Definitions: (1) possessing an affable manner; genial; courteous; (2) suave; urbane; worldly; (3) jaunty; cheerful; lively; carefree

Derivation: Old French, “of good disposition”

Comment: A boy who is naturally (genetically) debonair is not aware he is special even though his mates treat him with a little more respect or envy. He can grow up and feel privileged or he can treat everyone else with the same deference he enjoys.