Ladylike

Definition: possessing elegant manners; genteel; refined; polite; well-spoken
     Note: All qualities are gender neutral. The traits described in the definitions are universally applicable.
     See also: Gentlemanly

Saying: A man dreams of conquering the world. Does a woman dream of any less? — Chinese

Quotes: Truth is a demure lady, much too ladylike to knock you on your head and drag you to her cave. She is there, but people must want her, and seek her out. — William Francis Buckley, Jr. (1925–2008) American conservative writer