Change your thoughts, change your life. — Dr. Wayne Dyer (1940–) Motivational Speaker
Well is a simple and oft used word with more meanings you would initially attribute to it. Veracity is a positive quality related to truth.
I wish you well,
Jim
WELL
VERACIOUS
Synonym: veridical
Consider the Source
Life is a self fulfilling prophecy, and you usually get what you expect. — Denis E. Waitley (1933-) Motivational Speaker
All positive qualities can grow from where they are. If one has achieved a modicum of Eminence, there is always more to realize – physically, mentally, emotionally, and especially, spiritually. One of the accomplishments is the balance of qualities possessed either by increasing one or more or by adding some positive character trait needed. An example of this balance would be the humility of Self-possession if one has (or wishes to have) some sort of fame.
Peace,
Jim
EMINENT
Synonyms: celebrated, exalted, famous, illustrious, noteworthy
SELF-POSSESSED
Symbol: the cloak
Consider the Source
You are what you pay attention to. — The River That Runs Uphill, William H. Calvin (1939-) Neurologist
Peace,
Jim
ELEGANT
SUBTLE
Questions:
• What do I have to offer?
• How can I love this other person?
• What form of love does this person need?
• How subtle should I be with my generosity?
Note: Be willing to see the other person’s value and respect their individual need.
Remember that silence is sometimes the best answer.
Read between the lines.
— Author Unknown
Our ability to sense, or even see, the future means we can “look before we leap.” Experience, but also wisdom and Aspiration, come into play with our goal setting. The future we envision for ourselves will be modified by our assumptions of what is possible. But what is Sensible? Alexander the Great saw the solidification of the Roman empire. Jesus, the clarification who God the Father is. We are capable of more than we think, especially spiritually if we do not let our own filters (see comment below) interfere.
Peace,
Jim
ASPIRING
Definitions: (1) to long, aim, or seek ambitiously <especially for something great or of high value>; (2) ascending; soaring
SENSIBLE
Definitions: (1) possessing good judgment or common sense; containing reasonable intelligence; wise; (2) capable of being perceived by the senses; capable of exciting physical sensation; (3) having appreciation or understanding; cognizant; emotionally or intellectually conscious; aware
Quote:
A match may start a fire, but once the fire is burning, putting out the match won’t stop it. The problem is no longer the match. It’s the fire. — Michael Crichton (1942-2008) The Terminal Man
Comment:
In order for us to allow a new thought to penetrate our minds it must to make sense. In other words, it has to pass through our filter systems.
Everyone has six basic filters.
1. Learning – solidified by study and reaffirmation
a) Childhood instruction
b) Tradition, Custom
c) Group affiliation, e.g. school, church, patriotism, team, hero worship
Consider the Source
The goal of life is living in harmony with nature. — Zeno of Citium, (335–263 B.C.) Philosopher
One may feel Fulfilled temporarily if their desire or goal is satisfied. But with an attitude of gratitude; when we are Attentive to the ideal values, we can hold on to our feeling of joyful expectations most of the time – even when things seem to be going badly.
Peace,
Jim
FULFILLED
Definitions: (1) characterizes one whose expectations have been realized or satisfied; accomplished; (2) brought to an end; performed
Comment: When one accomplishes one’s desires (a form of self-love) then one feels fulfilled, especially if it is done unselfishly.
Symbol: a single rose
ATTENTIVE
Definitions: (1) a person who hears what is said with careful interest; a good listener; (2) characterized by thoughtful regard or focus; mindful; observant; (3) heedful of the comfort of others; courteous; polite
Synonyms: intent, watchful
Compatible Qualities: curiosity, stick-to-itive
Parental Quality: conscious
Familial Qualities: alert, awake, aware, concentration, focus, motivated
Consequential Quality: fair
Sayings:
Arrectis auribus (Latin):
Where attention goes, energy flows. pay attention’re driving, pay attention to where you’re going.
Exercise: How good is your attention span? How long can you stare at an inanimate object? What does your mind do while you are looking at it? Do you think of its various aspects: size, shape, color, texture, taste, memory of use?
On the other hand, how long can you be interested in an animate scene? Witness how long you can sit in front of an electronic screen. The degree to which you are absorbed in the action has a lot to do with your interest in the subject, the characters, and your curiosity of the outcome. Advertisers prepare, with a great deal of effort, their commercials to take advantage of the attentiveness of the paying public.
Are you motivated to keep your focus on what you need to? Is the object of your attention stimulating? Are you hungry, thirsty, or sleepy? Are you healthy? Are you in a competitive mode? All of these will affect your ability to be attentive.
Transforming is effortless because there is nothing to be done, there is only someone to be. — Transformers, Jacquelyn Small, Author
Some qualities are so well-linked they seem as one. This happens to all qualities eventually. Justice and mercy may not be fused perfectly except in God, but Sincerity and Luminosity are naturally & mutually reactive. Shine your light with your sincere attitude.
Peace,
Jim
LUMINOUS
Definitions: (1) radiating or reflecting light; shining; bright; (2) intellectually brilliant; readily intelligible; (3) enlightened or enlightening; clear
Symbol: Aquarius (zodiac)
SINCERE
Definitions: (1) being the same in actual character as in outward appearance; genuine; real; (2) simple and straightforward innocence; (3) truthful and honest; without deceit, pretense, or hypocrisy; (4) faithful
Saying: Ex animo (Latin):
Quote: Sincerity is the single virtue that binds divinity and man in one. — Senge Takatomi (1845-1918) Japanese Shinto Philosopher
Comment: The primary quality saving a person from being an out and out fool is sincerity.
Consideration: There are some crucial qualities, a class of qualities one really cannot do without. First on the list would be sincerity. If you are sincere in your attempt to do the right thing – however you define it – you are succeeding in a very important aspect.
Advice: If you are motivated by, and have a genuine sincerity in what you do, you should never feel guilty. If you choose correctly, it will reinforce the positive. If you choose incorrectly, you will learn there is a better way. And if it is some of both, you will get to experience them both and learn what was right and what was wrong.
Color: blue
Causes and effects are a result of thought. — Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance, Robert M. Pirsig (1928-) Philosopher
There are lots of different and appropriate ways to be Affectionate with almost everyone. A respectful attitude while truely listening to another is a good start. A smile almost always works. Genuine complements are usually appreciated. Over the long haul being Steady and sincere gives others the idea that you are someone who can be trusted.
Peace,
Jim
STEADY
Definition: firm, constant, or resolute in mind, purpose, pursuit, or principle; controlled and stable
Compatible Quality: dependable
AFFECTIONATE
Definitions: (1) having great love or friendliness; fondness; (2) proceeding from or indicating love; benevolent; (3) tender feeling; warm regard
Synonyms: ardent, devoted, earnest, kind
Symbols: 1) a hug; 2) a kiss
We can have more than we’ve got because we can become more than we are. — Jim Rohn (1930-) Author
One may behave in a Seemly manner, as the definition indicates “with reference to conventional standards of conduct,” and yet the standard could need updating. The apostles were shocked that Jesus would speak with Nalda, a woman, a Samaritan, and a person of seemingly questionable character. Yet he knew her soul was sincerely longing for salvation. We cannot see as clearly as the Master, but we can be Open-minded enough to know we all have souls – even it they be small, they can be growing.
Peace,
Jim
OPEN‑MINDED
Definitions: (1) receptive to new ideas; (3) free from bigotry or prejudice; (3) willing to communicate or debate a point impartially
Compatible Qualities: decisive, focused
Too Far: filterless
Note: If a person accepts anything and everything presented to them without question or concern for contradiction, they would be a perfect tool for manipulation.
Saying: Minds are like parachutes; they only function when open.
SEEMLY
Definitions: (1) suitable, fitting, or becoming <especially with reference to conventional standards of conduct or good taste>; decent; decorous; (2) having a pleasing or proper appearance; fair; handsome
Synonyms: appropriate, congruous
We are what we pretend to be. — Kurt Vonnegut (1922-2007) Author
We all have some Fine qualities. As we refine them, they Cozy up to each other coalescing in a family of values we show to ourselves and to the rest of the world.
Peace,
Jim
COZY
Definitions: (1) enjoying or affording warmth and ease; snug; (2) marked by the intimacy of the family or a close group
FINE
Definitions: (1) of superior or the best quality; of high or highest grade; excellent; (2) characterized by refinement or elegance; polished; (3) sophisticated in appearance; smart; (4) good‑looking; handsome; (5) delicate in texture or workmanship; performed with extreme care and accuracy; (6) showing subtle ability or nicety; discriminating; (7) physically trained or hardened close to the limit of efficiency; healthy; highly skilled or accomplished
Synonyms: attractive, beautiful, choice, dainty, rare, showy
Who wills, can.
Who tries, does.
Who loves, lives.
— Dragon Flight, Anne McCaffrey (1926-2011) Author
This is a good example of how qualities work together for the greatest good. A person who thinks themselves extra Extraordinary will hold themselves above others. But add a good measure of Humility and they will see themselves from a higher perspective.
Pax,
Jim
EXTRAORDINARY
Definition: going beyond what is usual, regular, or customary
Derivation: It is interesting that this word is made by combining two words that by themselves would not be considered anything out of the ordinary: extra and ordinary. Put them together, add a personality, and you do get someone truly special.
HUMBLE
Definitions: (1) modest or meek in temperament; free from pride or vanity; (2) respectful
Synonyms: unassuming, unobtrusive, unpretentious
Familial Quality: humor
Quotes:
Lay first the foundation of humility. — Saint Augustine of Hippo (354-430) Roman Theologian
The sage has no interest of his own, but takes the interests of the people as his own. He is kind to the kind; he is also kind to the unkind: for Virtue is kind. He is faithful to the faithful; he is also faithful to the unfaithful: for Virtue is faithful. — Lao-tse (6th Century bc) Chinese Theologian
Prayer:
We humbly ask God (as we understand the concept) to remove our shortcomings. — Number seven of the Alcoholics Anonymous twelve‑step program.
Observation: One of the opposites of humility is conceit. And, of course, adding humility to your character traits will greatly reduce negative arrogance. But how to acquire humility. A sure fire way to gain humility is to see yourself in relation to a greater reality. This could be God or nature or even physics. But it has to be someone or something you respect and cannot help but be very impressed with. Once a person sees themselves in a larger context they will have the ability (and maybe the will) to see themselves as they truly are.
Symbol: shoes