so … Otherwise why should he get “better”? He already is better. It’s the patterns that constitute “betterness” that are at issue. From an internal point of view insanity isn’t the problem. Insanity is the solution. — Robert Pirsig (1928-2017) Lila

Reflection: Accepting reality is fine as long as everyone holds the same criteria for “reality.” The problem comes when you are presented with a false impression of reality. Slavery was explained as necessary and accepted as “good” by a certain segment of the population. War is accepted as the only solution by a large enough group of people that it takes place. A person who sees a higher reality is in a difficult position. Truth requires they act on the higher reality, but practicality dictates they live with the facts of the prevailing reality. Embracing both is sanity.

Definition: (1) favorable to the health of mind or body; (2) promoting balance or well-being <especially the effects of climate or nature>

Definition: a person of great virtue, benevolence, piety, charity, patience, or any combination of the best qualities; holy

Quotes: Every saint has a past and every sinner a future. — Oscar Wilde (1854-1900) Irish Poet

Each and every one of us knows that we have only one work to do in this world and that work is to become a saint. And the way to be a saint we know also; it is to know God and love and serve God. — Father Thomas Augustine Judge (1863-1933) Founder of the Missionary Servants of the Most Holy Trinity

Definition: keenly perceptive or discerning; shrewd; farsighted in judgment; wise

Synonyms: acuity, intelligent, judicious

Definitions: (1) free or escaped from damage, danger, or injury; secure; unharmed; (2) giving protection; (3) trustworthy; reliable; sure; (4) taking no risks; prudent; cautious

Balancing Qualities: Adventurous, Courageous, Free, Inventive

Too Far: timid

Saying: Medio tutissimus ibis (Latin): “You will go most safely by the middle course.”

Symbol: a fireplace

Definitions: (1) capable of enduring hardship; robust; (2) having a sturdy constitution; strongly built

Definitions: (1) superior in quality; magnificent; splendid; (2) giving every courtesy; extremely thoughtful; hospitable; (3) suitable for or characteristic of a king or queen; august; stately; noble

Synonyms: imperial, magnanimous, majestic, monarchical, princely, regal, superb

How to Live This Quality Today: Give your guests the royal treatment.

Colors: blue, purple

Symbols: 1) the lily; 2) fleur-de-lis

Definition: very active or vigorous; brisk; lively; exciting; stirring

Derivation: Middle English, “to shake the feathers”

Definitions: (1) cheerful and optimistic; bright and promising; (2) tinged with a rosy color

Symbols: 1) the rose; 2) rose-colored glasses

Definitions: (1) responsive to an imaginative or emotional appeal of what is heroic, adventurous, mysterious, or idealized; (2) loving and affectionate; (3) conducive to or suitable for a loving relationship

Derivation: Originally, a “romance” was a long narrative in verse or prose, written in one of the Romance dialects about the adventures of knights and other chivalric heroes.

Symbol: lilacs

Definition: carefree and frolicsome; boisterous; gay and lively

Definition: having or exhibiting sound health or great strength; vigorous; hearty; solidly built; sturdy; muscular

Derivation: Latin, “oak strength”

Synonyms: hale, lusty

Definitions: (1) one willing to expose themselves to danger, ranging from minor challenge to major peril; (2) venturesome

Observation: The first circle is your comfort zone. Risk taking is lived in the second circle. And it is really risky if you get out to the third. Of course, these ‘circles of risk’ are relative to the individual.

See also: Changeable

Definitions: (1) able or inclined to laugh; (2) causing laughter; sunny; amusing

Saying: Laughter is the music of grace.

Quotes: At the height of laughter, the universe is flung into a kaleidoscope of new possibilities. — Jean Houston (1937 -) American Spiritual Teacher

If you’re going to be able to look back on something and laugh about it, you might as well laugh about it now. — Marie Osmond (1959 -) American Singer

A smile costs nothing but its value is priceless. It enriches the one who gives it, yet does not impoverish them. It happens in a flash but the memories may last for days. No one is so rich that they can get along without it. A smile generates happiness in the home and goodwill in the business. ... If you meet an acquaintance or a friend who is too busy to give you a smile leave one of yours. No one needs a smile so much as the person who has none to give. — Anonymous

Symbol: blue bells

Definitions: (1) The Divine source of the correctness of truth; (2) The appropriate use of power; (3) Establishment and governance of moral principles; ethical rectitude; (4) The wise use of judgment; reasonable and fair; (5) Honorably noble

Comment: A person with a righteous character co-ordinates facts, ideas, and ideals; then decides on what to think and how to act thus creating an ever-expanding soul.

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Definitions: (1) in accordance with justice, law, or morality; upright; virtuous; righteous; (2) in agreement with fact, reason, or a set standard; conforming to truth; (3) correct in thought, statement, or action; (4) fitting or appropriate; suitable; most convenient or favorable; preferable; (5) normal <said of the mind>; sane <said of a person>; (6) having sound health or good spirits; (7) in satisfactory condition; in good order; (8) real; genuine

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Derivation: Sanskrit, “that which is properly joined,” “fixed or settled order”

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Note: In Brahmanism rta is the principle of natural order which regulates and coordinates the operation of the universe and everything within it – the maintenance of cosmic order.

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Quotes: Always do right. This will gratify some people and astonish the rest. — Mark Twain (1835-1910) [born Samuel Langhorne Clemens] Address to the Young People’s Society

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This elaborate cartoon on plate tectonics was assembled, and it was beautiful, except for one detail: the earth was rotating the wrong way. When I pointed that out, nobody ... could really see it being that important. What was the big deal? I came to realize that “right” means something different to an artist than to a physicist. To a physicist a fact is either right or wrong. To an artist “right” is more of an aesthetic question. — Science Advisor to a TV program, 1980

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Principles:

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The Bill of Rights of the United States of America

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I.                Right to establishment, and the free exercise of, religion

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Right to freedom of Speech

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Right to freedom of the press

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Definitions: (1) possessing abundant possessions <as material wealth, mental knowing, and/or spiritual worth>; (2) having high value or quality; (3) plentiful; ample; (4) elaborate; luxurious

See also: Prosperous

Synonyms: affluent, copious, fruitful, luscious, precious, sumptuous

Balancing Quality: Gratitude

Quote: If you are in debt, it is because someone believed in you and had enough faith in you to trust you financially. If others are in debt to you, it is because you extended your trust to them. — Catherine Ponder (1927 -) The Dynamic Laws of Prosperity

Symbol: all forms of treasure [including riches of the mind and of the spirit]

Definitions: (1) the repetition of beat, sound, accent, or motion <usually occurring in a regular or harmonious pattern>; (2) having a sense of the pattern and flow

Comment: We are surrounded by rhythm – the rhythms of our breathing, our heart, the seasons, the tides, the day, the sun, the rain, walking, language, a bird tapping on bark – the rhythms of life.

Symbols: 1) ants; 2) the drum; 3) the centipede

Mythological Figure: Terpsichore, the Greek Muse of dancing and choral song

Definition: feeling profound respect or expressing adoring veneration; worshipful

Definition: regarded with deep respect, love, awe, or affection; to venerate, honor; or hold in esteem; admired

Derivation: Latin, “to fear”

Definitions: (1) having the power to renew strength and vigor; (2) capable of restoring health, consciousness, or life

See also: Resilient

Derivation: Latin, “to renew,” “to rebuild”

How to Live this Quality Today: Meditate. Play. Sleep. Create.

Symbol: the rainbow

Definitions: (1) giving or conducive to relaxation; (2) taking it easy; tranquil; peaceful; quiet

See also: Relaxed

Compatible Quality: worshipful

Symbols: 1) a bed; 2) poppies

Mythological Figures: 1) Hypnos, the Greek god of sleep; 2) Somnus, the Roman god of sleep, the brother of death, and the son of night

Definitions: (1) The Giver of answers; (2) The listener and granter of prayers; (3) The benefactor of insights; (4) The satisfier of curiosity; (5) The fulfiller of all needs; (6) Attentive and open-minded; (7) Sensitive and compassionate; serving with graciousness

Comments:
• Just as all matter is responsive to material gravity, so too are all values subject to the absolute pull of spiritual gravity. Luckily for us, souls are made of values.

• Our ability to accept the infinite loving nature of God is not because He restricts His response to our needs in any way. He is always giving. We are the ones who cannot recognize His gracious gifts. We limit our receiving by our attitude, enlightenment, maturity, negative filters, openness, perspective, and willingness. Nonetheless our responsiveness and openness are keys to a greater facility to receive.

Definitions: (1) able to distinguish between right and wrong and to think and act rationally, and hence liable for one’s behavior; (2) trustworthy; dependable; reliable; (3) expected or obligated to account for something to someone <In the end we will all be responsible for our deeds.>; (4) answerable to the cause, agent, or source of something <I want to thank whoever is responsible for saving my son.>; (5) accountable for actions, obligations, or duties <a responsible position>; (6) able to pay debts and meet business or personal obligations

Balancing Qualities: Humble, Grateful, Sunny

Definitions: (1) showing an appropriate amount of self-esteem; (2) acting in a decent or correct manner; presentable; honest

Comment: In order to be judged by others as being respectable, one must have an appropriate respect for oneself. Respect can be focused either outwardly toward others or inwardly to oneself.

Quote: We can only respect ourselves to the degree we respect other people. — Larry Mullins (1935 -) The MetaValues Breakthrough

Definition: able to deal skillfully and promptly with new situations or old difficulties; clever in finding assets; ingenious at discovering new uses for the materials at hand; inventive

Derivation: Old French, “to rise again”

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Definition: having a fixed, firm purpose; showing tenacity, determined; steady; persevering; steadfast

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Synonyms: bold, constant, decided, unflinching, unshaken, unwavering

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Saying: Ne cede malis (Latin): “Yield not to misfortunes.”

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Quotes: If the going is tough and the pressure is on; if reserves of strength have been drained and the summit is still not in sight; then the quality to seek in a person is neither great strength nor quickness of hand, but rather a resolute mind firmly set on its purpose that refuses to let its body slacken or rest. — Sir Edmund Hillary (1919-2008) New Zealand Mountaineer

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Revolutions begin, not with foreknowledge of victory, but with such deep and powerful desire that the question of success is not a part of the equation. The attempt will be made, no matter the odds, no matter the utter lack of rational hope. — Orson Scott Card (1951 -) Lovelock

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Determined to save succeeding generations from the scourge of war, which twice in our lifetime has brought untold sorrow to mankind, and

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To promote social progress and better standards of life in larger freedom, and for these ends

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Definition: easily recuperating from or adjusting to misfortune or change; quickly recovering strength, spirits, or good humor; buoyant

See also: Recharged

Quote: I love the man that can smile in trouble, that can gather strength from distress, and grow brave by reflection. — Thomas Paine (1737-1809) British-American Journalist

Comment: A technique to recover after a tragedy is to imagine yourself in the future, happy and whole. You must still go through the pain or heartache, but you will emerge on the other side with a new attitude – a new you – able to handle this past difficulty. Bless your previous (and future) selves who have given (will give) you the resilience to carry on.

Definition: being favorably known or spoken of; held in high esteem; well thought of; respectable; honorable; creditable

Color: green

Definition: celebrated for great or heroic achievement(s); famous; revered or admired for distinguished qualities; eminent; remarkable

Definitions: (1) worthy of particular notice; (2) arousing admiration or wonder <often because of an extraordinary or unusual feat>

Synonyms: rare, striking

Definitions: (1) manifesting faithful devotion to an acknowledged ultimate reality or deity <usually within an established organized religion>; pious; devout; godly, moral; (2) the personal experience of God within; (3) scrupulously faithful; careful; conscientiously exact

Quotes: A mature religion has a universal, inclusive point of view. A mature religion encourages individual freedom, creative expression, and stimulates growth. — Meredith J. Sprunger (1915-2012) Spiritual Psychology

Faith in the survival of supreme values is the core of religion; genuine religious experience consists in the union of supreme values and comic meanings as a realization of universal reality — The Urantia Book (111:3.5)

Definition: consistently dependable in character, judgment, performance, or result; worthy of confidence; one who can be counted on

Affirmation: I am reliable

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Definitions: (1) possessing an easy manner; informal; (2) free from or relieved of tension or anxiety

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Too Far: lax, lazy

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Saying: En pantoufles (French): “In slippers” [at ease, informal]

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There are situations in which you find yourself overloaded. You are tense, uncomfortable, and wishing you could just be someplace else, or at least in a more relaxed state, but you can’t. It could be a test at school, an important game, or a business group’s report is due. Neither your fight nor flight mechanisms are appropriate. The only thing left is flow. You don’t have time for your usual, tried and true relaxation method, but you’ve just got to cool out.

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Here’s what you do. First, you don’t get anything for free. There is some preparation necessary. So, you condition yourself to be momentarily, and quickly, transported to a special inner place of peace and strength. While you are there, you trigger an intensely positive, and thus relaxing, experience focused into a few very powerful moments. It is best to use a real historical event in a very exceptional place. When you do have the time, enhance the experience to keep it fresh with regular practice. As you re-experience this wonderfully uplifting place, you are creating an “energy gem” – a feeling you can release with full clarity and force on a designated clue. This gem is packed with sharp, familiar information encompassing all six of senses. The more complete your inner experience, the more intense will be its release.

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Definition: to make young again; to bring back youthful strength, appearance, or vigor

See also: Recuperative

Admonition: Go to the mountains or the ocean or the desert. From there you will bring back some insight, enthusiasm, and inspiration to create something that’s honest for yourself in the world.

Definitions: (1) the act of expressing delight and gladness; (2) the experience of happiness; an occasion for expressing delight

Definitions: (1) having new life; restored; (2) to change radically and for the better; moral reform; (3) to revive or produce anew; bring into existence again

Colors: black, red-orange, violet

Symbols: 1) antlers; 2) sunrise; 3) the East; 4) mistletoe; 5) the Phoenix; 6) sprouted grain; 7) emeralds (Egyptian); 8) the number eight; 9) an eight-petaled rose; 10) a snake [shedding skin]; 11) baptism {Rebirth}

Definitions: (1) exhibiting notable excellence or even magnificence; splendid; (2) relating to or suitable for royalty

Definitions: (1) having the power to restore to an original state; (2) infusing with vitality or energy; (3) pleasingly new or different

Symbol: water {Cool and Clean}

Definitions: (1) having cognizance of the operations of the mind; capable of exercising thought or judgment <reflective reasoning>; (2) an idea, or opinion formed or a remark made as a result of meditative thoughtfulness; deep consideration of some subject matter, idea, or purpose; (3) the ability to appreciate then to project, in a new way, the value being appreciated

Compatible Qualities: generous, interested [in others]

Observation: A motivational speaker, counselor, or other professional helper must be able to present those embryonic qualities the other person wants or needs, so that the quality and the person can face each other and see how to harmoniously merge with each other.

Comments:

• The universe is a personal reflection of Itself. Or, at least, it is becoming so.

• There are two basic types of reflection: self-reflection (taking another look at what was done in the – usually recent – past. Asking “What should I have done?” and “What should I do next time?”) and contemplative reflection capable of revealing deeper aspects of universe reality.

Symbol: the mirror

Mythological Figure: Narcissus, a Greek youth who fell in love with his own reflection

Definitions: (1) having cultivation or elegance; free from vulgarity or coarseness <said of manners, speech, or character>; (2) possessing more than ordinary subtlety, exactness, or precision; (3) often meticulous; (4) approaching perfection

Definition: vigorous; high-spirited; strong-willed

Definitions: (1) rightness of principle or practice; an upright character; conduct according to moral principles; righteousness; (2) correct method or judgment

Derivation: Latin, “straight”

Synonyms: honesty, integrity, justice

Symbol: the lance

Definitions: (1) refreshed or restored; regaining energy or spirit; (2) inspired or invigorated; renewed; revitalized

See also: Restful

Suggestions:

Recharging Options: Sleep, humor, meditation, play, dance, exercise, entertainment, reading, imagination, vacation, communing with nature, communicating with a friend, nourishment, love, productiveness, creativeness, sitting in a rocking chair and watching the sunrise or sunset.

Definition: having the power to regain health or strength; promoting recovery

See also: Restorative

Definitions: (1) able or quick to receive knowledge, ideas, or persons; (2) willing or inclined to receive suggestions or offers; (3) capable of accepting fortune (good or ill) in stride; (4) disposed to accept praise with humility

Symbol: the cauldron

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Definitions: (1) enjoying sound judgment or thought; (2) possessing good common sense; (3) moderate; fair; (4) logical; (5) just; rational

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Quotes: Do not put faith in traditions, even though they have been accepted for long generations and in many countries. Do not believe a thing because many repeat it. Do not accept a thing on the authority of one or another of the Sages of old, nor on the ground that a statement is found in the books. Never believe anything because probability is in its favor. Do not believe in that which you yourselves have imagined, thinking that a god has inspired it. Believe nothing merely on the authority of your teachers or of the priests. After examination, believe that which you have tested for yourselves and found reasonable, which is in conformity with your well-being and that of others. — Siddhartha Gautama [The Buddha] (c. 563-483 bc) Nepali-Indian Spiritual Teacher

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A theory is a model of the universe, or a restricted part of it, and a set of rules that relate quantities in the model to observations that we make.

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A theory is a good theory if it satisfies two requirements: It must accurately describe a large class of observations on the basis of a model that contains only a few arbitrary elements, and it must make definite predictions about the results of future observations.

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Any physical theory is always provisional, in the sense that it is only a hypothesis: you can never prove it. No matter how many times the results of experiments agree with the theory, you can never be sure that the next time the result will not contradict the theory. On the other hand, you can disprove a theory by finding even a single observation that disagrees with the predictions of the theory.

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The ideas about scientific theories...

Definitions: (1) fully awake, enlightened; (2) in a real state of existence; achieved; complete; (3) to understand fully; to apprehend

Comment: Final realization of one’s full personality is a distant potential. All realized souls know they have only reached a relative plateau.

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Definitions: (1) tending to face facts; concerned with or based on what is actual or practical rather than visionary; (2) existential

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Quote: Just because something is a metaphor doesn’t mean it can’t be real. — Terry Pratchett (1948-2015) Reaper Man

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Reflection: There is an objective reality. The more we identify with objective reality, the more real we are. Objective reality is described in terms of positive qualities. If we include all of the positive qualities, then we are describing the current human understanding of objective reality: that which is! The more “is” you are, the more whole you are, and the less concern you need have for your survival.

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Consideration: The theory of relativity says physical things are all moving in relation to each other. If any one thing is to be measured, a fixed point is needed. Once that one point is fixed, all other points can be measured in relation to it.

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This is also true of things mental and spiritual. When someone’s theories can be measured and calculated (and at least temporarily) proven, then that person’s ideas become a relative beacon. The fixed point, then, is the established theory. As other observers study the ideas of this fixed point, its accuracy and objectivity are brought into relative focus. This is done by speculation, experimentation, interpretation, experience, and logical agreement. Or, logical or otherwise, belief.

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We feel a satisfaction in establishing our “fixed” position. There is even greater satisfaction in confirming the accuracy of our position. If our experience verifies our belief, then we stay with the belief, which in turn dictates our experience. If the belief is confirmed by the agreement of our fellows, we again feel confident in staying with it. But sometimes...

Definitions: (1) organized or equipped to act instantaneously; (2) having the right combination of qualities to take on a responsibility without delay; (3) prepared in mind; unhesitant; willing; (4) clever and skillful mentally or physically; dexterous; (5) done or made without delay; prompt; (6) convenient or handy for use; immediately available

Synonyms: apt, expeditious, expert, facile

Definition: extremely beautiful or attractive; enchanting; entrancing; causing great joy; charming; captivating; delightful

Definitions: (1) endowed with understanding or reason; sensible; (2) sane; lucid

Balancing Quality: Heart

Definition: a good-natured mischievous person; a rogue; a scamp <especially as used jokingly and affectionately>

Definition: relation marked by harmony, conformity, accord, or affinity; the ability to get along well with others

Definitions: (1) still; calm; at rest; (2) gentle; mild; placid; smooth; (3) not noisy; hushed; (4) free from disturbance or tumult; tranquil; peaceful; (5) not ostentatious or pretentious; (6) not forward; unobtrusive

Synonyms: contented, meek, pacific, satisfied, unruffled

Compatible Qualities: deep thinking, inner strength

Quote: Learn to be silent. Let your quiet mind listen and absorb. — Pythagoras of Samos (c. 570–495 bc) Greek Mathematician

Advice:
• If something must be said, say it tactfully and kindly.
• Share and solidify your ideas and ideals with trusted friends.
• Control your tongue. Keep negative thoughts to yourself. Better yet, refuse negativity the ground to become rooted.

Definitions: (1) expressing love, confidence, happiness, and joy; (2) beaming <a radiant smile>; (3) feeling vitality and well-being; (4) emitting light; shining brightly

Quote: The truth is inconcussible – forever exempt from all transient vicissitudes, albeit never dead and formal, always vibrant and adaptive – radiantly alive. — The Urantia Book (118:3.3)

Comments:
• Do not forget, radiance has a source. We see and feel a person’s light and call it radiance. But within their soul is the source of the joy which cannot be confined to a small human shape. Love emanates.

• Quantitative matter, no matter a sun or an atom, radiate energy and seek entropy (degradation of energy). Qualitative elements work with an anti-entropic physics. They gain energy; they grow. The more spiritual energy you radiate the more you have to give.

Definitions: (1) having a nimble, alert mind; quick in perception and understanding; keen; clever; sharp-witted; (2) being able to readily access memory and put ideas together in new ways

Quote: Those who have a natural talent for calculation are generally quick-witted at every other kind of knowledge; and even the dull, if they have had an arithmetical training, although they may derive no other advantage from it, always become much quicker than they would have been. — Plato (428-328 bc) Greek philosopher

Definitions: (1) done, proceeding, or occurring with rapidity; brisk; (2) moving or able to move with speed; actively agile; (3) keenly responsive; lively; acute; nimble; (4) prompt or swift in doing or understanding; quick-minded; (5) sensitive and discerning; acutely perceptive; alert

Quote: Strive to attain to the greater virtues, but do not neglect the lesser ones. Do not make light of a fall even if it be the most venial of faults; rather, be quick to repair it by repentance. — Saint Basil (329-379) Bishop of Cappadocia

Definitions: (1) a moral or personality trait, ideal, or value; (2) a feature of excellence rather than quantity; (3) that which makes something such as it is; nature; (4) a single (or set of) distinguishing elements <especially essential characteristics>; (5) an inherent mark or particular attribute; property

Derivation: Latin, “a property, nature, state, or condition;” from qualis; “of a particular kind,” “an inherent attribute,” “a degree of goodness or excellence,” “a distinguished illustration of,” “of characteristic superiority”

Qualityism
1. The theory that people are a combination of positive qualities; that a person’s existence is defined by the possession of positive qualities.
2. The adherence to the principle that by choosing to embody a quality, one can enhance that quality in their being; soul building

Synonyms: caliber, unique, grace, peculiarity, principle, standard, stature

Quote: Quality is never an accident; it is always the result of high intention, sincere effort, intelligent direction, and skillful execution; it represents the wise choice of many alternatives. — John Ruskin (1819-1900) English Poet and Artist

Consideration: All qualities are in harmony within Love. Each person is putting a subset of qualities together to make up their subjective reality. The ideal is to have a healthy grouping of all kinds of values.

Observations:
• All positive qualities are the fruits of the spirit.
• Positive quality is measured and known by the mind, but is felt in the soul.

Definitions: (1) having the qualities, accomplishments, or training making one fit for some function, office, or role; competent; (2) meeting the conditions required by law or custom for exercising a right or holding an office; eligible

Synonym: capable

Quote: Sometimes it is more important to discover what one cannot do, than what one can do. — Lin Yutang (1895-1976) Chinese Writer and Inventor

Definitions: (1) possessing an old-fashioned charm; picturesque; (2) peculiar or unusual in an interesting or amusing way; (3) skillfully or cleverly made

Poetry:
A precious, mouldering pleasure 't is
To meet an antique book,
In just the dress his century wore;
A privilege, I think

His quaint opinions to inspect,
His knowledge to unfold
On what concerns our mutual mind,
The literature of old ...
—  Emily Elizabeth Dickinson (1830–1886) American poet

Definitions: (1) having a meaningful goal or an important aim; (2) determined; resolute

Observation: No matter how good a person’s intentions are, things can go wrong. No matter how bad a person’s intentions are, things can go right. But if your intentions are pure, the outcome will more often than not be better than if your intentions are poor.

Advice:

• Whatever you do, do it on purpose.

• Don’t hurt anybody or anything on purpose.

Definitions: (1) The Perfect Being; (2) The essential spirit; fine; (3) Clean; pristine; (4) Genuine; objectively real; (5) In harmony; one; (6) Self-evident; the initial a priori truth; indispensable; (7) Immaculate; impeccable; unadulterated; (8) Free from defects; faultless; spotless; (9) Indestructible; inviolate; (10) Untainted with evil or guilt; innocent; blameless; irreproachable

Comment: Like substances attract. The pure nature of God purifies the human heart as it moves toward its source.

Definition: carefully observant of the appointed time; prompt; respectful of other’s time

Synonyms: exact, precise, timely

Definitions: (1) careful in the observance of the nicer points of behavior or ceremony; (2) very exact; scrupulous

Definitions: (1) moral beauty; attractive qualities of mind and soul; (2) physical comeliness and appeal; handsomeness; grace; that quality or form pleasing to the eye

Derivation: Latin, “beautiful”

Definition: exercising a disposition to advance the interest of the community; inclined to make private sacrifices for the public good

Suggestion: Give blood. For just the small price of time and a little prick, you can be of service to someone in a whole lot of pain.

Definitions: (1) lying outside the sphere of the physical sciences; moral or spiritual in origin or force; insight; (2) sensitive to nonphysical or supernatural forces and influences; marked by extraordinary perception, understanding, or insight; (3) pertaining to the soul; (4) originating out of the mind

Derivation: Greek, “the soul”

People Who Exemplify This Quality: The aborigines of Australia are said to have psychic powers. They say it is possible only when a person is totally honest.

Comment: There are degrees to everything. You may not have a clear vision of the future, or people and events in other places and times, but you can see trends. You do have hunches. You can trust and develop this intuition. You can look before you leap and learn from both. An animal learns only from their experience or watching others.

Exercise: A practical way to develop your telepathic abilities is by thinking of a situation, person, or condition about which you have some question. Write down the name or question. Sit quietly every day for a while and listen for ideas to come into your mind. — Catherine Ponder (1927 -) The Dynamic Laws of Prosperity (paraphrase)

Definitions: (1) wise or judicious in practical affairs; (2) discreet or circumspect; cautious but sensible; (3) careful in providing for the future; provident

Derivation: Latin, “to separate” or “set apart,” “to distinguish”

Synonyms: considerate, economical, frugal, sagacious, thoughtful

Too Far: Looking into the future with fearful caution may lead to cowardice and failure.

Comment: Prudence has been called the “queen of values.”

Symbols: 1) a dolphin entwined around an anchor [arrested speed]; 2) jade: When asked, “Why was jade valued by the sages?” Confucius replied, “It is because the ancient sages were comparing Jade with the virtues. Jade represents kindness because it is soft and smooth to the touch. It represents prudence because its structure is fine and compact and thus solid. It represents justice because it has edges but does not injure. It represents good faith because its beautiful interior qualities can be seen from the outside. It is the image of sincerity as its luster is not veiled by its defects nor its defects by its luster.”

Definition: tending to awaken or incite appetite or passion <his speech provoked my curiosity>; stimulating a specific response <her stories provoke laughter>

Synonyms: arouse, induce, move, stir up, thought-provoking

Balancing Qualities: Appropriate, Discretion

Note: This is a quality with some negative connotations, but we are using it here in its best possible sense. Watch for the sensitivities of others when provoking interest. Keep your motives pure, your intent honorable, and your words tactful.

Definitions: (1) foreseeing wants or needs and making provision to supply them; having and showing foresight; understanding; (2) economical; frugal; thrifty; prudent; (3) conscientious management; nurturing; participative; (4) protector, preserver, and promoter of value; (5) a manifestation of divine care and direction

Derivation: Latin, “to provide”

Synonyms: expediting, fostering, guiding

Symbol: Jupiter’s three thunderbolts {Chance, Destiny, and Providence}

Definitions: (1) feeling pleasure or satisfaction over an honorable or creditable accomplishment of another; exultant; (2) having or showing self-respect or self-esteem for a personal success; (3) stately, majestic, or magnificent; (4) full of vigor and spirit; elated

Too Far: pride, the sin of

Color: green

Definition: shielding or sheltering from danger or injury <especially a loved one>; defending or guarding; preserving in safety

Symbols: 1) the wolf; 2) the shield; 3) Queen Anne’s lace; 4) the buckle {Self-defense}; 5) an arrow (American Indian)

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Definitions: (1) success in an enterprise or activity; achievement <usually with economic well-being>; (2) strong and flourishing; thriving; (3) enjoying vigorous and healthy physical, monetary, mental, and/or spiritual growth

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See also: Successful

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Synonyms: auspicious, favorable

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Balancing Qualities: Giving, Humble, Sincere

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Compatible Qualities: determination, faith, focus, persistence

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Familial Qualities: fertile, productive, profitable, rich

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Parental Qualities: creative, talented

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Consequential Qualities: courageous, free, relaxed

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Quotes: The God of heaven, He will prosper us. — The Bible, Nehemiah 2:20

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Turn the great energy of your thinking upon “plenty” ideas and you will have plenty regardless of what men about you are saying or doing. — Charles Fillmore (1854-1948) American Mystic

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You do not have to force success and prosperity. Instead, you can develop that exalted, expectant, prosperous state of mind that is a magnet for all good things.

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Train your mind never to be disappointed. If certain things do not come at certain expected times in the way you wished, do not consider it a failure. Since you have not received that thing, you can instead stand firm in the faith that something much better is on the way and will appear at the right time. — Catherine Ponder (1927 -) The Dynamic Laws of Prosperity

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Affirmations:

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Definitions: (1) favorably disposed; benevolent; (2) a good omen; auspicious; (3) having been blessed; advantageous; (4) often implies a continuing favorable condition

Synonyms: benign, gracious, helpful

Definitions: (1) appropriate to the purpose or circumstance; suitable; (2) conforming to established standards of behavior or manners; correct or decorous; chaste; modest; (3) fitting; right; seemly; just; fair; (4) normal or regular; (5) fine; good; excellent; (6) becoming in appearance; handsome or comely

Definitions: (1) ready and quick to act as occasion demands; alert; immediately or instantly at hand; expeditious; (2) done at the appointed moment; timely; (3) moving, exciting, or inciting to action; (4) to arouse or inspire by suggestion

Saying: Bis dat qui cito dat (Latin): “He gives twice who gives promptly.”

Definition: having reasonable grounds for hope; likely to succeed or yield favorable results; just expectations of a good outcome

Synonyms: assuring, auspicious, engaging

Definition: distinguished above others; eminent; widely and favorably known; important

Definitions: (1) abundant inventiveness or productivity; (2) fruitful; abounding

Synonym: fertile

Consideration: Consider the trillions of seeds produced by just one tree. The oldest living tree, Methuselah, a bristle cone pine in California, is approximately 4,600 years old. In 1974, she produced 48 live seedlings. 48 X 4,600 = 220,800 offspring!

Definitions: (1) advancing or moving onward; (2) making use of or interested in new ideas, findings, or opportunities; forward-looking; (3) marked by growth, reform, or continuing improvement

Quote: I’ve seen this problem before; does that mean I am making progress or going in circles? — Michael Hanna, 100 Thought Adjusters

Observation: To live in a complex society, progress is necessary.

Tip: If you concentrate on the openings instead of the obstacles, you will make progress.

Comment: The smallest of positive decisions, multiplied by a sincere intention to make it real, plus your other active positive qualities creates a proliferation of positive action. This leads to a more accurate assessment of what is the best action to take under any new circumstance.

Symbol: wings {Spiritual Evolution}

Definitions: (1) marked by intellectual depth; (2) seriously or intensely felt; (3) thoroughgoing <profound judgments>

Synonyms: humble, mysterious, penetrating

Quote: The first function, one might say, of every mythology has always been a mystical, metaphysical function: that of awaking in the mind and spirit of the individual a sense of awe before the mystery of “being” itself. This is the mystery dimension and the first function of mythology is to communicate that [mystery], so that in the field of mythological forms and of the rites by which you participate in those forms you are made aware, experientially, of the ultimate, absolute mystery of the universe which cannot be caught in words. It is antecedent to meaning. Meanings are the mental interpretations, and these vary.

Now, not only the universe itself, but also the imagery of myth is intrinsically without meaning. It is a “being” statement. And the experience of the “getting turned on” or the “ripple or buzz” comes when all of your meaning interpretations smash, break up; and what has been called the… fascinating, tremendous mystery of this whole thing comes zooming through.

Now, it is a tremendous mystery and it is an appalling, monstrous mystery; to think of the nature of life itself: it lives on life. — Joseph Campbell (1904-1987) The Hero with a Thousand Faces, Volume II: The Cosmogonic Cycle

Definition: yielding or bringing returns; gainful; lucrative; useful; advantageous; beneficial

Quote: I’ve never been poor, only broke. Being poor is a frame of mind. Being broke is a temporary situation. — Mike Todd (1907-1958) American Producer

Definition: (1) fully accomplished in an art, science, or career; (2) having great knowledge and experience in a trade or profession

Derivation: Latin, “to go forward”

Synonyms: Proficient implies a thorough competence derived from training and practice; adept implies special aptitude as well as proficiency; expert implies extraordinary proficiency and often connotes knowledge as well as technical skill; skilled stresses mastery of technique; skillful implies individual dexterity in execution or performance.

Definitions: (1) having the character, spirit, or methods found in those who have had advanced training; proficient; (2) competent and courteous in service

Balancing Quality: Personal

Note: Professional often means efficient, and efficient can be moved to the point of the impersonal. To enhance the quality of professional, add the qualities of personal and practical.

Definitions: (1) manifesting something; generative; creative <a productive mind>; (2) abundant; fertile; fruitful; (3) bringing into being; causing to exist <especially that which has not exited before> <Picasso was a productive genius.>

Definition: adherence to the highest principles and ideals; tried and proven virtue and integrity; upright; sincere; veracious; honest

Synonym: trustiness

Definitions: (1) having advantage, favor, or benefit of one over another; (2) Recognition of relative value

Quote: Few mortals ever dare to draw anything like the sum of personality credits established by the combined ministries of nature and grace. The majority of impoverished souls are truly rich, but they refuse to believe it. — The Urantia Book (48:7.6)

Definitions: (1) a pure and natural state; original <often considered superior>; (2) unblemished or untouched; uncorrupted; unspoiled

Definition: an accepted or professed rule of action or conduct; a guiding sense of the requirements and obligations of right behavior

Quote: There are three principles in a man's being and life, the principle of thought, the principle of speech, and the principle of action. The origin of all conflict between me and my fellow-men is that I do not say what I mean and I don't do what I say. — Martin Buber (1878-1965) Austrian Philosopher

Definitions: (1) liberal; generous; loyal; (2) befitting a noble prince; rich; imperial; regal

Synonyms: grand, lavish, magnificent, munificent, superb

People Who Exemplify This Quality: Jesus of Nazareth (7 bc-30 ad) The Prince of Peace

Definitions: (1) pleasingly attractive; (2) implied daintiness, delicacy, or gracefulness; (3) any good characteristic considered fine, nice, or agreeable

Definition: having a fine reputation based on brilliance of achievement; respected; esteemed; honored

Definitions: (1) to keep alive or in existence; saving; (2) make lasting <preserving the liberties of free citizens>; (3) keeps from harm, damage, danger, or evil; protective

Synonyms: defend, guard, maintain, secure

Theological Figure: Vishnu, the Preserver, second deity of the Hindu Trimurti

Definitions: (1) attractively attired; neat; clean; (2) suitable to be exhibited, offered, or displayed; fit to be introduced into society; appropriate to be shown or seen

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Definition: being, existing, or occurring at this time; now; current

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Proverb: Look to this day for tomorrow is but a vision and yesterday a dream. — Sanskrit

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Quotes: Remember, be here now. — Baba Ram Das [born Richard Alpert] (1931 -) American Spiritual Teacher

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Consider that this day will never dawn again. — Dante [born Durante degli Alighieri] (c. 1265-1321) Italian Poet

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The past and the future are the gift wrapping for the present. — Jerry Downs (1949 -) American Truth-seeker

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I shall tell you a great secret, my friend. Do not wait for the last judgment, it takes place every day. — Albert Camus (1913-1960) French Algerian Philosopher

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[Dorothy:] If you can’t find what you are looking for right where you are then you can’t find it anywhere. — L. Frank Baum (1856-1919) The Wonderful Wizard of Oz

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When you bless it, you can own it. Our eye is how God sees the world. Our hand is how God holds the world. Our job is simply to be. — Jerry Downs (1949 -) and Joe Burull (1947 -) American Photographers

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What you do in the present creates the future. So, keep your thoughts on the positive side, think about the best that could happen, think about the good things you want to happen. — Peace Pilgrim [born Mildred Lisette Norman] (1908-1981) Steps Toward Inner Peace

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Comment: Life is a series of minute, connected, and correcting steps. This moment’s actions are connected to the previous, and the next with the quantity and the quality of consciousness. One’s conscious actions, intentions, and experiences have an effect on both your future and the larger pool of consciousness.

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Definition: able to think clearly and act quickly and intelligently <especially in an emergency>; cool, alert, and ready under pressure; quick-witted

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Compatible Qualities: creative, risible

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Comment: Presence of mind is a quality of “practical smarts.” It includes flexibility and ready retrieval of information. But it is also the ability to put things together in new ways. In addition, it implies a sense of timing, with an appreciation of the subtlety of what others perceive.

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Suggestion: Recognize, in the present, what effect your actions are having upon the situation, and then act accordingly.

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Definition: being, existing, or occurring at this time; now; current

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Proverb: Look to this day for tomorrow is but a vision and yesterday a dream. — Sanskrit

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Quotes: Remember, be here now. — Baba Ram Das [born Richard Alpert] (1931 -) American Spiritual Teacher

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Consider that this day will never dawn again. — Dante [born Durante degli Alighieri] (c. 1265-1321) Italian Poet

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The past and the future are the gift wrapping for the present. — Jerry Downs (1949 -) American Truth-seeker

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I shall tell you a great secret, my friend. Do not wait for the last judgment, it takes place every day. — Albert Camus (1913-1960) French Algerian Philosopher

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[Dorothy:] If you can’t find what you are looking for right where you are then you can’t find it anywhere. — L. Frank Baum (1856-1919) The Wonderful Wizard of Oz

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When you bless it, you can own it. Our eye is how God...

Definitions: (1) having knowledge of events before they take place; (2) able to read the signs of things to come; (3) being a very good guesser

Legendary Power: Sibyl, the intuiting power of higher truths and prophesy

Definitions: (1) ready, fit, or qualified for duty; (2) in proper condition or order; (3) in possession of what is needed because of forethought or foresight

Compatible Quality: realistic [accepting fact as fact]

Motto: Semper Paratus (Latin): “Always prepared” — U.S. Coast Guard

Quote: Did you ever observe to whom the accidents happen? Chance favors the prepared mind. — Louis Pasteur (1822-1895) French Chemist and Microbiologist

Reflection: If you permeate your consciousness with positive projections, positive thoughts, positive ideas about yourself and your future situation, then you have a better chance of manifesting those happy times and the qualities that go with them.

Tip: It pays to have both a plan A and a plan B.

Comments:

• With a positive attitude and an example of positive living, you encourage others to emulate your behavior.

• One has to look at the future and imagine different options, needs, and responsibilities. Some of those possibilities are frightening. Still, allow yourself to view them objectively. You need to see them in order to steer clear of them. But since you are not actually experiencing them, you need not fear them.

Symbol: Venus fly trap

Definition: exhibiting mature qualities at an unusually early age

Comment: This quality usually refers to a person with unusual intelligence. But it also applies to any other quality. Although it is attributed to a young person, if you demonstrate a quality now that is not ordinarily acquired until later (like wisdom), you may be considered precocious.

Definitions: (1) strictly defined; accurately stated; definite; (2) speaking or acting explicitly or distinctly; punctilious; (3) with no variation; minutely exact; scrupulous

Observation: One meter is 39.37 U.S. inches or 1/299,792,458 (.0000000033) of the distance light travels in a vacuum in one second, thus 299,792,458 meters per second. Since light travels at 186,282.397 miles per second, it travels 5,878,139,427,505.244 miles in one year. Our nearest star neighbor is 4.2251 light years (17.85 trillion miles) away.

Symbols: 1) the hummingbird; 2) a needle; 3) any fine needlework

Definitions: (1) great in significance or worth; very valuable; (2) much esteemed; held close and considered dear; beloved; (3) great in price; costly

Quote: So precious is a person’s faith in God, so precious; never should we harm that. Because He gave birth to all religions. — Saint Francis of Assisi [(born Giovanni Francesco di Bernardone] (1181-1226) Founder of the Franciscan Order

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Definitions: (1) worshipful communion to or with God; (2) spiritual or meditative contemplation; (3) devout; (4) earnest and sincere

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Compatible Quality: intuition

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Parental Quality: faith

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Consequential Quality: insight

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Saying: Laborare est orare (Latin): “To work is to pray.”

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Quotes: You can’t pray a lie. — Mark Twain [Samuel Langhorne Clemens] (1835-1910) The Adventures of Huckleberry Finn

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God answers man’s prayer by giving him an increased revelation of truth, an enhanced appreciation of beauty, and an augmented concept of goodness. Prayer is a subjective gesture, but it contacts with mighty objective realities on the spiritual levels of human experience; it is a meaningful reach by the human for superhuman values. It is the most potent spiritual-growth stimulus.

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Words are irrelevant to prayer; they are merely the intellectual channel in which the river of spiritual supplication may chance to flow. The word value of a prayer is purely autosuggestive in private devotions and sociosuggestive in group devotions. God answers the soul’s attitude, not the words. — The Urantia Book (91:8.11-12)

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Prayers:

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Make up your own prayers or modify the following. Remember prayers are not the words. Your sincere heart is doing the praying. Your open mind is receiving the light. Your prayer is personal.

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Dear God, you are The Upholder. Thank you for the gift of life. Just as the bird sits on her nest, so do you patiently and knowingly nurture our growth.

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Good morning One! Thank you for this day! Thank you for...

Definition: admiration because of good ideas, good qualities, or good deeds; commendable; worthy of approval; laudable

Saying: Give someone a pat on the back

Symbol: violet flowers

Definition: concerned with practical considerations and consequences; related to matters of fact

Balancing Quality: Idealistic

Comment: Some pragmatists would say anything beyond the material or economic facts of life are not worth concerning oneself with. We all show our range of reality. You cannot expect anyone to value qualities not applicable to their view.

Definitions: (1) expertise obtained through continuous active use; (2) that which can be applied to utilitarian ends <practical knowledge>; designed for sensible functions; (3) concerned with the application of information for ethical purposes; (4) dealing efficiently with everyday activities; (5) matter-of-fact

Too Far: mediocre, mundane

Saying: Function follows form.

Quotes: The kingdom of heaven runs on righteousness; but the kingdom of earth runs on oil. — William Maxwell Aiken (1879-1964) Lord Beaverbrook, Canadian Minister of British Aircraft Production WWII

If you are motivated to do or say a mean thing, you can always think of a good thing. You deliberately turn around and use the same energy to do or say a good thing instead. It works! — Peace Pilgrim [born Mildred Lisette Norman] (1908-1981) Steps Toward Inner Peace

Tip: Reassess your situation and yourself periodically, things (and you) do change.

Definitions: (1) having great physical prowess; strong; able to exert intense force; mighty; (2) being a brilliant moral influence; (3) able to persuade or convince the minds of others; (4) possessing great energy; producing enormous effects

Balancing Qualities: An overabundance of the desire for safety and security leads people to focus on the qualities of power and strength. These, if not balanced with the qualities of compassion, kindness, thoughtfulness, generosity, and gentleness, lead to violence.

Too Far: The positive qualities of desire and power taken too far end in greed.

Motto: Cedant arma togae (Latin): “Let arms yield to the toga” [Let military power give way to civil power]. — Wyoming state motto

Quotes: It is not life and wealth and power that enslave men, it is the cleaving to life and wealth and power. — Siddhartha Gautama [The Buddha] (c. 563-483 bc) Nepali-Indian Guru

Non-violence is more powerful than all the armaments in the world. It is mightier than the mightiest weapon of destruction devised by the ingenuity of man. — Mohandas Gandhi (1869-1948) Indian Leader

Consideration: If a person who is immature, insecure, and fear-ridden is given power, the power will have to live within that person’s emotional limits, and will be subject to the constraints of their developing personality. Decisions made reflect the character of the decision maker.

Observations:

• Every action can be and is justified by pointing to positive qualities.

• Power can be impersonal – like the power of the ocean – or it can be personal. If personal, it can be negative or positive.

Comments:

• The powerful are often intent on retaining their own power. And to that end, all else becomes subordinate.

• We are still in the age of “might is right,” and will be for hundreds of years. The question is how, in the face of power, to do what you know is right. Sometimes it takes great courage.

• The temptation to enhance those qualities serving only our personal needs is great, and...

Definitions: (1) something that can, but has not yet, come into being; expectant possibilities; unrealized inevitabilities; (2) a latent yet undeveloped excellence or ability

Derivation: Latin, “powerful”

Saying: Whatever there is that ought to be, can be.

Quote: What lies behind us and what lies before of us are small matters compared to what lies within us. And when we bring what lies within us out into the world, miracles happen. — Henry Stanley Haskins (1875-1957) Stockbroker

Reflection: Potentials are actuals waiting to be made real; and every actuality opens up new options of unforeseen potentials.

Observations:

• One’s greatest limitations are those imposed upon oneself.

• Blame is often, yet only sometimes correctly, placed on someone else for a failure to realize a potential.

Symbols: 1) the egg; 2) the night; 3) delphinium flowers [possibilities]

Definitions: (1) God is the best there is; the highest ideals; (2) Independent of changes; absolutely objective; (3) Beyond all doubt or qualification; undeniable; sure; (4) Full of conviction; certain; confident; resolute; (5) Affirming of practical reality; (6) Directing everything with constructive momentum toward progress; (7) Contributing to everyone’s growth; constructive

Comment: Most institutional religions look to move away from the negative, preventing sin, and avoiding evil. The positive attitude is to turn your sight to the light, embracing goodness, seeking truth, and appreciating beauty. Foresight works better than hindsight.

Definitions: (1) commonly liked, approved of, or admired; (2) having many friends; well-known; (3) suited to or pleasing to the intelligence or taste of the target audience

Synonyms: beloved, fashionable, favorite, savoir-faire

Balancing Qualities: Decent, Discreet, Gentle, Gracious, Modest, Self-esteem

Compatible Qualities: humorous, mannerly, quick-witted, tactful

Parental Qualities: confident, friendly, personable

Familial Qualities: agreeable, charming, cool, interesting, kind

Consequential Qualities: charisma, communicative, confident, leadership

Comments:

• You know what you are attracted to. Let those aspects of yourself shine through as you live your life. Focus first on the qualities you have naturally, then expand your repertoire of qualities.

• Decide who it is important to be popular with. Associate with people with whom you can feel comfortable. To be accepted by some people is not worth your effort. If they will accept you only if you take negative actions, don’t bother with them. Don’t forget common sense. Get yourself out of a bad situation before you get into it. You decide what and who you should be, not what they want you to be.

• Popularity is often being able to fit in with the structure, rules, and circumstances of the group. Therefore, be astute in measuring what is required – or ask.

Questions:

• Am I nice to be around?

• Do I have the tendency to hide or shade my best qualities because I believe it would not be popular to show them?

Note: Go ahead and exhibit yourself. As you do, you will acquire the finesse to be yourself with an acceptable attitude.

Definitions: (1) having the characteristics of advanced culture; refined in behavior or cultural interests <especially in arts and literature>; (2) exhibiting warm cordiality; genteel; (3) courteously considerate; tactful; civil

Compatible Quality: friendly

Quotes:
• Politeness is to human nature as warmth is to wax. — Arthur Schopenhauer (1788-1860) German Philosopher

• I want maximum information given with maximum politeness. — Jacqueline Lee Kennedy Onassis (1929–1994) American First Lady

Definitions: (1) smooth, soft, or refined manners; elegantly polite; (2) expert; flawless; (3) bringing to a highly developed, finished, or refined state <he was polishing his technique on the clarinet>

Definitions: (1) composed, dignified, and self-assured; (2) being in balance or equilibrium

Quote: It is to the mind of perfect poise, housed in a body of clean habits, stabilized neural energies, and balanced chemical function – when the physical, mental, and spiritual powers are in triune harmony of development – that a maximum of light and truth can be imparted with a minimum of temporal danger or risk to the real welfare of such a being. By such a balanced growth does man ascend… — The Urantia Book (110:6.4)

Definitions: (1) possessing the peculiar beauties of harmony; sublime rhythm; (2) imaginative; (3) language chosen and arranged to create a specific emotional response through meaning, sound, and rhythm; written or spoken word formulating a concentrated imaginative awareness of experience

Comment: All poetry is communicative; some is popular and some is evocative. Whatever is wonderful and good can be fused with culture. Words are a way to touch many people at once.

Quote: Diotima now describes how mortals strive for immortality. In all begetting and bringing forth upon the beautiful, there is a kind of making or poiesis ("poetry" in the wide sense of "creating"). In this genesis there is a movement beyond the temporal cycle of birth and decay. “Such a movement can occur in three kinds of poiesis: 1) Natural poiesis through sexual procreation, 2) poiesis in the city through the attainment of heroic fame, and finally 3) poiesis in the soul through the cultivation of virtue and knowledge.” — Plato (428-328 bc) Symposium

Symbol: words

Historic Figures: 1) Homer (c. 8th Century BC) The Father of Epic Poetry; 2) Geoffrey Chaucer (c. 1343–1400) The Father of English Poetry

Mythological Figures: 1) Erato, the Muse who presided over lyric poetry; 2) Bragi, the Scandinavian god of eloquence and poetry; 3) Calliope, Greek and Roman Muse of eloquence and heroic poetry

Definition: marked by courage; spirited; brave; resolute

Quote: A pound of pluck is worth a ton of luck. — James A. Garfield (1831-1881) The 20th President of the United States

Definitions: (1) yielding to pressure without breaking; supple; lithe; (2) possessing a flexible disposition; docile; (3) readily amenable to moral influence, persuasion, or discipline; tractable; (4) adjusting willingly or easily to varying conditions; adaptable

Definitions: (1) agreeable to the mind or the senses, beautiful; pleasurable; (2) having an agreeable manner; amiably cheerful; (3) presenting an attractive appearance; elegant; (4) merry; jesting; jocular; (5) lively playfulness; sportive

Synonyms: amusing, good-humored, gratifying, humorous, jocose, witty

Too Far: hedonistic

Comment: If your goal is strictly pleasure, comfort, and the accouterments of an easy life, then you will work to acquire those things. But admit what you are passing up to satisfy the pleasure goal. Pleasure has its value, but so do any and all of the other individual qualities. Life is sweetest when you are in the process of acquiring a wide range of qualities. Pleasure for oneself without care for others will only lead to selfishness.

Admonitions:

• Beware the enslaving power of pleasure.

• Take heed of the tyranny of the distraction.

• It takes courage and insight to choose a life that includes, but also transcends, pleasure.

Definitions: (1) fond of fun; frisky; indulging in sportive fancy; frolicsome; (2) humorous; joking; (3) possessing a positive attitude which spills over into active cheerfulness; merry

Synonyms: gay, jocund, lively, sprightly, vivacious

Balancing Quality: Fair

Consequential Qualities: order, sharing

Note: When a child, or anyone, plays they learn it is fun to be associated with other individuals.

Saying: All work and no play makes Jack a dull boy.

Quotes: If all the year were playing holidays, to sport would be as tedious as work. — William Shakespeare (1564-1616) Hamlet

The creation of something new is not accomplished by the intellect but by the play instinct acting from inner necessity. The creative mind plays with the objects it loves. — Carl G. Jung (1875-1961) Swiss Psychiatrist

In a sense, all science, all human thought, is a form of play. Abstract thought [is the way we are able] to continue to carry out activities which have no immediate goal (just as other animals play while young) in order to prepare... for long-term strategies and plans. — Jacob Bronowski (1908-1974) Polish-Jewish British Mathematician

Symbols: 1) swings; 2) the seal; 3) viola flowers

Definitions: (1) talking with clear, frank openness; candid; (2) communicating with simple, unreserved sincerity

Definitions: (1) possessing a gentle, quiet spirit; showing an undisturbed or equable demeanor; mild mannered; (2) peace of mind; serene; unruffled; calm; tranquil

Derivation: Latin, “to please”

Definitions: (1) attractive style; dash; showing flair or sparkle; (2) energetic with vitality; vigorous; spirited

Compatible Quality: entertaining

Definition: compassion for fellow-suffering; having sympathy or empathy for the grief or misery of another

Quote: [Pity] leaps quicker than light from the highest place to the lowest to bring healing and joy, whatever the cost to itself. It changes darkness into light and evil into good. Every disease that submits to a cure shall be cured. — C. S. Lewis (1898-1963) The Great Divorce

Definitions: (1) exciting curiosity; mentally stimulating; provoking interest; (2) agreeably stimulating to the taste; pleasantly sharp or biting

Synonyms: charming, clever, lively, smart, spirited

Comment: This quality most often references spicy food, but it is used here as a way of thinking about human traits. We can imagine a person who can spice up a conversation, has a sharp (but not acerbic) wit, or encourages interest in exciting topics.

Definitions: (1) fidelity to obligations regarded as natural and fundamental; (2) having or showing religious devotion; godly; (3) sacred <distinguished from secular> reverence; righteous

Too Far: Sanctimonious

Color: blue

Symbol: the stork {Filial Piety}

Definition: venturing into that which is unknown or untried <sometimes to prepare the way for others>

Compatible Quality: courageous

Parental Qualities: faith, freedom

Familial Quality: adventurous

Symbols: 1) the covered wagon; 2) a space capsule

Definitions: (1) perceptible through the corporeal senses; subject to the laws of nature; (2) having material existence; of or relating to the body

Quote: Merely by existing any physical system registers information, and by evolving in time it transforms or processes that information. — Seth Lloyd (1960 -) American Quantum Mechanic

Affirmations:

• My body is a temple.

• My body is a safe and pleasurable place for me to be.

Definitions: (1) possessing the ability to project one’s inner beauty; (2) suitable for being seen; especially artistically

People Who Exemplify This Quality: Eleanor Roosevelt (1884-1962) American Political Activist and Speaker

Definitions: (1) devoted to a study of the processes governing thought and conduct; (2) theoretical contemplation; (3) investigation of the principles and laws regulating the universe that underlie all knowledge and reality; (4) calm in a difficult situation; rational in the face of conflict; sensibly composed; (5) able to add meaning to confusion, put pain into context, or downplay damage which have or will occur in a lifetime

Derivation: Greek, “love of wisdom”

Symbol: The Archpriest (tarot)

Definition: possessing benevolence toward the whole human family; demonstrating universal good will <especially as manifested by donations of money, property, or work to needy persons or to institutions advancing human welfare>

Derivation: Greek, “love of humanity”

Definitions: (1) in good spirits; lively; brisk; sprightly; (2) forward; saucy; bold; (3) jaunty and stylish; chic

Definitions: (1) causing someone to do something <especially by urging or influencing>; to prevail upon; (2) inducing someone to believe something <especially through proof or logic>; convincing

Synonyms: entice, exhort, win over

Symbol: The Empress (tarot)

Definitions: (1) clear and explicit in statement or expression <speech or writing>; easily understood; lucid; not obscure or ambiguous; plain; distinct; (2) aware of the mind and needs of the other.

Familial Qualities: a good listening ability, kindness, sincerity, unselfishness

Comments:

• Brain scans have revealed a region associated with understanding the thoughts and intentions of other people. This muscle, like all others, can be strengthened with exercise.

• Perspicuity is the mirror image of self-perceptive. It is the ability to perceive the world from another person’s point of view. Communication is presented using the language the other is familiar with. Perspicuous people help others assimilate softly, recognizing what the other can digest. Maybe what is needed is mother’s milk, or maybe some roughage is okay.

Definition: having keen mental or emotional perception and understanding; discerning

Quote: If we can learn to change our perspective and see negative things in a different ‘octave,’ we may be able to see beauty in all things and in all situations. — Victor L. Wooten (1964 -) American Bassist & Author

Derivation: Latin, “transparent,” “to look through”

Definitions: (1) having an agreeable or pleasing personality; good-natured; (2) having a well-formed body; graceful; attractive

Familial Qualities: friendly, well-groomed

Quote: To say that a being is personal is to recognize the relative individuation of such a being within the cosmic organism. … [T]hose who are personal have been endowed with the actual choice of destiny acceptance or destiny rejection. — The Urantia Book (112:5.1)

Definitions: (1) resolute endurance <especially with what is known to be correct>; (2) abiding; persevering; (3) continuing to exist; lasting

Balancing Qualities: Daring, Diversity, Fearless

Quotes:
• Keep on plugging. — John Preston Downs (1913-2005) American Business man and Father

• It just goes to show, if you are persistent, something gets done. — Any parent to a child who has just accomplished a project

• There is only one reason that you ever fail at anything, and that is because you eventually change your mind. — Victor L. Wooten (1964 -) American Bassist & Author

• Nothing in the world can take the place of persistence. Talent will not; nothing is more common than unsuccessful men with great talent. Genius will not; unrewarded genius is almost a proverb. Education will not; the world is full of educated derelicts. Persistence and determination alone are omnipotent. — Calvin Coolidge (1872-1933) The 30th President of the United States

Affirmation: I refuse to give up. I shall continue, firmly, steadily and insistently until the good appears. — Catherine Ponder (1927 –) The Dynamic Laws of Prosperity

Comment: The person who asks for something 30 or 40 or even 150 times, and finally gets it, has figured out how to ask for something.

Definition: persisting in pursuing something in spite of obstacles, opposition, or discouragement; steadfast in purpose

Synonyms: constant, indefatigable, resolute, tenacious

Quote: Great works are performed not by strength, but by perseverance. — Samuel Johnson (1709-1784) English Author

Definitions: (1) allowing freedom; tolerant of behavior or practices disapproved of by others; indulgent; lenient; (2) granting or expressing consent; in agreement

Definitions: (1) briskly self-assured; spirited; jaunty; (2) cheerful; pert; saucy

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Definitions: (1) complete in all respects; without defect or omission; faultless; (2) thorough excellence in skill or quality; expert; proficient; (3) completely correct or accurate; exact; precise; (4) without reserve or qualification; pure; impeccable; (5) totally effective; meticulous; (6) a fine physical specimen; sound; flawless; (7) appreciative of the character or nature of someone or some ‘thing’; the most admirable quality

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Derivation: The word “perfect” as the Bible uses it of men, does not refer to sinless perfection. Old Testament characters described as “blameless” or “wholly devoted” were obviously not sinless. Although a number of Hebrew and Greek words are translated as “perfect,” the thought is usually either “completeness in all details” (Hebrew: tamam; and Greek: katartizo) or “to reach a goal or achieve a purpose” (Greek: teleioo). Scripture recognizes that Christians do not attain sinless perfection in this life.

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Balancing Qualities: Common sense, Down-to-earth

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Compatible Qualities: compromising, realistic

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Quotes: Be perfect, therefore, as your heavenly Father is perfect. — The Bible, Matthew 5:48

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From the Universal Father who inhabits eternity there has gone forth the supreme mandate, “Be you perfect, even as I am perfect.” — The Urantia Book (1:0.3)

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The most important question to ask at any one moment is, “How is this perfect?” — Joe Burull (1947-2021) American Photographer

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When we realize a total of something as we are experiencing it, we are for that moment, perfect. — Jacquelyn Small, Transformers, the Therapists of the Future

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Three Stages of Perfection

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Definitions: (1) progressive refinement; (2) capable of improvement

Quote: Possibilities … — Carl G. Jung (1875-1961) Last word in The Red Book

Proverb: The gem cannot be polished without friction; nor the man perfected without trials. — Korean

Comments:

• It is possible to get locked into a small idea of what perfect is. We need to be willing to leap beyond our known understanding into the greater realm beyond – where chance, possibilities, mistakes, growth, and greater freedom abound.

• We can damn our failures, but know that damning them does not really do any good. As a matter of fact, it does more harm. The incident has passed. The best thing to do, as quickly as possible, is to focus on improvement; learn the lesson. Since we are living inside time, there is the possibility of repeating or not repeating the past.

• Take into consideration your ability, the social situation, and the circumstance to determine how “perfect” you can be. The perfect act takes all variables into account, and melds them together with mindful wisdom. Keep your eye on the ideal. Maintain your honorable intention. Relative perfection is subjective. As you learn and grow, you refine the subjectivity and it gets better.

Divine Definitions: (1) Complete in all respects; without defect or omission; flawless; (2) Thoroughly excellent; faultless; (3) Completely correct and accurate; exact; precise; (4) Without reserve or qualification; pure; impeccable; (5) Totally effective; expertly proficient; (6) The ultimate ideal; the highest position; the acme; (7) Nothing wanting; finished; (8) The creator of the desire to attain perfection

Comment: Our imperfection is part of the divine plan. We are designed to grow. God experiences growth through sharing our consciousness and adventures.

Definitions: (1) showing keenness of insight, sympathetic understanding, or intuition; discerning; (2) a quick capacity for comprehending; observant

Too Far: nosy

Quotes: To be is either to be perceived or to perceive. — Bishop George Berkeley (1685-1753) Anglo-Irish Philosopher

If the doors of perception were cleansed, everything would appear as it is: infinite. — William Blake (1757-1827) English Poet

Eskimos see sixteen different forms of ice which are as different to them as trees and shrubs are different to us. Hindus, on the other hand, use the same term for both ice and snow. Creek and Natchez Indians do not distinguish yellow from green. Similarly, Choctaw, Tunica, the Keresian Pueblo Indians and many other people make no terminological distinction between blue and green. The Hopis have no word for time. — Robert Pirsig (1928-2017) Lila

Observation: In our attempt to simplify complex activities or processes, we tend to isolate individual aspects of the system. This is like turning off a movie projector and studying the film one frame at a time. One will get a detailed look at the individual frames, but will never be able to perceive the dynamic spirit or emotional content of the process. Perceiving the micro and the macro separately and then putting them together gives one a larger perspective.

Definition: taking initiative and proceeding with lively energy; vigorously active; high-spirited

Definition: having regret of offense or sin and willingness to atone; contrite

Comment: If you did something you know was wrong, you will eventually see it for what it was, and want to reverse the injury. To feel a need to take positive action is a first step. Yet you may not be able to remove the harm done to a specific person. What you can do is change who you are. Then you will act differently to all.

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Definitions: (1) in a state of mental or physical tranquility, security, or order; (2) quietly behaved; composed; (3) the state of harmony in personal relations; concord between individuals, governments, or organizations; (4) reconciliation between unfriendly parties

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Derivation: Latin, “to agree”

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Synonyms: calm, friendly, gentle, mild, pacific, repose, serene

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Compatible Qualities: compassion, Satyagraha

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Saying: Pax vobiscum (Latin): “Peace be with you.”

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Quotes: [Merlin:] To plant a garden is the chief of the arts of peace. — Mary Stewart (1916 -) The Last Enchantment

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If we cannot adjust our differences peacefully, we are less than human. — Frank Herbert (1920-1986) Heretics of Dune

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Insofar as you have peace in your life, you reflect it into your surroundings and into your world. — Peace Pilgrim [born Mildred Lisette Norman] (1908-1981) Steps Toward Inner Peace

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Peace is empowerment, justice, and the struggle for justice. Peace is personal, relational, local, national, international, global.

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Peace is not found; it is created by continual attention and effort. There is no way to peace, peace is the way. — Abraham J. Muste (1885-1967) American Christian Pacifist

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No leader is going to give us peace, no government, no army, no country. What will bring peace is inward transformation which will lead to outward action. Inward transformation is not isolation, not a withdrawal from outward action. On the contrary, there can be right action only when there is right thinking, and there is no right thinking when there is no self-knowledge....

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Definitions: (1) in a state of mental or physical tranquility, security, or order; (2) quietly behaved; composed; (3) the state of harmony in personal relations; concord between individuals, governments, or organizations; (4) reconciliation between unfriendly parties

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Derivation: Latin, “to agree”

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Synonyms: calm, friendly, gentle, mild, pacific, repose, serene

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Compatible Qualities: compassion, Satyagraha

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Saying: Pax vobiscum (Latin): “Peace be with you.”

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Quotes: [Merlin:] To plant a garden is the chief of the arts of peace. — Mary Stewart (1916 -) The Last Enchantment

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If we cannot adjust our differences peacefully, we are less than human. — Frank Herbert (1920-1986) Heretics of Dune

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Insofar as you have peace in your life, you reflect it into your surroundings and into your world. — Peace Pilgrim [born Mildred Lisette Norman] (1908-1981) Steps Toward Inner Peace

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Peace is empowerment, justice, and the struggle for justice. Peace is personal, relational, local, national, international, global.

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Peace is not found; it is created by continual attention and effort. There is no way to peace, peace is the way. — Abraham J. Muste (1885-1967) American Christian Pacifist

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No leader is going to give us peace, no government, no army, no country. What will bring peace is inward transformation which will lead to outward action. Inward transformation is not isolation, not a withdrawal from outward action. On the contrary, there can be right action only when there is right thinking, and there is no right thinking when there is no self-knowledge....

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Divine Definitions: (1) Ministering to the growth of progressing beings; accommodating the needs of growing children; (2) Steady perseverance in performing all tasks; diligent; (3) Steadfast and consistent action; abiding; (4) Self-controlled; long-suffering; even-tempered; (5) Incapable of being provoked or angered; refraining from retaliation for wrongs committed; forbearing; tolerant; (6) The reliever of anguish

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Comment: The Supreme Being possesses infinite patience. His patience in helping His finite family work out their perfection in time is boundless. He will continue to exhibit ultimate patience until time-space is transcended. After which He still has the patience to offer an infinite number of unimaginable wonders within the absolute.

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PATIENCE
Human Definitions: (1) the will or ability to wait calmly; (2) to endure pain or trouble without complaint, losing control, or making a disturbance; (3) quietly tolerating delay, confusion, or inefficiency; (4) refusing to be provoked or angered by insult; forbearing; (5) ministering to the growth of the uneducated or inexperienced; accommodating the needs of growing children; (6) steadiness, endurance, or perseverance in performing a task; diligent; (7) steadfast and consistent action; abiding; (8) able to relieve grief or anguish
Note: Patience refers to the quietness or self-possession of one’s own spirit; resignation refers to the submission of one’s own will to the will of another.
Note 2: Having the focus to pay attention to something, and being persistent enough to continue to pay attention to it, will develop patience while you are getting it done.

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Quotes:
• Patience ceases to be a virtue when it permits others to waste our time. — Pauline M. Schmidt

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• Patience is easier if you have respect for the person or thing with which...

Definition: fatherly; characteristic of a father or fatherhood <as loyal, supportive, protective, loving, giving, and generous>

See also: Maternal

Symbols: 1) the sun; 2) the umbrella

Definition: (1) characteristic of pleasant rural life; peaceful, simple, and natural; innocent; (2) relating to spiritual care or guidance especially of a congregation

Proverb: A butterfly never hurries – even when pursued. — Chinese

Symbols: 1) the farmer; 2) the shepherd

Fictional Figure: Beulah, the idyllic land of sunshine and delight. — John Bunyan (1628-1688) Pilgrim’s Progress,

Mythological Figures: 1) Cybele, the Phrygian goddess of nature; 2) Demeter, the Greek god of agriculture and fruitfulness; 3) Ceres, the Roman god of agriculture and fruits of the harvest

Definitions: (1) compelled or ruled by intense emotion or strong opinion; fervid; zealous; (2) expressing or showing profound feeling; emotional; enthusiastic; vehement; (3) easily aroused to or influenced by desire; ardently sensual; amorous

Derivation: Latin, “to endure,” “to suffer”

Quote: Indeed, what could reason ever accomplish for mankind by itself, without passion to drive it on? — David Brin (1950 -) Earth

Suggestion: Don’t let your temporary temperature tempt you

Color: bright red

Symbols: 1) blood; 2) a storm

Definitions: (1) worthy of attention and regard; special; not ordinary; noteworthy; (2) extremely careful, detailed, or meticulous; (3) singularly precise in preference; fastidious; (4) unique to an individual; an outstanding characteristic

Synonyms: appropriate, distinct, exact, exclusive

Quote: Everyone has been made for some particular work, and the desire for that work has been put in every heart. — Rumi (1207–1273) Persian Sufi poet

Definition: being or willing to be a part of some enterprise; sharing your life

Quote: For low light, all the light rays participate. We're using all the light coming through a large aperture to make a picture with a large depth of field - totally impossible with a conventional camera.  Ren Ng (1979) Malaysian-American Electrical Engineer
Note: We have "low light" therefore our aperture needs to be very wide open. Our God concept - God consciousness is that openness.

Definition: (1) fatherly or motherly integral characteristics; tender; affectionate; (2) the source from which something is derived

Reflection: One of the ten commandments, "Honor your father and mother."

Observation: One can be the parent of an idea and nurture an ideal.

Tips:
• It is important to know how to let your child learn. Give them the tools, instruction, encouragement, and then the freedom. We all learn differently.
• Notice what talents your child has naturally. Expose them to lots of options. Give your child the benefit of your observations about their talents and interests.

Definition: a model or pattern of excellence or perfection <a paragon of virtue>

People Who Exemplify This Quality: Anyone who lives a high standard is a paragon. Anyone can be an example of goodness simply by being good.

Quote: The Spirit brings order out of chaos and beauty out of ugliness. He can transform a sin-blistered man into a paragon of virtue. The Spirit changes people. The Author of life is also the Transformer of life. — Robert Charles Sproul (1939-2017) American theologian

Definition: dashing elegance of manner; spirited self-confidence; flamboyance; verve, carefree

Historic Figure: Savinien Cyrano de Bergerac (1619-1655) French Dramatist and Novelist
Note: Latin, “small feathered wing” - originally referred to a showy, feathery plume on a hat - latter associated, as a metaphor, for Cyrano’s unflagging verve even in death.

Definition: showing diligent caution and effort; taking great care; paying extra close attention to detail when there is a strong reason not to make any mistakes

Quote: No single achievement in science is possible without the painstaking work of the many hundreds who have built the foundation on which all new work is based. — Polykarp Kusch (1911–1993) German-born American physicist

Definitions: (1) characterizes one who opposes war and the military solution; one who proposes all disputes be settled by arbitration and other means; (2) nonviolent; peaceable

Balancing Qualities: Humor, Luck, Strength

Compatible Qualities: compromising, courage, moral conviction, objectivity, patience

Familial Quality: Satyagraha (Sanskrit): literally “insistence on truth” or “truth force” [pressure for social and political reform through friendly passive resistance]

People Who Exemplify This Quality:
• Mohandas Gandhi (1869-1948) Political and Ideological Leader of India
• The Quakers: The Religious Society of Friends

Inspiration: Leo Tolstoy (1828-1910) at the age of fifty experienced a religious conversion to the Gospel of Peace and lived his last thirty years preaching the ethic of nonviolence.

Comment: To make political pacifism work there must be unity, loyalty, daring, and mutual respect.

Advice: Remember there is personal pacifism and political pacifism. Do not castigate yourself if you are not Gandhi with his combination of personal and political aplomb. Your personal belief, that might does not make right, is laudable. Do what you can in your daily life to live peaceably.

Bibliography: The true story of effective nonviolent resistance to Nazism. The townspeople sheltered, and saved the lives of, many hundreds of Jews even though the penalty was deportation or death. — Philip Paul Hallie (1922-1994) Lest Innocent Blood Be Shed: The Story of The Village of Le Chambon and How Goodness Happened There

Definitions: (1) prominent; conspicuous; striking <outstanding courage>; (2) superior or distinct; excellent; wonderful

People Who Exemplify This Quality: Polymaths (Greek: "having learned much,") A person whose expertise and notable achievements span a significant number of different subject areas [5 to 13+] —such a person is known to draw on complex bodies of knowledge to solve specific problems.

Great among them are: Leonardo da Vinci {Italian}, Gottfried Leibniz {German}, Mikhail Lomonosov {Russian}, Benjamin Franklin {American}, Shen Kuo {Chinese}, Omar Khayyam {Persian}, Nicolaus Copernicus {Polish}, Emanuel Swedenborg {Swedish}.

Definition: interested in and responsive to others; friendly; sociable; gregarious

Quotes:
• Success is a process, a quality of mind and a way of being; an outgoing affirmation of life. — Alex Noble
• You cease to move into yourself, away from others. You give up your antagonism. You begin to move toward others in love. God moved toward you in gracious, outgoing love, and you move toward others in that same outgoing love. — Eli Stanley Jones (1884–1973) American theologian

Definitions: (1) first in order; preceding all others; the beginning; (2) arising or proceeding independently; inventive; novel; (3) thinking or acting in an individual or creative manner

Quotes:
• A mind that’s afraid to toy with the ridiculous will never come up with the brilliantly original.— Glen David Brin (1950 -) Brightness Reef

• The story of man’s ascent from seaweed to the lordship of earthly creation is indeed a romance of biologic struggle and mind survival. Man’s primordial ancestors were literally the slime and ooze of the ocean bed in the sluggish and warm-water bays and lagoons of the vast shore lines of the ancient inland seas. — The Urantia Book (65:2.1)

Definitions: (1) intellectually or emotionally traveling on the right path; (2) having a good sense of direction; (3) knowing where one stands in relation to various moral, political, or religious opinions

Quote: Living is not necessary, but navigation is. — Pompey [born Gnaeus Pompeius Magnus] (106-48 bc) Roman Military and Political Leader

Symbols: 1) sunrise; 2) the east; 3) the North Star; 4) a pyramid [four cardinal directions and a central apex]

Definitions: (1) an orderly and methodical mind; (2) arranging elements into a new whole from interdependent parts; brought into being; (3) brought together for a common objective; cooperative; establish or institute <an organization> for a common purpose; (4) system of organic cosmic order <nature, astronomy, biology, chemistry, physics>

Quotes:
• For every minute spent organizing, an hour is earned. — Benjamin Franklin (1706-1790) American Statesman

• Sometimes we let life guide us, and other times we take life by the horns. But one thing is for sure: no matter how organized we are, or how well we plan, we can always expect the unexpected.  Brandon Jenner (1981-) American actor

Tip: The key to order is putting like objects together.

Suggestion: A simple and effective way of getting organized is by beginning your day making a list and ending it making notes. And mentally prioritize the listed items.

Definitions: (1) methodical; neat; tidy; well-arranged; (2) well-behaved; law-abiding; peaceable; harmonious

Synonyms: regular, systematic

Saying: A place for everything and everything in its place.

Quotes:
• The prime condition of successful activity is order. — Leo Tolstoy (1828-1910) War and Peace

• No minority has a right to block a majority from conducting the legal business of the organization. No majority has a right to prevent a minority from peacefully attempting to become a majority. — Brigadier General Henry Martyn Robert (1837-1923) Robert’s Rules of Order

Comment: We experience such delight when something falls into place. Just as nature abhors a vacuum, nature loves order.

Symbols: 1) the number three {Spiritual Order}; 2) the number seven {Moral or Perfect Order}; 3) the number ten {Universal Order}; 4) the number twelve {Cosmic Order}

Definitions: (1) taking the most hopeful view of matters; expecting the best outcome in any circumstance; looking on the bright side of things; (2) believing that good will ultimately triumph over evil and that virtue will be rewarded

Balancing Qualities: Practical, Realistic

Quotes:
• Optimist: “Daydreamer” more elegantly spelled. — Mark Twain [born Samuel Langhorne Clemens] (1835-1910) Mark Twain’s Notebook

• Some problems are best solved with an optimistic approach. Optimism shines a light on alternatives that are otherwise not visible. — Brian Herbert (1947 -) & Kevin J. Anderson (1962-) Sandworms of Dune

Comment: While listening to a political debate, I realized politicians are caught in a trap of projecting an overly optimistic point of view. The public demands they solve the existing problems. In order to receive the confidence of the electorate, they are compelled to make optimistic promises. Politicians trying to get votes will project an optimistic image no matter what.

Even an honest politician is hampered by trying to meet the requirements of optimism. If the politician does, in all sincerity, believe he or she can accomplish what is promised, then they might be naive. Social problems are so large, diverse, and involved they will take more than a few years to solve. On the other hand, cooperative action will move us toward solutions.

Definition: taking advantage of conditions that are favorable to the attainment of a goal; open to success

Sayings:
• Today’s stumbling blocks are tomorrow’s stepping stones.
• If your “master” is a strong one, then your success as a “slave” is your opportunistic attitude.
• Regrets are temptations fulfilled or opportunities unfulfilled. Learn from both.

Quote: When one door closes another door opens; but we so often look so long and so regretfully upon the closed door, that we do not see the ones which open for us. — Alexander Graham Bell (1847-1922) Scottish-Canadian Inventor

Observation: Problem solvers and risk takers are opportunistic.

Suggestion: If you are not experiencing any difficulties, then appreciate this peaceful time with thankfulness. If your life becomes too placid, you will be happier if you choose to extend yourself with a challenge. When your life is too hectic, take the opportunity to relax. Difficulties can be seen as blessings and hardships as opportunities; each can be an occasion to acquire some positive personal qualities.

Admonition: You never regret the positive things you try. You only regret the things you wish you had done.

If you regret what you have done, then at least you’ve done it and had not been scared away from a difficult but desirable situation. Then again, the regret may be, as often is the case, not the fact of the action but the immature way or imperfect manner in which you attempted it. Forgiveness and reflective thought are the transforming mechanisms which can change regret into a positive learning process (even if all you’ve learned is that you don’t want to do it again).

Definitions: : generous; liberal; munificent (alternate spelling - open-handed)

Symbol: the removal of the right glove

Consideration: The previous generations, but especially our parent and grandparents, have handed down their material wealth, their hard earned wisdom, and their genuine love to us.

Definitions: (1) receptive to new ideas; (2) free from bigotry or prejudice; (3) willing to communicate or debate a point impartially (alternate spelling = open-minded)

Compatible Qualities: decisive, focused

Too Far: filterless
Note: If a person accepts anything and everything presented to them without question or concern for contradiction, they would be a perfect tool for manipulation.

Saying: Minds are like parachutes; they only function when open.

Quotes:
• An open mind, like an open window, should be screened to keep the bugs out. — Virginia Hutchison

• Science at its best is an open-minded method of inquiry, not a belief system. — Alfred Rupert Sheldrake (1942-) Parapsychology researcher

Definitions: (1) candid; frank; (2) generous; kind; benevolent (alternate spelling = open-hearted)

Too Far: bleeding hearted

Quote: Keep your head up, your heart open, stay on a positive path, and the right people will come along and join you on it. ― Mandy Hale; American Author

Definitions: (1) receptive; not closed to new ideas; (2) generous; liberal; (3) frank; candid; direct; honest; (4) ready to do, hear, see or accept; fully prepared; attentive; (5) allowing approach, view, passage, or access; available; (6) not secret or hidden; (7) expanded; unfolded

Compatible Quality: discerning

Too Far: gullible

Reflection: There are those who say you are already all you need to be or will ever be; that all you need to do is allow it; just be open and don’t get in your own way. It may be, especially in hindsight, that the best way was open to you all along.

Comment: People are fond of saying, “I went into this philosophy or idea with a healthy skepticism – I even wanted to prove it wrong – but, in the end, I was convinced it was correct.” An honest skepticism prevents you from being naive, but a healthy openness helps you grow.

Sincere openness may have you taken in by a plausible idea. Until you learn, you may even be too trusting. You may look the fool because you were willing to be open, but you also are respected for your honor and your willingness to gain from experience; unlike the hardened skeptic who, because of fear, kept closed.

Advice: Give other people’s belief systems a healthy respect. Be open to their sense of reality and order. Their experience and sincerity are putting together a personal subjective puzzle. Realize you and they are evolving and expanding. Tomorrow you may stand with them on more compatible ground because of the compassion you showed toward them today.

Definitions: (1) all is acceptable with your physical, mental, or emotional state; satisfactory; adequate; sufficient; (2) permissible, (3) safe and sound; (4) estimable, likable, or dependable

Quote: Sometimes it's okay to give yourself a pat on the back and say, 'That was cool. That made me feel good.' — Sebastian Stan (1982-) Romanian-American actor