Definitions: (1) possessing a refined sense of observation; capable of discerning the finer points of things; (2) delicately skillful or clever; artful craftsmanship; cunning; (3) having a keen insight and ability to penetrate deeply and thoroughly; astute; discriminating


• What do I have to offer?

• How can I love this other person?

• What form of love does this person need?

• How subtle should I be with my generosity?

Note: Be willing to see the person’s value and respect their individual need.