Definitions: (1) more focus on the interest and needs of others than oneself; (2) finding a good balance between self-interest and the requirements of others
Compatible Quality: humility
Quotes:
• Self-forgetfulness in creativity can lead to self-transcendence. — Sylvia Constance Ashton-Warner (1908–1984) New Zealand novelist, poet, pianist, & teacher of children
• There is joy in self-forgetfulness. So, I try to make the light in others’ eyes my sun, the music in others’ ears my symphony, the smile on others’ lips my happiness. — Helen Keller (1880-1968) American author & lecturer (blind and deaf from 19 months old)
Observation: If one can witness their thoughts objectively, one can look at them from a hands-width perspective.