Read between the lines.
Talk slowly but think quickly.
Don’t believe all that you hear.
Silence is sometimes the best answer.
Never interrupt when you are being flattered.
Remember the 3 R’s: respect for self; respect of others; responsibility for your actions.
–Author Unknown
There are a whole range of things we should Focus our attention on. Listening accurately is one of the most important. First concentrate on it; repeat as often as you can remember to do so; and eventually you will make a habit of it. Listening is complicated. Read the suggestions above and know each person delivers information differently. We also receive it differently, so when you speak (write, do a piece of art, etc.) you must also take into consideration how they understand.
Peace,
Jim
FOCUSED
Definitions: (1) brought into the center of attention; (2) intently fixed on one object or purpose; concentrated; (3) cooperation with or by a group on a particular activity
Compatible Qualities: determined, motivated
Parental Qualities: disciplined, joyful
Familial Qualities: attentive, thorough
Quote:
This feeling of “becoming” the experience is made possible by connecting more fully and feeling the experience on a more intimate level. — Terry Orlick, Ph.D. (1948 – ) Positive Living Skills, Joy and Focus for Everyone
LISTENER
Definition: a person who hears what is said; one who pays careful attention to everything <but especially to people>
Comment: A good listener understands not only the words but also the meaning and intent of the speaker. A good listener hears with thoughtful attentiveness because the other person is worthy of respect. A good listener will also try to remember what was said hoping to incorporate the best of it in their own realm of reason.
Consider the Source
